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This has to be the dumbest break up reason I've ever seen and that's saying something considering it's kdramas we're talking about.

What do you mean she's going to break up with him over something that happened over 15 years ago when he was a kid going through the most horrifying thing any child could go through and she KNOWS this.

Her reaction then? Completely valid. This ? This is just completely insane.

Thanks, I've seen pretty much all the older stuff, I'm looking for stuff from this year, idc who falls first or if she's lovesick just any dramas where the FL is as in love with the ML as he is into her from 2025?

3rd wheels? You mean SLFs? And yeah I think dramas before before had more of this, something like you are my glory but now most dramas especially modern ones are very downbad men who are doing everything for love taking 99 steps while the women take 1 step.

I agree, any recs for dramas like this or love of divine tree from 2025 with a FL who is as into the ML where he's not the only one lovesick?

I was generally referring to the the last couple of years and what's airing rn mostly, we do get a few that fall as hard but it's not the case for the vast majority and if they're not verbalizing it and showing then how is it qualified as falling as hard, personal interpretation ? If it's not actually shown in the story like for the MLs then it's a moot point. I mean rn we have or had first frost, best thing, si Jin , filter and this one and they all fall under this category.

lol same about the snowboard and "I’m guessing this is one of those he fell 1st and harder things" is there anything else at this point? ML always falls harder and it's not even close, forget harder getting a drama where the FL falls even just the same as the ML is like trying to find a flying pig.

I've noticed Xu Ruo Han always has great chemistry with her leading men, she's not afraid to sell it and go all in for the small moments and kisses and I find it makes a lot of difference to the authenticity of the romance.

This is so incredibly off base and frankly offensive, I for one could not care less about the drama's views , literally what reason would there be for that? I've been a drama fan for years and this is a comment section where the entire point is for us to have respectful discussions and voice our own opinions about said dramas, how is doing exactly that suddenly cause for such remarks? Just because we disagree with you doesn't mean we're incapable of understanding the narrative or we have some ridiculous nefarious reasons to tank the drama.

I also get your point just let me point out this is just speculation/hope for the future but what's actually been the reality is completely different. I'm not usually one for pessimism but with the writing so far I highly doubt they're suddenly going to make it a balanced equal dynamic after 18 episodes.

I genuinely don't want him to scream at her or treat her badly in any way that's not at all what I'm saying, all I wanted was maybe for him to take a step back, prioritize himself like she's doing to her life and for her to make some effort to chase him the way he's been doing.

For there to be even a semblance of balance in their efforts to take care of each other because with 2/3 of the show done it's not even close, everyone going on about how they want their own Dr. Ye means one thing, that they want to be treated this way but they would never want to be in his shoes, the person always giving but never receiving.

Him saying "love yourself i'll do the rest" essentially means and ( it's what's exactly been happening) you put yourself first and I'll also put you first so who's going to put him first? Shouldn't it be we'll put each other first while also not neglecting our own well being?

For me the bigger issue lies in 2 things, first the way he reacts to all of this as if he's a saint and all he's allowed to do is put her first no matter what and the second and most important is that he's not afforded the same writing, we don't get an arc where he's the one struggling ( the drama's not over but you know we won't) and she reacts with the same selflessness and support, their entire rlsp revolves around her needs and him fulfilling them. It would completely fine otherwise because people make mistakes but you grown from them but if your entire dynamic is so incredibly one sided that's impossible.

For me it's rather that it feels like the main characters subscribe to a different set of rules, she's allowed to be flawed and human and hurt him multiple times because of it (which all makes sense from her pov) but he can only be perfectly in love with her and endlessly patient and never make a wrong move despite also having previous bad experiences. Almost the entirely of the effort and care flows from his direction and especially for a drama that's discussing unhealthy relationships that kind of feels off.

Same but judging by the writing so far I think it's always going to be him loving her way more and her just reacting to it.

You guys are doing enough admiring for all of us 😂 What I want is the FL to admire and love him as much as you do.

I loved Road home they had such a gentle loving vibe and the way GX was the rare incredibly supporting and loving FL we rarely get to see in cdramaland was beautiful.

You guys crack me up with these comments, I always watch from the pov of falling in love with the fictional couple and their love and relationship instead of the ML so I don't find myself wishing he was real or to get someone like him but it's so funny to watch you all thirsting for him like this.

The vibe of this drama is so relaxing and heartwarming, the cinematography, the music, the focus on traditional healing all together to create this lovely soothing world which is so refreshing. The only thing keeping me from fully loving it is how unbalanced the romance is, I'm hoping in the next episodes it's XF's turn to show her love and support for SY but unfortunately that seems like wishful thinking.

I think I was expecting too much, like you said he is definitely going to protect her "love yourself and leave the rest to me" is very romantic but also shouldn't they both love themselves and love each other, why is it too much to ask that a grown woman in a relationship also takes care of her bf like he does. I would've loved to see her support him now but that would be wishful thinking, it's going to be him doing 99% like has been until the end.

Yeah there's not a lot that have mutual and equal relationships; 90% of cdramas are the exact same as this one with the most unbalanced unequal relationships you've ever seen. If you don't mind costume cdramas than Blossoming love and Divine tree both had very equal rlsps.

Falling into you, fake it till you make it, you are my glory and road home are like the 1% where the effort and love felt equal.