Recommendations

These two stories could not be more different in plot, but are similar in the aspect of two soul mates merging into a complex dynamic. In both stories, our leads are forced to overcome the heart breaking consequences forged by their own choices, and perceptions. Neither ever truly able to let go of the other, despite how far apart life rips them. Despite knowing one has to walk away, while the other clings ardently, unwilling to accept that fate. In the end of both tales, both leads acknowledge the depth of their love, and find sanctuary in it.

In both dramas the female lead yearns for her dead boyfriend. They have trouble moving forward with their lives.

Plots are very different, with LaL being a workplace romcom and QYBDHYG being a rich people melodrama, but the dynamic between the leads was similar in the role-reversed BDSM aspect. FL is the dominant one while ML is the submissive one, and their BDSM dynamic is explored 'platonically' first and then develops into romance later.

In QYBDHYG the dynamic is more master/pet and naturally more dubious with its consent, which was handled very well in LaL, but since there's so little RR BDSM dynamics, I thought of recommending this one here.

Both stories also featured a lot of role reversal aside of the BDSM aspect.

In both shows, it starts with new residents moving into an apartment building, the neighbours acting suspiciously, and murders beginning to happen.

When Jinxiu Kingdom is on the brink of defeat in the battle at Pingling, the female archer in red, Fu Yi Xiao, shoots an arrow at Susha's eldest prince, Feng Sui Ge, turning the tide of the battle. But Yi Xiao accidentally falls off a cliff shortly after and loses her memory. After Yi Xiao is rescued by the Ling family of doctors of the Righteous Villa, she unexpectedly reunites with her old enemy, Sui Ge.

Looking at the mess Yi Xiao is in, Sui Ge infers that it must be related to his predicament in the battle at Pingling. Sui Ge wants to use Yi Xiao to find out the truth behind the scenes, while Yi Xiao wants to use Sui Ge to survive under heavy pursuit.

So the two, who were mortal enemies a month ago, must now rely on each other to survive in the turbulent Yujing City, and their love secretly blossoms through countless near-death experiences. The seeds have been sown, and amid the hatred, betrayal, deception, unrequited desire, and inability to let go, everyone is both a player and a pawn.

Yi Xiao and Sui Ge can only work closely together in the storm to overcome the dark conspiracy, break the shackles of fate, live up to the people’s expectations, and not let each other down.

- Femdom x malesub
- FL tames ML but he likes it
- Bold, flirty and protective FL
- Shy and submissive ML (more aloof in BbS)
- FL is a rich heiress
- Fight for inheritance
- Both are melodramatic and not very good plot-wise
- Gender role reversal in both
- Master FL x Plaything ML (pet in QYBDHYG, bodyguard in BbS)

QYBDHYG did the role reversal a lot better than BbS but in BbS the dynamic is more *intimate* than in QYBDHYG. QYBDHYG has the fantasy element that BbS does not. BbS is more 'realistic' and plot-focused while QYBDHYG is just pure entertainment.

In a captivating fairytale, Li Qing Yue, a powerful immortal blessed by the Four Spirits, and Bai Jiu Si, a revered master of Dacheng, find themselves drawn together. However, a cruel twist of fate leads to a misunderstanding that ignites a heartbreaking conflict, even resulting in their demise.

But destiny is not done with them yet. Granted a second chance, they mend their broken bond and join forces as champions. Together, the immortal and the master unite to protect the innocent from a looming threat.

both dramas include some level of healing being done. both are veryyy slow with the romance and both are in a sense about girlbosses finding men (both are doctors) that treat them right.... what more do you need ?

-- MC has scary ghost-seeing abilities/curses from birth.
-- MC seeks help from ML who protects them from scary ghosts.
-- Love interest has Thai mythology based tattoos that protect him from evil that they got because of their mother figures.
-- Scary female ghost seeking some kind of revenge or harm on MCs.
-- They even share a set location in episode 8 of GBYFD, it's the house they stay at in Khemjira.

Both drama are about god's help after FL's car accident and exchanging or dividing god's powers with the FL

I know the genre is very different, but if you like Gu Zicheng, I really recommend The White Olive Tree. This drama is actually where I first discovered him, and I absolutely loved his role as Saxin—even though he’s only a supporting character, he left a strong impression. And honestly, Chen Zheyuan and Liang Jie did not disappoint at all. The story is emotional, meaningful, and beautifully told, and I truly believe The White Olive Tree is one of those dramas you should watch at least once in your lifetime. Also, Gu Zicheng’s chemistry with Wang Tianchen is surprisingly good and really memorable. Super recommended.

I also recommend Hello, the Sharpshooter for anyone who enjoys sports dramas with a sweet and comforting romance. The story is centered around shooting sports, but what really stood out to me was the emotional journey of the characters—the pressure, self-doubt, and quiet support they give each other. The romance feels soft and healing rather than overly dramatic, and it pairs really well with the theme of chasing dreams and personal growth. It’s the kind of drama that makes you feel calm while still rooting hard for the characters, especially if you like sports stories with a gentle, warm atmosphere.

I really recommend Skate Into Love if you’re into sports romance with a fun but still emotional vibe. I first watched it because Zhang Xincheng is my favorite actor, and honestly, he didn’t disappoint at all. The drama balances competition, friendship, and romance really well, and I loved how the characters grow while chasing their dreams in ice sports. It’s lighthearted in many moments, but it also has touching scenes that make you root for the characters. If you enjoyed dramas like Chasing the Wind and like stories about passion, perseverance, and slow-burn romance, Skate Into Love is definitely worth watching.

Both dramas are about suppressed students by overwhelmingly strict rules by the school.
Both student bodies are getting rebellious and trying to change the system.
The vibe is similar, even if one of them is more centered around BL only, while the other shows all kinds of love and relationships.

=Both shows have a similar premise, showcasing the effort of everyone in building a town/city
= Both shows are set during the period of rapid economic growth of China. MT is set in the 90s, while TCM is set in the 80s.
=Both shows are realism heavy mainstream shows.