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Replying to JMLovesBL Jun 20, 2025
Here's to blindly hoping for those gears to STOP. I will not tolerate lazy writing for this amazing cast. But,…
My plans exactly! The right arrow button on my keyboard shall be put to very good use if the worst were to come to pass!
Replying to heavenski Jun 19, 2025
Yes. Call me based on my position in bed. No biggie
Lol. As a proud bottom boi (most of the time), I agree!
On Ball Boy Tactics Jun 19, 2025
PSA to the gays out there: You don't need to be anyone's secret.

By all means, let others take their time to come out of the closet, and work things through in their own time, and their own terms. Doesn't mean you have to go back into the closet with them. Even for love.
Replying to Leticevic Jun 19, 2025
Ep 7 is going to be hard but ep 8 will be better, right ?
Luckily for us, they both get released at the same time! Hallelujah!
Replying to Dar20 Jun 19, 2025
Yes thats the biggest gripe i have with K bls we get these great pairings and chemistry but those actors Rarely…
Things might be changing. One of the leads from Where Your Eyes Linger has just starred in the remake of The Wedding Banquet, and Nam Yoon Su might do another gay project soon. I didn't think I'd see the day when KBL characters have a proper kiss, let alone use the word "gay". Let's hope the trend continues...
On Ball Boy Tactics Jun 19, 2025
This show is groundbreaking in so many ways: the real kisses, the prolonged intimacy, and above all, when Jeong U says, "I'm gay, or maybe bi".

And, of course, I'm hopelessly in love with Jeong U.

However, I see the gears of lazy writing kicking in already. We're going to have a manufactured crisis next week, aren't we, replete with miscommunication, noble idiot syndrome, and a last-minute reconciliation? I'm so bored of these.
Replying to Kyubin Jun 19, 2025
It's like I'm under a spell every time Choi Jae Hyeok is on screen. I hope this role will bring him many casting…
I've been watching purely for him. But I was gobsmacked this morning to hear the word "gay" uttered in a KBL -- thereby breaking one of the biggest taboos in BL. I'm still searching for my lower jaw on the floor.
Replying to Jk_adramaobssessed Jun 19, 2025
For real! That series was such a disappointment. It sucks because the two had such amazing chemistry. I loved…
Yes, the contrast couldn't be greater. Heesu did everything possible to erase and hide the gayness of its protagonists -- to the extent of putting straight people at the heart of the narrative. By contrast, as I say above, this is the first time in KBL -- so far as I can remember -- a character has explicitly identified as "gay". This is such a big deal that it feels almost revolutionary. Hang on... I need to take a photo of the pig flying across my window.
Replying to FreshKicks Jun 19, 2025
Hugs really are the missing element in so many series! And here they hug with the whole body, the way real people…
Oh, what about the planking sex, so beloved of Thai BLs, where no part of their bodies touch! You'd never know that the top was topping... half the time, I assume that the actor is just trying to improve his core strength, and waiting for someone to hand him a protein shake.
On Ball Boy Tactics Jun 19, 2025
Did a character in a KBL just identify as "gay"? Did they in fact *use* the word "gay"? Did I just see a pig fly across my window? Are KBLs finally growing up?
Replying to Gian Jun 19, 2025
it's from Mainland China but it's not airing in China, that's why they don't need to censor anything this is not…
As always, we can rely on you to be informed about Chinese/Taiwanese BLs! Thank you for your detailed reply. Yes, I have seen quite a few of them: but what struck my attention was that a couple of them of late have been more explicitly romantic than "bromantic" (yuck). Like Blue Canvas and, from the looks of it, this one. I suppose your first sentence answers the question I had: I just hope there aren't any negative consequences for actors/crew for taking part in them.
Replying to FreshKicks Jun 17, 2025
Title My Stubborn
Ironically, there's a whole subset of BL fans who don't like seeing two men have sex. For them, BL is about crushing…
Preach!!!!
On Revenged Love Jun 16, 2025
I've seen a few BLs from China popping up of late. Has the censorship somewhat relented, or have the producers found creative ways to make them by moving the production/producers outside China?

Meanwhile, is this any good?
Replying to Strange_Brew Jun 16, 2025
Title My Stubborn
What in the 5 o'clock shadow wasTHAT?!!? :'DI saw spoilers. I saw edits. I read comments.I was NOT READY! 80 :'DDECEASED.…
It deserves a 12 o'clock shade, for sure!
Replying to Honglou Meng Jun 16, 2025
Title My Stubborn
The power dynamic in the show flows entirely in one direction: Sorn is the older guy, Jun's boss, and is more…
Oh no, I didn't say that at all, or implied it! I don't think any consent was violated, and I don't think Jun was ever unwilling (as I say below). I meant 'initiation' more in the sense of sexual awakening: that's why I was careful to say sexual "position", rather than sex. I also meant 'initiation' in the sense of who made the first move -- and it wasn't always Sorn. After all, it was Jun who initiated the sex that led to cottaging, so it wasn't only because Sorn was the one who always *wanted* it. Rather, Sorn was *almost* always the initiator. Wanting something and initiating something are quite different, aren't they?
Replying to Synchonicity Jun 16, 2025
Title My Stubborn
I agree. Some people are acting like Jun is a victim of SA. He is not. Sorn's a dick too, but too many give Jun…
To be honest, I really don't have a personal stake in this debate. But no, I heard it as Jun, however awkwardly, saying to Sorn: "I have told you multiple times I like you. Do you like me in return? If so, say it." That said, I'm not going to adjudicate on his choices or his words, let alone him as a person. In any event, people speak of things like 'pressure' as if it were absolute, and as if such lines were easily drawn in real life. I've lived long enough on this earth to know otherwise. Not to mention the fact that, by the same logic, we can say Sorn has been pressuring Jun the whole time, and throughout the series. Which, for the record, is not quite what I believe.

I like Sorn. I like Jun. I neither condemn nor praise either of them. It's messy, and fiction wouldn't be fiction without a good deal of mess. All said, I just don't find the arguments against Jun convincing.
Replying to kerry6780 Jun 16, 2025
Title My Stubborn
Episode 9. Everything I dreamed of but I needed him crying more and possibly on his knees. Maybe next week.😁
Don't tell me you dreamed of the beard! :)
Replying to Synchonicity Jun 16, 2025
Title My Stubborn
I agree. Some people are acting like Jun is a victim of SA. He is not. Sorn's a dick too, but too many give Jun…
Yeah, people love spouting homilies here about the importance of proper communication in a relationship. Fair enough. (And, I, for one, get genuinely infuriated when people don't communicate, esp. in JBLs, where the characters will gladly do monologues, but never dialogues.) But imagine if the characters did speak their hearts: BL as a genre would cease to exist!