So far so good - just wish the pace becomes a little faster, kind of drags at points. And I am here for Rowoon (one of my main reasons) - especially since he was supposed to have a role different from his usually puppy-love acts. But I am missing it - the cold person is so not him 🤣🤣🤣 and looks like now that he's under the spell - the puppy love will be back!
So possibly dead-ex girlfriend was a psycho also? Geez the similarity in her and her brother.Also, I knew Kang…
I am thinking the same, maybe not the murderer but she's definitely involved or knows something. Maybe she's keeping her away or locked up somewhere, thinking by doing so she's protecting her son and her reputation. OR maybe she did that to have a hold over her son, in order to make him do things her way?
I guess now that Do Ha is dating Sol Hee, she might try something to her as well since she's inquiring about her.
Guess this is why the FL's father is back or rather he's shown again. So that anytime - either side's mothers try something, cause they definitely will - the father can somehow help them out.
The drama is becoming complex and I really am liking it as they peel it layer by layer every episode and not keep it for the end. But then I also pray that they execute it well, cause it has a lot of potential now - with the social commentary. relationships - parental and romantic, eventual healing, murder mystery and political games.
kim-doha’s ex girlfriend was crazy narcissistic! i can’t stand her attitude, lol 🫠
I thought she was more insecure than narcissist. Like the way her behavior is towards Do Ha and overall interfering in his private life.
It is a sad attitude and seems like it stemmed somewhere due to her brother (if the encounter of Do Ha & Brother in Ep 9 is to go by regarding the reference to "her Dream").
And yes, definitely scary - just imagine had this been in real life. Someone obsessed with you that they throttle your way of live under the garb of love. Trust issues and insecurities can lead to that, but there's a way to manage it. Unfortunately looks like many people don't know how to be supportive of their partner and learn to trust them - maybe that's why this drama is highlighting that!
Commentary for Ep 9 below - there were so many cute moments and some explanations that I need to share it out…
1) The Kiss: Omg! After so many almost kiss situations, where the electricity/attraction was so palpable but they did not do it making me almost die! But then they kiss after that confession which was so unexpected. Like you would usually have a slow kiss after such a confession - but no BAM! what an intense kiss. And I am so loving it that finally K-Dramas don't have those cardboard kisses anymore!
2) The mystery unravels: Have commented & discussed with other MDLers on what theories could be for the missing girlfriend's mystery and if Do Ha is actually lying or not. Usually dramas would drag it out - like the FL would be conflicted whether the ML is lying or not, but here we have all the explanations - like that's so different from the usual workings of K-dramas. Not sure if I like it or not - cause now am confused if we have all the answers, then how will the drama end? Got to wait and watch.
Things that are still to be answered and am excited to know: - What will Do Ha's mother do? Trample over her son's happiness to get her way? Like harm the FL? - What is the FL's mother upto? We have definitely not seen the last of her, nor the SML - FL's father is back! I respect him a lot as a actor, he's such a familiar face in dramas - let's see how his role will pan out now - Syaon's cringe behavior has gone down (thankfully) but she still remains the same with not much character development - Deuk Chan's wife is cheating on him? OMG why do we have this plot - will he be using the lie detection services of our FL?
Commentary for Ep 9 below - there were so many cute moments and some explanations that I need to share it out here *excited*
I am still trying to keep my expectations of this drama a little low, cause I have been burnt in the past. But it really makes Mondays/Tuesdays a little more brighter - and I can't believe I would wait for this drama every week. Last I had such a feel it was for Mr Queen - but then that's a Masterpiece for me!
I know 2 episodes is too early rate a drama, so sharing some of my thoughts here about this drama.
Have been excited about this drama and the pairing - cause of the interesting plot summary, and the lead pair of Rowoon and Jo Bo Ah. Hence anyone reading this - please don't be deterred in your plans to watch this drama, like you am expecting this to only get better week on week 🤞🏼. Just that maybe I had such high expectations, 2-3 aspects so far in these 2 episodes have made me write this comment:
1) Writing the FL's character: In general, it is very rare to find a female character that is written very well and appeals to a larger audience. I blame this on our still very patriarchal society. Not saying we need a feminist heroine here, but even rom-coms could have a female character who is strong, cool, suave while can be equally naive, bring out the cute aegyo charms. It does not have to be either or, a person can be multifaceted. Cause the writers have no issue doing that with most of the male characters we have seen and see in dramaland.
I have seen and fell in love with Jo Bo Ah in The Idle Mermaid, my first K-drama of hers. Admit, that I have seen only 2-3 other works of her after that, but that character defines Jo Bo Ah for me. There she flawlessly brought a character who was smitten with her crush, and she did some cute antics to get his attention - but at the same time she was not a damsel in distress, but rather quite outspoken anytime anyone tried to bring her down. The woman took a stand in life and love, basically.
Idk, why the writers here are not using that aspect and her talent - but rather making her look like an airhead, who is smitten with a guy (no background here either, which is my next point), randomly cries, randomly accepts the mysterious box. It is such contrast from the male leads in this drama - who though not perfect, at least are making their character believable and have that certain air of command/ Wish the FLs get that too as the series progresses.
2) Lack of Explanations: Any drama, but especially ones that deal with past lives/supernatural etc - definitely need some backstory/or hints/clues to let us know why the story is moving in this direction or a character behaving the way they do.
For eg: There was no explanation about the FL and SML acquaintanceship, no build up and suddenly she likes him and blocking water throws for him. Not much background or flashback to understand more about the shamam/shrine and what's the role of ML's family in it.
I know it could be too early - but then characters are still taking actions and it just seems illogical or random. Also, the pacing is not very tight so that adrenaline rush is also missing for us to be truly enveloped in the sense of mystery and the supernatural.
Hopefully, in the coming episodes, these things will get better. I am liking though not loving yet - Rowoon's complete 180 contrast from usual puppy roles to this cold (but secretly caring perhaps) role. He is afterall 70-80% the reason I wanted to see this drama after the hit that Tomorrow and Extraordinary You was for me!
Fingers crossed, hoping my expectations on this drama are not misplaced! 🤞🏼
from my experience in dramas ALL THE GRIM REAPERS ARE HANSOME😍
Agree with both you you - Onna and Stevie70, Always so handsome so that we willingly go with them...when the time comes and be less scared/confused of the entire ordeal...
I just finished this and couldn't agree more. I can't believe I finished. This was a dud carried by a stud.
That's a great way to put it - a dud carried by a stud. But even that could not save us from the eventual heartbreak 😭 Hopefully we have better luck with our next dramas!
The first scene when Rowoon shows up, and Jo Bo Ah is like "The Grim Reaper" is handsome, I am like WHAAAT - is he continuing his Grim Reaper internship here as well carried over from Tomorrow? 🤣🤣🤣
P.S. I actually watched some best/fav episodes from Tomorrow just yesterday to see Rowoon cause I have been highly anticipating this drama, Destined with You!
I did not understand what did Kwon Jae Kyung mean when he said it's written on your face to Lee Hong Jo, when she asked him how did he know that she has been tasked with the demolition of the shrine?
Also, why are they talking like they are old friends?
After Do Ha literally made Syaon a star (no matter the talent of hers, right marketing and songwriting is important),…
I guess it just caters to different audiences and the writers cannot please everybody.
In fact you and I are examples - you found On Your Wedding Day having a bad ending. I love that movie, cause for me I see it as a very realistic and happy ending, something I can even see happening in real life.
I have not seen the other dramas mentioned, so I can't comment.
Afterall dramas/movies are art - their interpretation can be therefore, subjective. In fact some dramas that I used to love at starting of my drama watching, might not make me feel the same anymore. It changes person to person and time to time.
Maybe this is the case for My Lovely Liar as well. I just am hoping it is not a heartbreak like other recent dramas have been for me. So far I personally like it (not love it) and hope it stays the same/becomes better as we finish the drama 😊
I have a theory on this - writing it as a comment in spoiler tag below.I believe many who are watching the show…
Omggg! I love this, my friend - Naruto is not just an anime, it is life for me. And to quote this so beautifully in this regard just made it more special! This just made my day! 😍😍😍 Thank you!
In fact the nerd in me wants to quote something similar but from Shakespeare's Julius Caesar (another favorite, cause of school :P) Antony says, "The evil that men do lives after them; The good is oft interrèd with their bones". In the case of this drama, we do not know who is the bad person but can see that someone (Do Ha) has to live with it, no matter how much good they do and are trying to move beyond their past.
After Do Ha literally made Syaon a star (no matter the talent of hers, right marketing and songwriting is important),…
Hoping the writers hear us, here too :P
Chi Hoon is shown as really crazy over her, but I hope it is not to the point of being illogical and be blind to her clingy obsessive behaviour towards Do Ha.
I am hoping it would not be the case, or even if it is - he will be angry at her cause he is getting close to Do Ha as well. And of course he respects Sol Hee as his boss/friend. So no matter how much he loves Syaon as a fan - I think if she tries to come between Do Ha and Sol Hee, Chi Hoon would not stand for it.
And if they do get together, I hope it is when Syaon has genuinely become a better person.
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And I am here for Rowoon (one of my main reasons) - especially since he was supposed to have a role different from his usually puppy-love acts. But I am missing it - the cold person is so not him 🤣🤣🤣 and looks like now that he's under the spell - the puppy love will be back!
I guess now that Do Ha is dating Sol Hee, she might try something to her as well since she's inquiring about her.
Guess this is why the FL's father is back or rather he's shown again.
So that anytime - either side's mothers try something, cause they definitely will - the father can somehow help them out.
The drama is becoming complex and I really am liking it as they peel it layer by layer every episode and not keep it for the end. But then I also pray that they execute it well, cause it has a lot of potential now - with the social commentary. relationships - parental and romantic, eventual healing, murder mystery and political games.
Really looking forward to the next few weeks!
It is a sad attitude and seems like it stemmed somewhere due to her brother (if the encounter of Do Ha & Brother in Ep 9 is to go by regarding the reference to "her Dream").
And yes, definitely scary - just imagine had this been in real life. Someone obsessed with you that they throttle your way of live under the garb of love. Trust issues and insecurities can lead to that, but there's a way to manage it. Unfortunately looks like many people don't know how to be supportive of their partner and learn to trust them - maybe that's why this drama is highlighting that!
Omg! After so many almost kiss situations, where the electricity/attraction was so palpable but they did not do it making me almost die! But then they kiss after that confession which was so unexpected. Like you would usually have a slow kiss after such a confession - but no BAM! what an intense kiss. And I am so loving it that finally K-Dramas don't have those cardboard kisses anymore!
2) The mystery unravels:
Have commented & discussed with other MDLers on what theories could be for the missing girlfriend's mystery and if Do Ha is actually lying or not. Usually dramas would drag it out - like the FL would be conflicted whether the ML is lying or not, but here we have all the explanations - like that's so different from the usual workings of K-dramas. Not sure if I like it or not - cause now am confused if we have all the answers, then how will the drama end?
Got to wait and watch.
Things that are still to be answered and am excited to know:
- What will Do Ha's mother do? Trample over her son's happiness to get her way? Like harm the FL?
- What is the FL's mother upto? We have definitely not seen the last of her, nor the SML
- FL's father is back! I respect him a lot as a actor, he's such a familiar face in dramas - let's see how his role will pan out now
- Syaon's cringe behavior has gone down (thankfully) but she still remains the same with not much character development
- Deuk Chan's wife is cheating on him? OMG why do we have this plot - will he be using the lie detection services of our FL?
So many things to look forward to!
I am still trying to keep my expectations of this drama a little low, cause I have been burnt in the past. But it really makes Mondays/Tuesdays a little more brighter - and I can't believe I would wait for this drama every week. Last I had such a feel it was for Mr Queen - but then that's a Masterpiece for me!
Have been excited about this drama and the pairing - cause of the interesting plot summary, and the lead pair of Rowoon and Jo Bo Ah. Hence anyone reading this - please don't be deterred in your plans to watch this drama, like you am expecting this to only get better week on week 🤞🏼. Just that maybe I had such high expectations, 2-3 aspects so far in these 2 episodes have made me write this comment:
1) Writing the FL's character:
In general, it is very rare to find a female character that is written very well and appeals to a larger audience. I blame this on our still very patriarchal society. Not saying we need a feminist heroine here, but even rom-coms could have a female character who is strong, cool, suave while can be equally naive, bring out the cute aegyo charms. It does not have to be either or, a person can be multifaceted. Cause the writers have no issue doing that with most of the male characters we have seen and see in dramaland.
I have seen and fell in love with Jo Bo Ah in The Idle Mermaid, my first K-drama of hers. Admit, that I have seen only 2-3 other works of her after that, but that character defines Jo Bo Ah for me. There she flawlessly brought a character who was smitten with her crush, and she did some cute antics to get his attention - but at the same time she was not a damsel in distress, but rather quite outspoken anytime anyone tried to bring her down. The woman took a stand in life and love, basically.
Idk, why the writers here are not using that aspect and her talent - but rather making her look like an airhead, who is smitten with a guy (no background here either, which is my next point), randomly cries, randomly accepts the mysterious box. It is such contrast from the male leads in this drama - who though not perfect, at least are making their character believable and have that certain air of command/ Wish the FLs get that too as the series progresses.
2) Lack of Explanations:
Any drama, but especially ones that deal with past lives/supernatural etc - definitely need some backstory/or hints/clues to let us know why the story is moving in this direction or a character behaving the way they do.
For eg: There was no explanation about the FL and SML acquaintanceship, no build up and suddenly she likes him and blocking water throws for him. Not much background or flashback to understand more about the shamam/shrine and what's the role of ML's family in it.
I know it could be too early - but then characters are still taking actions and it just seems illogical or random. Also, the pacing is not very tight so that adrenaline rush is also missing for us to be truly enveloped in the sense of mystery and the supernatural.
Hopefully, in the coming episodes, these things will get better. I am liking though not loving yet - Rowoon's complete 180 contrast from usual puppy roles to this cold (but secretly caring perhaps) role. He is afterall 70-80% the reason I wanted to see this drama after the hit that Tomorrow and Extraordinary You was for me!
Fingers crossed, hoping my expectations on this drama are not misplaced! 🤞🏼
Always so handsome so that we willingly go with them...when the time comes and be less scared/confused of the entire ordeal...
But even that could not save us from the eventual heartbreak 😭
Hopefully we have better luck with our next dramas!
P.S. I actually watched some best/fav episodes from Tomorrow just yesterday to see Rowoon cause I have been highly anticipating this drama, Destined with You!
Also, why are they talking like they are old friends?
I will take your word and watch it. In case it is a tear-jerker, I will come back to you and share my sorrows 🤣
In fact you and I are examples - you found On Your Wedding Day having a bad ending. I love that movie, cause for me I see it as a very realistic and happy ending, something I can even see happening in real life.
I have not seen the other dramas mentioned, so I can't comment.
Afterall dramas/movies are art - their interpretation can be therefore, subjective. In fact some dramas that I used to love at starting of my drama watching, might not make me feel the same anymore. It changes person to person and time to time.
Maybe this is the case for My Lovely Liar as well.
I just am hoping it is not a heartbreak like other recent dramas have been for me. So far I personally like it (not love it) and hope it stays the same/becomes better as we finish the drama 😊
Like the writers played us dirty with the Ep 8 ending 😅😅😅
Well sort of! 😉
This just made my day! 😍😍😍 Thank you!
In fact the nerd in me wants to quote something similar but from Shakespeare's Julius Caesar (another favorite, cause of school :P) Antony says, "The evil that men do lives after them; The good is oft interrèd with their bones". In the case of this drama, we do not know who is the bad person but can see that someone (Do Ha) has to live with it, no matter how much good they do and are trying to move beyond their past.
Chi Hoon is shown as really crazy over her, but I hope it is not to the point of being illogical and be blind to her clingy obsessive behaviour towards Do Ha.
I am hoping it would not be the case, or even if it is - he will be angry at her cause he is getting close to Do Ha as well. And of course he respects Sol Hee as his boss/friend. So no matter how much he loves Syaon as a fan - I think if she tries to come between Do Ha and Sol Hee, Chi Hoon would not stand for it.
And if they do get together, I hope it is when Syaon has genuinely become a better person.