I can’t wait for when he tell her the that he wants to marry her maybe cause he is sick and wants someone to…
I am very positive he said something along the lines off "due to the nature of his job and his past grudge (he is only one alive in his clan/family) an innocent/naive girl like his ex-wife won't survive the chaos/schemes of his household". He needs a strong and scheming vixen like FL to protect his daughter in his absence. That being said your theory also makes sense, vomiting blood usually equates to upcoming death in c-dramas, so we can agree to disagree on this one.
That's why you guys will not change anybody's mind cuz your entire argument stands on giving "Absolute Immunity"…
See let me tell you something, For my personal experience in dealing with cancer patients and some rape victims, the last thing they want in this world is for their loved one and people to treat them like victims 24/7. It's helpful and absolutely necessary in the beginning but after some time, they get tired of people always sympathizing with them and treating them like they are not normal and need special care not to hurt their emotions. I have even asked one of my patients, why he is yelling at his "good wife and filial children" and he told me. He is tired of being treated like some poor fellow and if these are his last days on earth, he wants his family members to be laughing around him and treating him like a good father. He wants to see his happy family before he dies and that's what is wrong with ML approach and behaviour. FL doesn't run away from her abusers to be treated like a perpetual victim by ML, she did it to be treated like a "normal girl next-door". So, ML approach of always forgiving and forgetting her mistakes is gona backfire big time on him and in the end, she will blame him and rightfully so cuz mistakes need to be pointed out for other party to know. They are doing something wrong here and I stand by opinion, that pain shouldn't be compared. I am not against "ML and FL" relationship, what I am against is ML behaviour after ep 24. The moment he knew she is Okay; he should have given her space let her be. She was the one who made a mistake twice and run away, if she wanted this relationship to continue, she should be one to reach out, sit down and have through discussion about their future. Then ML should have laid it all down on the table in front of her, he should have told her that her actions have hurt him deeply and allowed her to explain her side of the story. About Men not opening up lol, its one of those things which you are not going to agree on with me, but just like I have said, I can name more than twenty dudes on back of mind. Who were "VERY UNDERSTANDING with high EQ" and even had kids but their partners cheated on them MULTIPLE TIMES and the biggest blow came from the fact, that his children were not his own. There is a word woman use for people like them in the market and its "Cry babies, who are not man enough" and they get cheated on cuz woman knew they can get away with it and there is nothing his pathetic ass is going to do about it. So let me rephrase it again, it never ends well for SIMPS unless they grow up and develop some boundaries. We can agree to disagree on this one. By the way, I know what "hard life looks like".... although I am considered Upper class in my home country, but my parents controlled my pocket money. I studied day and night to secure my spot in Medical college in USA on full scholarship with stipend. After that I immigrated to USA at age of 18 and never asked for a dime from my parents. Not to be that guy but studying medicine is not easy and you have consistently score in top ten of your badge to maintain the scholarship/stipend. The reason I am telling you all that, is I can manage all that pressure but last thing I want is to get cheated on and get hurt in a relationship. Men and women are different, and they also process emotions differently!
Throw me off with that. You understand but actually you don't. If you understand, you'd know why he is not mad…
This is 21st century and I have free right to share my opinion online, so if you have problem with it. You can "F" off and ignore the comment, I was only agreeing with the guy. Secondly who told you these "FICTIONS" don't have real life consequences, dating game in China is in complete shambles thanks to these period dramas and everybody is demanding 6.1+ CEO's, who make more than 500,000 per month, while they make less than 5000 and are basically surviving. There are more than 100 million left over woman in China thanks to this "Period drama" trend. If you don't believe me, you can research this topic online and see for yourself.
After so many days i figure out that I love how people never commented back to me after I state that SY live a…
That's why you guys will not change anybody's mind cuz your entire argument stands on giving "Absolute Immunity" to FL for her mistakes and downplaying the pain ML suffered at the hands of FL. Why is it so wrong for you guys to accept a simple fact FL was wrong in this situation and there is no justification for it, you can't whitewash her mistakes and funny thing is. You are now blaming the "VICTIM" and saying the exact things, woman hating misogynist use in their defence of stupidity.... "He/She is overreacting it didn't caused that much pain"..... I mean just listen to yourself. I am really sorry to be rude but you don't know "Jack shit" about MEN and anything regarding that matter but have to but in and spew shit. CHECK THIS OUT ! https://headsupguys.org/suicide-in-men/suicide-stats-men/ https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/facts/data.html (in short Males make up 50% of the population but nearly 80% of suicides.) Failed relationships and the emotional torment at the hands of their partners (98% woman) is one of the biggest reasons behind, people un-aliving themselves. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1557988314546395 https://www.verywellmind.com/men-and-suicide-2328492 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/265134301_Why_Might_Men_Be_More_at_Risk_of_Suicide_After_a_Relationship_Breakdown_Sociological_Insights https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/full/10.1176/appi.pn.2023.06.6.7 I mean one gender is literally killing itself in droves cuz of one specific reason, but women are here "wilding on internet" claiming, its not that big of a deal and his PAIN DOESN'T MATTER and they are doing this to justify someone's mistakes. I know you guys have long list of supporters, but I don't give "F" cuz ML pain WAS NOT SOME SMALL NUIANCE and the fact that, you are willing to go that low to justify something is beyond reasoning. I hate using term like these, but it sounds very "Misandrist" of you to say that. I don't want to say this BUT we/I am living as biological men with XY chromosomes for 23+ years and thanks to my life experience. I/We know for a fact, what SIMP is and HOW it usually ends for them..... and we know this cuz we have countless "friends and family members" around us, who have gone down this path and got wrecked (cheated on) by the woman outside. This got nothing to do with gender but, "If you don't respect yourself, nobody will and if you allow yourself to be used, people will use you"
Throw me off with that. You understand but actually you don't. If you understand, you'd know why he is not mad…
Majority of fan base is single and that's why they are coming up with all sorts of convoluted reasons to justify her behaviour and present something as completely different. The simple gist of it is FL feelings for ML is less than 10% of ML feelings. In her hierarchy of things that are important to her, ML comes at last place and even if she has to run away a simple letter with words like "Lets break up and don't look for me" would have sufficed but ML feelings simply don't matter that much to her and unfortunately for him. He forgave her way too quickly for her past behaviour, which gave her the courage to act out again. I know people will start "in the name of LOVEEEEE" lectures here but world don't work like this and there is a reasons humanity evolved the concept of "Laws and Punishment".
When you watch ep 27, I think you might change your mind. I read this part of the book and it is fine. The 6 month…
You are prolly right but unfortunately I know someone who decided to end his life after his g.f of 8 years cheated on him, he was good dude and loved her like SY but that bitch...... It's one of the reason I hate cheating and infidelity with passion.
When you watch ep 27, I think you might change your mind. I read this part of the book and it is fine. The 6 month…
I have invested way too much time in it to drop it at this time, but I was thoroughly disappointed and mark my words. We may get few romantic scenes but there would zero improvement in FL behaviour and her mistakes would be swept under the rug. Even if she wrote "lets breakup and I am leaving" on paper and left it there, I would have understood her but NOPE ! Unfortunately, this drama is another victim of "Agenda pushing" like TPR..... her priority list is, 1) Her Trauma 2)Her Career 3)Her own Dreams and lastly ML, while its completely opposite for ML
People are calling Sang Yan a simp, but isn't that true love and selflessness—qualities that seem to be missing…
I am 99% sure your father is grateful to your mother and acknowledges her sacrifices and tries to help whenever he can. The major requirement for being a SIMP is doing it for someone who is utterly selfish and ungrateful, and hence FL running away with zero information. Even if she wrote simple words "lets breakup and I am leaving" on blank paper and left it on her bed, it would have been OKAY but NOPE ! So, ML wasn't the SIMP for first 24 episodes when there was "back and forth" going on between them. He became one after he decided to look for FL after her stunt and even send expedition parties to find her.
That being said your theory also makes sense, vomiting blood usually equates to upcoming death in c-dramas, so we can agree to disagree on this one.
This is her real voice, and she changed her voice My Journey to You to appease the mature character.
For my personal experience in dealing with cancer patients and some rape victims, the last thing they want in this world is for their loved one and people to treat them like victims 24/7. It's helpful and absolutely necessary in the beginning but after some time, they get tired of people always sympathizing with them and treating them like they are not normal and need special care not to hurt their emotions. I have even asked one of my patients, why he is yelling at his "good wife and filial children" and he told me. He is tired of being treated like some poor fellow and if these are his last days on earth, he wants his family members to be laughing around him and treating him like a good father. He wants to see his happy family before he dies and that's what is wrong with ML approach and behaviour.
FL doesn't run away from her abusers to be treated like a perpetual victim by ML, she did it to be treated like a "normal girl next-door". So, ML approach of always forgiving and forgetting her mistakes is gona backfire big time on him and in the end, she will blame him and rightfully so cuz mistakes need to be pointed out for other party to know. They are doing something wrong here and I stand by opinion, that pain shouldn't be compared. I am not against "ML and FL" relationship, what I am against is ML behaviour after ep 24. The moment he knew she is Okay; he should have given her space let her be. She was the one who made a mistake twice and run away, if she wanted this relationship to continue, she should be one to reach out, sit down and have through discussion about their future.
Then ML should have laid it all down on the table in front of her, he should have told her that her actions have hurt him deeply and allowed her to explain her side of the story.
About Men not opening up lol, its one of those things which you are not going to agree on with me, but just like I have said, I can name more than twenty dudes on back of mind. Who were "VERY UNDERSTANDING with high EQ" and even had kids but their partners cheated on them MULTIPLE TIMES and the biggest blow came from the fact, that his children were not his own. There is a word woman use for people like them in the market and its "Cry babies, who are not man enough" and they get cheated on cuz woman knew they can get away with it and there is nothing his pathetic ass is going to do about it.
So let me rephrase it again, it never ends well for SIMPS unless they grow up and develop some boundaries. We can agree to disagree on this one. By the way, I know what "hard life looks like".... although I am considered Upper class in my home country, but my parents controlled my pocket money. I studied day and night to secure my spot in Medical college in USA on full scholarship with stipend. After that I immigrated to USA at age of 18 and never asked for a dime from my parents. Not to be that guy but studying medicine is not easy and you have consistently score in top ten of your badge to maintain the scholarship/stipend. The reason I am telling you all that, is I can manage all that pressure but last thing I want is to get cheated on and get hurt in a relationship.
Men and women are different, and they also process emotions differently!
FL was wrong in this situation and there is no justification for it, you can't whitewash her mistakes and funny thing is. You are now blaming the "VICTIM" and saying the exact things, woman hating misogynist use in their defence of stupidity.... "He/She is overreacting it didn't caused that much pain"..... I mean just listen to yourself.
I am really sorry to be rude but you don't know "Jack shit" about MEN and anything regarding that matter but have to but in and spew shit.
CHECK THIS OUT !
https://headsupguys.org/suicide-in-men/suicide-stats-men/
https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/facts/data.html
(in short Males make up 50% of the population but nearly 80% of suicides.)
Failed relationships and the emotional torment at the hands of their partners (98% woman) is one of the biggest reasons behind, people un-aliving themselves.
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1557988314546395
https://www.verywellmind.com/men-and-suicide-2328492
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/265134301_Why_Might_Men_Be_More_at_Risk_of_Suicide_After_a_Relationship_Breakdown_Sociological_Insights
https://psychiatryonline.org/doi/full/10.1176/appi.pn.2023.06.6.7
I mean one gender is literally killing itself in droves cuz of one specific reason, but women are here "wilding on internet" claiming, its not that big of a deal and his PAIN DOESN'T MATTER and they are doing this to justify someone's mistakes.
I know you guys have long list of supporters, but I don't give "F" cuz ML pain WAS NOT SOME SMALL NUIANCE and the fact that, you are willing to go that low to justify something is beyond reasoning. I hate using term like these, but it sounds very "Misandrist" of you to say that.
I don't want to say this BUT we/I am living as biological men with XY chromosomes for 23+ years and thanks to my life experience. I/We know for a fact, what SIMP is and HOW it usually ends for them..... and we know this cuz we have countless "friends and family members" around us, who have gone down this path and got wrecked (cheated on) by the woman outside.
This got nothing to do with gender but,
"If you don't respect yourself, nobody will and if you allow yourself to be used, people will use you"
In her hierarchy of things that are important to her, ML comes at last place and even if she has to run away a simple letter with words like "Lets break up and don't look for me" would have sufficed but ML feelings simply don't matter that much to her and unfortunately for him. He forgave her way too quickly for her past behaviour, which gave her the courage to act out again.
I know people will start "in the name of LOVEEEEE" lectures here but world don't work like this and there is a reasons humanity evolved the concept of "Laws and Punishment".
Unfortunately, this drama is another victim of "Agenda pushing" like TPR..... her priority list is,
1) Her Trauma
2)Her Career
3)Her own Dreams
and lastly ML, while its completely opposite for ML
So, ML wasn't the SIMP for first 24 episodes when there was "back and forth" going on between them. He became one after he decided to look for FL after her stunt and even send expedition parties to find her.