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They still would have passionate relationship. But lufeng still had obsession. He still need to go under therapy and yichen will remain a person who never stand up for lufeng. Or he would be in guilt that he after saying no to his family he is still with the person who indirectly caused his mother's death and his brother's leg being paralysed.

No matter how u look these two were written in a way that they could never had a happy ending. They could have only got the happy ending if they were never seperated in school days.

Then lufeng would be a sweet and good lover and yichen would have fought with all his spirit just to stay with him...yes lufeng would have some issues but through communication they could have resolved it or through therapy afterall lufeng had a very bad childhood.

So she mortgaged the house and he bought the house so he has loan debt. But how he got loan? Didn't earlier in ep they said he can't get loan? I am soo confused. Plus another thing I don't understand if he said yes to treat his father when he was declared brain dead? Because looks like he is and hospital bills were also high.

I am in ep4 and can someone clarify me what's going on? I am not able to understand how chen yi's is having this much loan debt and what is the issue with his house and mortgage?

Also, is ML and FL relationship is trauma bonding???

Ig english translation of volume 4-6 is not there yet. Last i checked in Wattpad they said all volumes will get translated. Not sure if that is done yet.

Exactly!!! I just don't understand why there is expectations of Jia yi's first love to come back? But even i don't think why the series has shown Jis yi's first love arc for half of the series. Because moving on from person whom u loved is not easy and 5-6 ep can't make up for it. It's about accepting the loss, grieving, forgiving urself, then slowly muttering the courage to open ur heart to love then overcome fear with that person then only relationship then love and happy ending. It's a process..and 5-6 ep doesn't justify that.

Also, i am in doubt if Jia yi's first love arc has shown in this much detail then it had obviously changed him as a person. Which makes whole moving on arc demanding more ep. This misbalance is something i am confused.

But i get the comments...maybe audience also got attached with 1st pair.

I didn't liked DFF. I was understanding the plot but somehow i was not able to feel the tension and scared for the characters.

4 minutes. I loved it. But that series has some issues. I was more invested in 2nd cp. Plus, for 1st cp their love story just went too fast for me. I never understood why Great was in love with Tyme? Tyme was having feelings for great since childhood so i understand him. Also, the story have suspense which should be as per the genre but it's explained very late in the drama. Till that time I was confused which was also it's good point but also bad. Then later 4min concept when they explained its not put in a way that everyone can understand.

Basically BOC demands it's audience to be intelligent so it's not every one cup of tea. Plus, BOC also demands it's viewers to have all the attention to the screen without missing a sec. And these are what make BOC better than other production.

Infact I loved 4minutes more than Kinnporche despite it being most popular. The reason being I don't understand why and how 1st cp had so much love? Just because of one stuck situation?

Although I didn't much understand Shine, but I will recommend one to watch that over kinnporche. It has good plot and it's unique. I kept Shine on my rewatch list thinking after research about timeline and it's events and thai history i will better understand that drama.

Same goes here DH, made me think how Ayden is so proficient in Mandarin which is the hardest language in the world. That made me interested to go and search net about Singapore and china past links and cultural ties. Afterall, sleeping in world history classes is costing me.

For me drama is not just about story, it's about how i enrich myself as an individual and learn something. Sigh. But if u have one with this depth any story do let me know. I will add in watchlist. Currently so busy with ongoing dramas.

Edit:- you have such a long list....which i should ever see??? 😅

Ep3, why I am soo sad. The way ML just wanted to be in police. Ig a part of it is coming from the fact he had a very bad childhood. Ig he also wanted to give justice to the people who are seeing wrong and facing this torture and in the process heal his inner child. Why parents are like this? Just because he doubt him that he is not his own son he treated a child so badly. He even used to sleep at warehouse all this time. Home is supposed to be safest place in the world and yet he despite having home never felt safe.

It just break my heart to see how his father wanted to control him and why he did that? Why he didn't wanted to see his own raised son to be in police? The way his friends supported him and FL left her school class to assist him was the only good thing in this ep.

Another thing, ML is such a pure heart person even though he knew that his father is not gonna make it he signed papers. He knew what FL's mother wanted he just said I need inheritance so that he can atleast have a roof and he even allowed FL to stay till she come of a age. He knew that FL's mother job is no more and she probably will end up like him having no one to rely on. So compassionate.

It's said that whenever a person goes through something bad either that person become a monster or a complete empathic person and looks like our ML is second.

The way, FL just understood his pain and didn't said anything was so comforting. She hold his hand just to say that I am here for u. What a beautiful transformation from enemies( in teasing way) to friends...

The plot twist when ML just gave DNA report to his father's grave was so sad. As if he is saying " look, the one u always hurted was ur own son" . It's his last act of kindness yet torture to his father to let him know the truth in his death.

Idk if i am the only one who feel but the connection between FL and ML is also trauma bonding. Idk i just get that vibes.

Those audio, songs, cinematography are exactly there to set ur mood. And make u understand the characters pain more. So u connect with them.

When I say nobody cares means why would anyone listen to my lecture on reels and brain rot. 😅 That's not the motive nor anyone is interested in that.

Girl!!! Drama slump is real. Trust me. It happens. Some stories just doesn't connect with u. That's it. Later maybe u can. Why to force urself? U can watch anime, novels, kdrama, old cdrama, movies, short stories. Just do whatever u feel like. Watch and read where u can relate.

U can try with 12 letters( slow pacing), had i not seen the sun( if u like dark themes), we all are trying here( I heard it's pretty good I haven't watched it), lighthearted dramas u can take since u are going through drama slump it might work....

Side note:- there are times when I started watching cartoons because that used to interest me. Because barbiee in a princess charm school and 12 dancing princess is my comfort cartoon. No u don't come after age. I am still 12 when it comes to this. Lol.

No i didn't felt bad about any of ur words. I completely get ur point and concern. That's why it's very imp for people to ques and discuss about series dealing with dark themes. And who romanticise it idk what to say about them.

PoJ i dropped. U managed to complete it right? I was like nope i am not gonna watch anything just for beautiful cinematography and zhang linghe. Because plot was meh. I was not even able to complete or watch more than 5 min of WLGYT. After watching cdrama, kdrama just don't click with me. True, now a days there is less drama that interest u. So simple, don't force it. Give urself time watch something diff. If u are not able to connect with story and character then it's not ur fault right? Eventually u will like something.

Also, it depends on psychology also. Suppose u are going through a tuff exam prep, u can't watch anything. That time even boring drama will interest u. Or suppose u have stress u will not be able to watch anything no matter what u will do.

So everyone is diff right. About WLGYT it touched u because of story was painful and slice of life. The love was not loud it's more about care. WLGYT will always be very close to u. But if u compare the same depth with other drama which clearly u can't get. Because they are not producing that type so how u will like it? Last ig people talked about was " we all are trying here". U can give it a try it didn't worked for me. Or u can always watch old cdrama. Have a nice rest of the day :)

😂😂 lol

Also watch ur brain rot. I used to have this problem when I was not able to watch anything despite having good story. The key is to rejuvenate ur brain. U need to start from watching 10-15 min yt videos then 20min. Then just watch anime, then take a long drama. It's a process. But first throw it insta and tiktok away and limit it to just watching it during certain time and day. And no short cdrama. Ur focus will improve and I can focus on story where drama placing is slow..

Huh..quiet a big msg.> Nobody cares<

Depends on how u view and approach drama.
For me I used to watch drama to understand themes and topics better to support my understanding in studies. Later I started enjoying drama.

I kept exploring and understood what kind of drama I connect with. For me I connect with a drama where there is depth in characters, where u learn something new, where u get roller coaster ride, which questions u, which makes u have sleepless nights.

U need to find that first and then watch according to ur present state of mind.

This drama "love for u" sits right with me because i recently completed a very heavy drama and this drama has a story to tell. It's less about romance till now and more about empathy and the problems of Domestic violence, pressure from family, parental love, trauma bonding ( i think), therapy. So it's not an easy drama. The story is painful. U cry for ML and feel for FL. That's how one gets connected with a character and story and u overcome drama slump.

It's never about who liked this drama or whether others are also in dramaslump. It more about how u feel with the drama.

Well. I take time. I don't rush. Sometimes during weekends i watch 2-3 ep and sometimes none. Not to mention i also watch LGBTQIA+ drama and read novels also. All with job and study.

The key is to connect with story and characters and u will easily watch it.

I understand ur point and concern and tbh it's a very valid one. But one thing I think different here. I think including SA in drama should not be stopped not now. Because I tell u I know someone who got SAed and yes he was male. But i can't help him because society still thinks that men can't be raped and there is no law for it. See we are moving towards an era where we are fighting for the rights of LGBTQIA+ and some countries now allowed them but still same sex marriages are not allowed and i thank God rn because there is no law to protect them. If a country doesn't even recognise that men can be raped how we are ever going to give justice to people. Does that mean I want drama to romanticise rape? No. No No.
I want drama to show that this is not ok and it's s heinous crime. It's inhumane no matter any gender or sexual orientation.

It was a long way we handled these themes in straight couples and drama where I myself has witnessed so many movies where girl needs to marry man who raped her... disgusting but we spread awareness and now no one think this. Same we are fighting for marital rape...we need dramas to deal with these themes to spread awareness and education just never never romanticise it and handle it with care. Simple. Eg- light beyond reed( straight drama), the effect( thai bl).

Now, this show never romanticise rape and never gave them happy ending. What they got is togetherness after treatment but not happiness. It's completely fine if u haven't watched because tbh rape is no joke and not everyone can handle these themes or sometimes we are not in correct mindset to watch these themes. Because again it shatters the soul of the person and victim...

Now, who are shipping i can't say about them why and what and who? I can say why, what and who about my pov.

As long as i respect ur opinion. I hope u understand my point and not generalise that whoever loved this show shipped them after ep4 or romanticise rape.

People are not. No one was shipping them. But ig it's a series of events. Both were suffering. Both were toxic. Lufeng actions were unforgivable. After ep4, u need to understand yichen's pov. He was scared that he will loose lufeng to death. He realised that how much he want to be together with him so he agreed to be with him. Does it sound stupid? Yes. But it is what it is.

After ep4, they again had a very beautiful connection so passionate. It doesn't cancel lufeng's action but agree or not agree as per story yichen was happy with him so much so that he count those days also as his most beautiful days apart from school relationship.

And agree or not. It's a fact that toxic dramas has themes dealing with SA. I would say the drama never romanticise these actions nor the audience. None. Infact, throughout the drama u will see the consequences and till the end ep they will show how this matter and obsession need to be treated. Plus the ending imo is not a happy ending. It's very bittersweet. Ofcourse, perspective matters. Good day :)

Yes. It's worth it. Just know that it's not fulffy drama. It deals with heavy themes

Oh yeah...mo li is also in my watch list. Ep3😩. We are sisters here.

And suddenly I am busy....love for you( behind), road to success( not even started), eternal fragrance already behind by 10 ep, never ending summer(behind), nanyang mystery ( behind), chinese variety show, lots of watchlist drama that are airing...june and july is surely busy....and still somehow all i can think of is love for u and eternal fragrance both are having SWL...how to have a normal functioning adult life with this???

Ok...just to let u know I was not even saying anything against or taking any stand. Not understanding from where this much aggression is coming. Infact untamed is my all time fav drama. Idk if u are saying that u understood everything in first go when u were watching or what idk. But anyways what u think is ur opinion.

Edit:- i don't like when someone uses offensive words specially when I am respectfully replying. Not everyone uses these words in their life. So please it would be good if u respect that.