somerisebycyn

In fairness, different sports use different muscle groups and different amounts of stamina. Even running on flat ground isn't the same as walking a long mountain trail

I love that 5 years made him a completely different person but 20 years did NOTHING to his appearance. 😂 The second half of this show was really an exercise in suspension of disbelief.

In the bathroom scene. He only stopped because Tong came in. It doesn't really matter why, if someone says stop you should stop.

Being uncomfortable is fine getting PHYSICAL about it and pressuring your partner into sexual situations when they actively are saying no is not? That's my problem here and I'm concerned there are so many people that think this is okay behaviour? You're confusing my seeing the actions as red flags with me not understanding where they're coming from in the character. That is not the case. I completely understand the emotional battle that's going on with Ming. You cannot control your emotions but you can and should control the way you lash out to others because it's your actions that make you a problem not your feelings.

Genuinely genuinely if someone you're dating *physically* drags you away from your friend in a fit of jealousy and won't take no for an answer because they want people to "see that you're theirs" please don't ignore that. That is just objectively not okay.

Where the red flag lies is that he's extremely controlling and pushy but also won't commit so he's expecting Joe to live in a limbo where he can't even talk to his friend because Ming will get jealous but is supposed to also be cool with not even being acknowledged while they literally live together.

OMG it's episode ONE give them a second? This is a really wild expectation for the first episode of a show

This would be a truly terrible finale. 😂

Are they shallow or are you only looking on the surface? Cause that's what I quite strongly see of them from the two episodes we've watched 🤷🏾‍♀️

They like each other because they each break the other's outlook on life in a refreshing way and they both actually sit on the outskirts of society even if one seems like he fits in perfectly

Also we never address that there's still a little psychopath running around in their time even if they stopped the adult version of him. He was already killing dogs at age 11...

*Taeha I mean.

I'm sad we don't learn what happened to Yeon Ji and Taewon. They really went hard on the kill your gays and didn't bother to give us closure.

I would say it's not the BL aspect but the incest / inappropriate power dynamic relationships that is lowering the rating

I mean it happened in this episode not a previous one so it's not about binge watching. I'm also not binge watching. It's fine to not be up to snuff on everything but it's such an important plot point to be all like "this character isn't smart" about when you've just missed parts of the episode.

Were you literally not paying attention to the show? They TELL us they're setting him up for the embezzlement charge. He literally says he's started to use the money we need to pressure him to use it on stocks. Hyunwoo is written as smart except when it comes to his relationship haha.

So they can catch him on the embezzlement charge. Everyone knows bad guys are better caught by the tax man than any other service because the world is so money focused.

It looks like he causes an accident presumably to force Hae In to have the surgery and also to control who she sees when he wakes up. I think he went to Frankfurt because he knew Hyunwoo would tell her because Hyunwoo is a good man and he's evil trash.

I mean that's a theory, I'm not dismissing it but it's a theory that would mean she'd either die or lose another baby because she can't realistically go through cancer treatment while pregnant.

What stupid unexplainable decisions are you referring to?