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Finished watching Colorful Love: Genderless Danshi ni Aisareteimasu 

Well, folks, to no one's surprise, I'm pretty sure this drama altered my brain chemistry. Was it perfect? Hm probably not. Did I fucking love it? YES!!! Was it everything I was hoping for?? ALSO YEEESSS!!!! Easily one of my new fav dramas and also one of the few dramas that moved me to tears and that's extra funny considering it's a comedy 😭 

So, this isn't like the regular schmegular RR dramas we're used to. This is hetGNC first and role reversal second (for those of you who don't know what GNC is, it's Gender Non-Conformity. The het stands for heterosexual). The difference lies in the fact that the leads' gender identity (especially ML's) comes in first before the role reversal. So there aren't wall-slams and forceful kisses or femdom x malesub, rather it takes the approach of two similars (both feminine people) and develops a romance based on that. 

YOUR HONOR, I LOOOOOOVE THEEEMM 😭💓

Though FL is still feminine by most standards, she took on the "ML" role between the two (like running after ML to confess her love, always gushing about how pretty he is, etc) while ML took on the more feminine role (being cute and sassy, initiating the emotional talks, etc). I think in a way, FL seems masculine compared to ML and that's the kinda shit that I loveee 😩 LOVED how they handled the fem x fem dynamic but in a role reversed way because dramas like Princess Jellyfish also do the fem x fem dynamic but it's barely RR, mostly just GNC (which is still great don't get me wrong, but yeah...), so seeing a FL that badly wants to be the protective knight to her prettyboy princess was INCREDBLE <3

MY CUTIE LIL POOKIE!!!
*wistful sigh* I wish men were real...

ALSO, ALSO- The secondary couple is also atypical: GNC, older woman/younger man, AND somewhat RR. SML is a DIVA femboy and SFL is a workaholic girlboss who doesn't take his shit. He does chase her first and starts out rather misogynistic but omg, he ended up being one of my favssss. Pls bear with him he grows so much!!! He totally becomes her diva puppy <3 it's SO CUTE

Lastly, it's all around a really fun watch! The characters are quirky and relatable, the topics are fun and heartfelt with a lot of focus on breaking gender norms and embracing one's authentic self (some arcs dragged a bit but *shrugs* feel free to skip), the character development was solid, the comedy was funny, and the romance was CUUUTEEE (tho this IS something I wish they would've focused a bit more on, like, actually letting the leads spend time with each other as a couple doing romantic things as opposed to just being togetherTM)

Also, GREAT NEWS- it's a comedy that doesn't make the role reversal the butt of the joke!!!! YIPPIIEEE THE WORLD IS HEALING!!!!

 Arclei:

Nice to meet you too! 

Can't wait to see the end result of your profile ^^

Eyyyyy, I'm watching that one too! How are you liking it?

Yes, it's working out nice. Next is adding membership badge so I am excited to pick one 🤭✨

I am loving it so far 😆 It's so good plus I love FCY so much. She is the standard, the boss 🌝🤌 Also the couple dynamic, I am so ready to see them on the battlefield 😁

 potatocouch:

Hey, nice to meet you too 👋

Arclei and I were just gushing about potential fics for "Glory". Sometimes we have our own ideas about what we would've done differently in dramas, and we usually spiral from there hahaha. 

Oh nice. I haven't watched that yet but will read the discussion after I do. Thanks for telling me 🙌

 Arclei:
Finished watching Colorful Love: Genderless Danshi ni Aisareteimasu 

I really gotta get in on this. 

The way his arms are thrown over her shoulders in that gif is too adorable. 

I am in such a full-length drama slump right now though. I've lost interest in every one I've tried. I can only do verticals right now (but I'm considering crawling back to finish Glory—especially since we keep talking about fics LOL).  Once I'm out of this mild full-length slump, I'm definitely going to give Colorful Love a try. 



 KC Drama LOVER:
Oh nice. I haven't watched that yet but will read the discussion after I do. Thanks for telling me 🙌

No problem! If you ever see us brainstorming like that for a drama you've watched, please feel free to jump in! I'm not sure if you like to write, but it's always fun to talk about what-ifs 😊 

 potatocouch:
No problem! If you ever see us brainstorming like that for a drama you've watched, please feel free to jump in! I'm not sure if you like to write, but it's always fun to talk about what-ifs 😊 

I love to write and even if not, discussion about ifs is definitely to my alley!

 KC Drama LOVER:

I love to write and even if not, discussion about ifs is definitely to my alley!

That’s awesome! It’s always a treat meeting fellow writers! What fandoms do you usually write for? And are you a Wattpad or AO3 author/reader? 

 Arclei:
Hope you're doing well ^^

Thank you ^^ I am, just been a bit busy and forgot to repsond or was too tired XD

 Arclei:
Let me know what you think of it if/when you do!

I will! (if I remember XD)

 Arclei:
before season 2 airs perhaps

Yeah I did hear about a season 2 so I was wondering if I should give it another chance, yk since it was good enough for a second season.

 Arclei:
Similar to Joy of Life if you've seen that.

I had it on my list for quite a while but removed it during a purge so... It just didn´t really speak to me i guess.

 Arclei:
It kinda felt like the plot was punishing him for his softness

Like the whole family moved while he was away and they all just forgot to tell him? What family just don´t tell another memeber of said family that their moving?

 Arclei:
I've been trying to keep things fresh with various dramas so I don't get burned out or bored XD This drama is also a bit of a slow-burn.

OMG same! I also watch multiple dramas at the same time to try and prevent it XD sometimes it works othertimes it does not XD Honestly, right now I am kind of burned out with PoJ but I deninitely don´t want to dropp it so I´m trying to watch an episode every like two days. Just so I don´t forget what is going on.

 KC Drama LOVER:
It's so good plus I love FCY so much. She is the standard, the boss 🌝🤌 Also the couple dynamic, I am so ready to see them on the battlefield 😁

FL really is such a boss!!! I love how strong and how much of a gentlewoman she is ^^ And ML is her babygirl princess. Can't wait for the plot to move on tho (yes to the battlefield scenes), the fighting bullies arc is getting a bit tedious, haha

 KC Drama LOVER:
Oh nice. I haven't watched that yet but will read the discussion after I do. Thanks for telling me 🙌

It's a very unserious show and not just in a comedy way so prepare yourself for that xD 


 potatocouch:
The way his arms are thrown over her shoulders in that gif is too adorable. 

THANK YOU FOR APPRECIATING EXACTLY WHAT I LOVE SO MUCH ABOUT THAT KISS SCENE!!!! Her hands are on waist, btw- Role reversed kissing like this is SO HARD TO FIND OMGGGG!!! 

Oh also, he's shorter than her and is only taller when he wears heels, girl, I was eating so good 😩

 potatocouch:
Once I'm out of this mild full-length slump, I'm definitely going to give Colorful Love a try. 

You GOTTAA!!!!! I'm so curious what you'll think of it. I wonder if you'll find the chemistry to be lacking in this too- Now I wanna know xD 

But I feel you on the slump. I'm in the reverse. Can't watch minis rn 😭 My own personal hell, wdym I can't get a quick watch in? (And honestly, the only reason I keep thinking about watching Glory is because of our lengthy fic talks too, LMAO)


 newbifantrack:
yk since it was good enough for a second season.

From my experience, second seasons definitely don't mean that the drama is good but in this case and JoL's it does xD

 newbifantrack:
It just didn´t really speak to me i guess.

Fair enough, I had the same until my brother recommended it and I ended up loving it after the initial rough start. One of the very few dramas on MDL of which I understand the hype 

 newbifantrack:
Like the whole family moved while he was away and they all just forgot to tell him?

Omg you watched quite a bit of it then!!!!! Yes, I absolutely HATED that arc!!! UUGGH MY POOKIEE!!! And how the drama consistently made light of his suicidal tendencies? Honestly.... disgusting. It wasn't even dark humor it was just mockery and very hard to watch

 newbifantrack:
Honestly, right now I am kind of burned out with PoJ but I deninitely don´t want to dropp it so I´m trying to watch an episode every like two days. Just so I don´t forget what is going on.

Same on the sometimes it works aspect thoooo- Augh, I hate that it's never a guarantee 😭 But so far it's working moderately well. I've been watching it in bursts. Nothing for a few days then 4-5 eps in one 😭😭 Been a while since I last watched tho, but I just wasn't reaching for it so I'll wait for the mood to hit. Who knows, that might be today, lol. I am enjoying it more than I'm not but it's also getting a bit... tedious and repetitive. Maybe I'm finally getting into the very boring middle part all cdramas get into. Might be time to revisit that FF button XD

 KC Drama LOVER:
I love to write and even if not, discussion about ifs is definitely to my alley!

Omg, another fellow writer and yapper!!! LetSGOOOO!!!!!!! 

 potatocouch:
And are you a Wattpad or AO3 author/reader? 

As if one cannot be both! smh smh I do wish there was a better site for non-fandom writers... Like I love ao3 for what it does but it always feels weird to post original content there 😭

 Arclei:
Her hands are on waist, btw-

So cute 🥹

Ugh, it just makes me yearn for Shadows of Desire even more. FL had her hands on Daniel's waist in some of those stills you showed me, so you know we're gonna be eating good there too. I need a freaking release date!!

(Correction from our convo elsewhere: Shadows of Desire is gonna be my historical swan song). 

 Arclei:
Oh also, he's shorter than her and is only taller when he wears heels

Omgggggg! I can't. They really took it all the way and made the drama RR in every aspect. That's impressive. 


 Arclei:
I wonder if you'll find the chemistry to be lacking in this too- Now I wanna know xD

I really don't know how you have chemistry blindness when you've recommended some dramas with great chemistry, and seem to be able to spot it when it's on screen 😂 I think you're selling yourself short.


 Arclei:
(And honestly, the only reason I keep thinking about watching Glory is because of our lengthy fic talks too, LMAO)

I'm BEYOND EXCITED to report that I blacked out between the hours of 2-3AM, brain vomited, and came to only to discover more paragraphs for our fanfic that I was really happy with. No over-thinking or anything. It was amazing! 

I'm definitely throwing all logic out the window, and crawling back to Glory LOL. Our fics have gotten me too excited! We haven't even started on Ao Xue x the little brother yet!


Edit: Hahahaha you're right, you're right. People can be both AO3 and Wattpad authors/readers. I'm just always curious about people's primary site. 

So, back in the day, everyone used to upload original work to https://www.fictionpress.com. It was the place to be, and there were original works that got millions of reads and gained massive followings. Coincidentally, my favorite story on there was called False Facades 😂 (Faltering Facade? 😉) I'm pleasantly surprised it's still up. It's about a girl who crossdresses as a guy and sneaks into an all boys boarding school to hide from her abusive uncle. Very Hana Kimi/She's the Man. I wish the site was still popular, and got a makeover. 

 potatocouch:
Ugh, it just makes me yearn for Shadows of Desire even more. FL had her hands on Daniel's waist in some of those stills you showed me, so you know we're gonna be eating good there too. I need a freaking release date!!

(Correction from our convo elsewhere: Shadows of Desire is gonna be my historical swan song). 

Don't get me STARTED!!! I'm so excited for Shadows of Desire to air, girl, PLSSSSSSSS!!!!! The stills are crazy woooorrrkkk!!! Especially so early on? Like, did they pick the best to show first or will it only get better? WHO KNOWS!!! 😩🙏🤤

(I really hope so for you bestie, I'm manifesting it!) 

 potatocouch:
They really took it all the way and made the drama RR in every aspect. That's impressive. 

They really diiiiddddd!!!! And she has a moment where she wonders if she's less of a woman for being attracted to him for this and decides that hell no, being taller than her man is peak and she loves him! <3 SO CUTE

Oh, the scene pre kiss was 10/10. Ep 3 & 4's endings live rent-free in my brain for REAL

 potatocouch:
I really don't know how you have chemistry blindness when you've recommended some dramas with great chemistry, and seem to be able to spot it when it's on screen 😂 I think you're selling yourself short.

I keep wondering about this myself, too... I'm not sure how it works cuz like you said, I can tell when there is good chemistry but when there isn't... I'm a lil lost. Like I guess if I'm wondering if there is chemistry, it's probably not great, lol.

Maybe it's just easier for me to say I have chemistry blindness than to explain that lack of chemistry doesn't impact the watching experience all that much? Idk at this point... 😭

Which dramas did I recommend with good chemistry? Hong Lan Yin? XD 


 potatocouch:
So, back in the day, everyone used to upload original work to https://www.fictionpress.com.

This must've been way back in the day cuz I NEVER heard of this, wtf??? Edit: oh yeah, I was an infant when this story was written, LMFAO

 potatocouch:
Coincidentally, my favorite story on there was called False Facades 😂 (Faltering Facade? 😉)

There's no fucking way 😭😭😭😭 LMAO- yeah, I wish other sites that weren't scummy asf (*cough* webnovel, royal road, tapas *coughcough*) existed. Cuz Wattpad went to even worse shit, AO3 is so fandom-focused, and that's basically it. 

 Arclei:
Omg you watched quite a bit of it then!!!!!

I watched seven episodes so I think that was like one of the last things that I saw. It might honestly be the last straw that made me dropp it...

 Arclei:
made light of his suicidal tendencies? Honestly.... disgusting. It wasn't even dark humor it was just mockery and very hard to watch

Yeah I think I started to notice things like this and just decided "nope" At this point however I have probably forgotten most of the story (as far as I watched it at least)

 Arclei:
I've been watching it in bursts. Nothing for a few days then 4-5 eps in one

Currently me too! ^^

 Arclei:
Been a while since I last watched tho, but I just wasn't reaching for it so I'll wait for the mood to hit.

I usually have a couple of different dramas I´m watching at the same time because of this, so I have something for every mood! I am also currently trying to restrain myself alittle bit from adding more dramas to the current rotation. If I watch to many at the same time I tend to get overwhelmed and struggle to finish any of them Xd

 Arclei:
FF button

Can I ask what an ff button is? My mind immediately goes to ff=fanfic XD

 newbifantrack:
I watched seven episodes so I think that was like one of the last things that I saw.

Eh? I could've sworn they moved way later O-O Huh- 

 newbifantrack:
I usually have a couple of different dramas I´m watching at the same time because of this, so I have something for every mood!

Yeah, I do the same!! Atm I'm keeping it to a very low 2 dramas but I'm trying to find something that's not a historical cdrama to throw into the mix so I'll see what I can find later, haha. 

I tend to not really watch more than 5 dramas at a time because despite being a mood watcher, I'm still also a binge watcher just a slow one. If I have more than 5 dramas on my CW, chances are they're more on-hold than CW xD But sometimes I watch an ep or two every like couple of weeks and that's still technically CW, lol

 newbifantrack:
Can I ask what an ff button is? My mind immediately goes to ff=fanfic XD

Lmao, I never heard of ff meaning fanfic xD Over here it means 'fast forward'. The "->" key

 Arclei:
Like, did they pick the best to show first or will it only get better?

If those stills aren't the best, then I fear we won't survive!!! Omg, can you imagine if things get more intense than that?!


 Arclei:
And she has a moment where she wonders if she's less of a woman for being attracted to him for this and decides that hell no, being taller than her man is peak and she loves him! <3

What a solid message! Okay, Japan. I'm impressed. 


 Arclei:
lack of chemistry doesn't impact the watching experience all that much?

I think that's simply it. Lack of chemistry doesn't impact the watching experience for you, which is totally fine. But you definitely recognize it ;)


 Arclei:
Which dramas did I recommend with good chemistry? Hong Lan Yin? XD 

Yup! Not only were you able to revel in the FL x Didi's insane chemistry with me, you clocked the exact type of chemistry it was: slow-moving and intimate vs the traditional explosive kind we usually see in dramas. 

The leads in the Princess Decree also had solid chemistry. Verdict is still out for the leads in The Other Half of Me and You because I haven't watched enough. 


 

 Arclei:
Edit: oh yeah, I was an infant when this story was written, LMFAO

...I was then shot 57 times.


 Arclei:
There's no fucking way 😭😭😭😭 LMAO- yeah, I wish other sites that weren't scummy asf (*cough* webnovel, royal road, tapas *coughcough*) existed. Cuz Wattpad went to even worse shit, AO3 is so fandom-focused, and that's basically it. 

I was obsessed with that story! I wanted it to be made into a TV show or movie so bad. 

I briefly entertained posting my stuff to webnovel or tapas until I realized I'd be selling my soul. The crap in their terms and conditions should be illegal. 

I got to experience Wattpad during its prime, so it's been a bummer watching its slow decline. All because of greed, as usual. Every once in a while I'll go on there to see what's going on or to reconnect with old friends, and it's bleak. It's just ads, ads, and more ads. Them begging you to buy coins, and stories I suspect were written by AI. 

 potatocouch:
Omg, can you imagine if things get more intense than that?!

Hmmmmmm, I can imagine it and I really like that thought~ 😂 But we need to temper our expectations bestiiiee

 potatocouch:
What a solid message! Okay, Japan. I'm impressed. 

It has a bunch of those! The drama is very honest and quite respectful about the nonconformity. I'll not say anything else so you can appreciate the drama in its entirety ^^

 potatocouch:
But you definitely recognize it ;)

Probably yeah XD Girl is clocking me too quick

 potatocouch:
Not only were you able to revel in the FL x Didi's insane chemistry with me, you clocked the exact type of chemistry it was: slow-moving and intimate vs the traditional explosive kind we usually see in dramas. 

My ego is rapidly growing with our conversations xD 

It just so happens that I love slow-moving and intimate dynamics more than the explosive kind. My similars attract and established relationship bias is showing 


 potatocouch:
...I was then shot 57 times.

😭band aid? 

 potatocouch:
I was obsessed with that story! I wanted it to be made into a TV show or movie so bad.

I briefly entertained posting my stuff to webnovel or tapas until I realized I'd be selling my soul.

It would've prolly gone pretty hard as a TV show, but the only rookie author-to-live action we get is unwatchable slop 💀 

Yeah, those places are crazy, bro- like I knew some folks that posted on there and sure, they had some traction, but the way these people were stressing... not normal. 

When was Wattpad's hayday? I used it a lot around mid 2010s era which I feel like was a pretty good time for it? I then came back years later and wow, yeah, not the same site it used to be... But I always thought it was a bit... bully-friendly so *shrugs*