
Arclei:
I heard that AO3 was invaded by non-freaky folks who don't understand nor care for fandom etiquette.
I'm always sad when a bunch of sane/super reserved people invade fandom spaces.

Arclei:
no one in the comments took note of the dynamic at all, which is crazy because the movie is NOT subtle... 😂
They didn't wanna see it lol.

Arclei:
I mean, idk, I feel like action flicks are SO detached from any semblance of realism that a grandma/pa kicking butt isn't that much further of a stretch for me.
Depends on the kind of action movie. If I'm watching an action flick like Mission Impossible or Fast & Furious, then yeah, I'm going in expecting ridiculous stuff. But with movies like the Bourne Identity and Atomic Blonde, I'm expecting things to be a little more grounded in realism like the directors intended. It all depends on how much disbelief the movie asks me to suspend, and then if they're consistent with it.
Lemme watch the movie and see! I wouldn't have minded a movie exploring an assassin coming to terms with aging if the realism wasn't only there to further misogyny and ageism. I certainly don't doubt that.

Arclei:
But I also am of the belief that a huge impact to aging is state of mind (basically the "you are as old as you feel" thing)
I have thoughts about this as someone who has a youthful outlook on life and is in pretty good shape, but still noticed a big physical shift between my twenties and thirties. And it was one I wasn't expecting since I don't feel like people were candid or truthful about it. Just like how I mentioned a lot of people aren't truthful about childbirth either. Of course aging doesn't mean you can no longer do what you love, but there's a happy medium when it comes to how humans look at it that I don't think we're achieving. Anyway, I'll chat with you more about it privately some time.

Arclei:
She's ADORABLE
She's really cute! She kind of reminds me of a Taiwanese actress named Ariel Lin. Very beautiful screenshots!
I'm dying to see her in a proper RR now because of her acting chops and her height. She would kill it!

Arclei:
The realist and the optimist
❤