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Replying to Sara Apr 29, 2026
what the heck you went all the waaaaaay to yumi’s grave
Well it is the reality for many people and perhaps you can entertain the idea that that reality exists :) Everlasting love is the basic tenant of Christian, Buddhist and Hindu marriages and it is real. If you live in love with your spouse for your entire life, you build a good karma with that person and you will always meet them in all your future lives and have a loving relationship with them.
I have seen that reality with my own eyes :)
AND YOU HAVE SEEN IT TOO. WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU TANGERINES DESCRIBES THAT KIND OF LOVE, as well a many kdramas :) you see old couples being loving to each other.

In Christianity, the idea of faithful marriage and life-lasting love is hypocritical and many ppl cheat. Esp Catholic countries are known for rampant cheating and established mistresses. Christianity has no effective tools to help people live the life that Christianity requires of them LOL

In Hinduism and Buddhism, marriage is marriage-yoga and its purpose is that spouses help each other reach enlightenment. So there is extensive training - meditation, self observation, consideration, speech, etc.....
And... The spouses are carefully paired up based on their astrological charts and social background, so that there is least amount of obstacles to their basic task - functioning as a team to run their household - and the ultimate underlying task - using marriage to come closer to enlightenment. These couples are bound in deep and lasting love and partnership. OR NOT lmao if they got heavy karma and many faults are thus are not doing the marriage properly :) but it is guaranteed, this kind of marriag is the best they are capable of.

This is in STARK contrast with the ideas of polygamy in Muslim/Arab world and Africa, where marriage is just for material benefits - a survival game for women and a pleasure/ruling trip for the man. The only goal is for the man to amass power by owning MANY people.
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On Our Happy Days Apr 29, 2026
Min Ho is so charming, so good looking, and so attentive to SFL, so swooning over her and taking care of her, it is so hard to resist his advances! He is this smiley ray of sunshine and blazingly beautiful and all there for her - but .... he is calculated in trapping her, pointing G's love interest, etc.... and .... when not around her, he can be so mean... He is not a nice guy yet and SFL is correctly cautious around him.... BUT HOPEFULLY ONE DAY he will become as nice inside as he is on the outside :) Bc... they are meant to be :) they are a great pair. She is a hot dame under that composed outer shell, and he is definitely openly a hot healthy dynamic man, and she will be able to defrost herself and enjoy many more aspects of herself and her life, her life will be a LOT richer with him, as he will draw her out and into living more fully, into adventures, having fun, playing, etc. That game of badmington was a great metaphor for their life together. They are both athletic, strong and healthy, and will have a great time together.

MH is the commitable kind, his dad is so in love and committed to his mother... so MH is lucky he fell in lov with a good, decent woman, unlike his dad, who fell in love with a nasty immature woman-child. I am not sure WHY Min Ho's dad loves his wife... ??? what i there to love?
We know why EH's dad fell in love with EH's mom - ep 22 shows that she has integrity after all.
SFL and G are too similar, both reserved and composed and too calm, so them together would have been a stale pond flat dead ......

G needs EH to shake and move him as she is a lot more outgoing, openly expressive yet gentle, so she breaks through his reserved and withdrawn outer shell. They are both very gentle, sensitive and playful, and people-oriented, they like doing things for others. Although very outgoing and expressive, although she pokes him and challenges him and openly ... insults him :) she is not scary to him bc she is gentle, warm and cuddly too, totally benevolent, like a bunny, and he always finds a way to talk to her. They are a PERFECT pair. And as a plus, she is super cute too.

Also, he is not all that withdrawn as he looks, he is already inviting her to dinners TWICE, ordering her to work late with him, etc. He is not a guy who sits still and waits for a woman to fall into his lap :) He is silent, but he MOVES :) That's a good compliment too, bc she is more clueless than him on the romantic front :) He is overall less naive, more professional. and more mature and SLEEK than she is, she is still too childish too often. But she is not a pushover :)
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Replying to wildfire160 Apr 29, 2026
Title Pearl in Red
No ones motives in this are interesting or make any sense and none of the characters that likeable...about the…
I am an amateur but seems to me that killing someone is not all that easy :)
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Replying to InspectorMegre Apr 29, 2026
Title Pearl in Red
great. I hope he will defrost now
she is pretending :) she is doing a good job at it :) She is a very strong assassin :)
BUT MJ was the one who was DEEPLY frozen.... He was like a robot all this time. MJ actor is not great actor, that' a part of it, but also MJ suffered from grief and depression and was living on automatic pilot for all those years. Nothing to look forward to - stuck in his father's schemes, and without the love of his life who made him happy and thus made his Adele-jail life tolerable

So I am expecting MJ to defrost now. Chloe is an Assassin and her total defrost is not going to happen for a while :) until she wins this game :)

MJ is now her help - but also he is now her liability. Now she has to worry about him AND the revenge - and her marrying HJ etc.... This opens a whole can of worms, e.g. HJ hurting MJ to keep JJ.....
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On First Man Apr 29, 2026
Title First Man
BH SUCCESSFULLY STOOD UP TO JM IN AMAZINGLY ELEGANT WAY!!!!!! he made her quit all games and commit to him - with very few words, in a totally calm logical clear way. Wow BH!!!! Wow JM too, to be so deeply in sync with BH to really understand everything he said/meant in like 3 sentences they exchanged... and to permanently irrevocably commit on the spot.

Yeah, JM has some brains and loves BH very deeply. She *is* his woman... She finally realized it :) Also, I am finally convinced lol

As I think more and more about that epic scene of JM running away as BH's bride - running away from JH to marry BH - veil and all - and the scene just before when he found her literally on her knees, all broken and helpless and ready to quit her games, and she consented to run away to save SR (and internally, she made a decision to commit herself as BH's partner) - it was so smooth - they synced up perfectly - without almost any words, they came to the same page AND JM COMMITTED HERSELF DEEPLY AND IRREVOCABLY AS BH'S BRIDE. Those two scenes were so deep. it was incredible. Now they are both equally committed and a perfectly synced up team.

Wow!!! with like 7 sentences and 2 short scenes... This was like a ... molotov coctail lmao JM just totally metamorphosed in 1 scene, 2 minutes!!!! This was amazing thriller scenes... Amazing Zen-like scenes .... total coordination of two people on the same page, totally and completely committed to each other. WOW!

Runaway bride scenes have been done million times already with various lines and actors, but what BH and JM said and how JM and BH did those scenes in the context of her having backstabbed him and the need to save them all was just amazing. The actors made those 7 sentences totally come to life with super deep meaning. This is totally totally epic.

BH stood up to JM in such a clever way.. when he offered his hand, he conveyed to her QUIT YOUR SH.T GAMES RIGHT NOW, and when she accepted his hand, she effectively said YEAH YOU ARE RIGHT. AND BTW I AM YOURS. In that, she metamorphosed into a lot more mature and committed JM. And it was NOT done like a daddy to a stupid child. It was done like a gentleman to his lady. And the rest is history.

I counted the sentences in the spoiler. It is literally 7 sentences and 2 short scenes. THIS IS TOTALLY TOTALLY ***** M A S T E R F U L *****
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Replying to Shinubi No Holds Barred Apr 29, 2026
Title First Man
Ta Da! It was aerobics time, well, almost. The wedding day arrived, and Sourface was all excited about getting…
I forgot to mention the most important thing about that veil - it shows that JM ran away as BH's bride :)
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Replying to Shinubi No Holds Barred Apr 28, 2026
Title First Man
Ta Da! It was aerobics time, well, almost. The wedding day arrived, and Sourface was all excited about getting…
the veil is such an important detail, it tells you how much in a rush she was that she did not notice / did not have the time to take it off - she is a runaway bride, on a run... in a real real real rush.. AND SHE RAN AWAY AS BH's BRIDE :)
The veil makes that scene totally epic
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On First Man Apr 28, 2026
Title First Man
I suspect that the Chairman will dislike the twin idea and try to get rid of JM and SH and the entire family - so that the stock doesnt fall :(
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Replying to InspectorMegre Apr 28, 2026
Title First Man Spoiler
That EPIC scene of lovebirds running away ... !!!! OMG I am totally in awe Details in spoiler
I am really impressed how it was all resolved - BH as a gentleman, JM as a damsel in distress being helped - it was clear she was a dumbo and tried all her tricks and it did not work and she had to SURRENDER in total humiliation and hopelessness

- but still it was NOT cheap at all - and she was totally deflated and cooperating - totally humiliated, remorseful, on-track, in-sync, and totally giving in

**** BH stood up to her and cornered her in such a gentlemanly way!!!!! he made her do a U turn without shaming her, without harassing her, ah so gently but ah so forcefully and firmly and KINDLY, so CALMLY.

And it was not sexist - he was not putting her down - she was a damsel in distress yet there was nothing putting her down, it was all genuine. He was genuinely helping her and she was genuinely going with his plans bc they were good plans and she wanted it.

I AM IMPRESSED!!!!! this is super sophisticated! HOW THEY SYNCED UP WAS TOTALLY TOTALLY MASTERFUL!!!!!

I am still speechles!!!! That scene left me with my eyes popping out and my jaw wide open!!!!!

HOW BAEK HO STOOD UP TO JM AND CONVINCED HER TO QUIT HER DESTRUCTIVE GAME - he did not scold her, harass her, talk for hours, go to psychoterapy and family counseling, he did not raise his voice, ...

HE JUST CALMLY CAME TO THE SCENE OF DISASTER, ASKED HER WHERE SEO RIN WAS, AND THEN SAID - LETS GET OUT OF HERE.

JM wa totally broken and sitting on the floor and she UNDERSTOOD what he was saying and just left with him!!!! and that scene in the car when he asked her to confirm if she WANTS TO leave with him.

WOOOOOOOOOOOO WWWWWW!!!!!!

The scene of holding one hand on the half open car door, wedding veil still on, and telling JH with a very strong and convinced yet apologetic SINCERE voice - I CANNOT GIVE UP BH - and BH saying, ok, let's get into the car now... and then they sit and BH asks JM: ARE YOU READY TO LEAVE NOW? and she says YES
BH was so sure and so calm and so grounded. SO FOCUSED yet relaxed.
And JM was so determined. Wow.
Zen :)

WOOOW!!!! this is totally totally EPIC!!!! so elegantly done!!!!

SOPHISTICATED!!!! this is that Asian sophistication and tact in action!!!! I am totally totally impressed!!!! so DIPLOMATIC and so effective!

MOST OF IT HAPPENED WITHOUT ANY WORDS, JUST BY READING THE ROOM AND UNDERSTANDING THE SITUATION

I am in total awe
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Replying to InspectorMegre Apr 28, 2026
Title First Man Spoiler
HEY GUYS: LAPDOG IS MOST LIKELY NOT JUNK HO's DAD. See spoiler
HY HAD 2 SECRET BABIES: first, she gave birth Ha Neul aka Jun Ho while she was a nobody, and then she was pregnant when she was a very famous actress... and she publicly announced that the dad was Chairman's son....
- but Lapdog was her assistant and behaved as the kid's dad and he and HY talked as if he was the dad. They were going to fake DNA test and bag Chairmans son... and get into Dream Group... . SH dated Chairman's son and was pregnant, but when she heard HY announce it in public, she ran away ... and Chairman sent his son to work in France .... where he diappeared while yaughting ... THEN HY MISCARRIED HER BABY while spying on SH, AND HY RESORTED TO KINDAPPING ONE OF SK'S TWINS AND KILLING SH AND THE OTHER TWIN
>>>> SO HY'S CRIMINAL HISTORY TAKES OFF WITH THE LAPDOG <<<<<<<

Lapdog had no idea that Junk Ho existed and was drilling HY who the father was. If JH was his baby, HY had to disappear for 10 months to hide it from him.
SO LAPDOG IS MOST LIKELY NOT JH's FATHER and we dont know who the father is.
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Replying to misheru77 Apr 28, 2026
Title First Man
I am so confused. Was she really upset at her sister for her about to marry Jun Ho?? From the preview tomorrow…
of course she was! woudnt you too? someone else was just about to marry her man...
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Replying to InspectorMegre Apr 28, 2026
Bc the audience is SHALLOW and wants some fantasy fluff that makes them turn their brain off and get lost in the…
Sure ppl can watch whatever they want.

Perfect Crown is not "a light watch" it is a stupid regressive watch, where ppl adore two psychos who have everything wanting to have even more and rule the world; and the audience admires the ideas of royalty, privileges, insane ambition, having it all, ultimate power. HARDLY SOMETHING DESIRABLE AND APPROPRIATE FOR 21st CENTURY, dont you think? the ideas are just obsolete.

however ppl still fantasize about owning the world. I dont call that "light" I call it majorly egoistical and ultimately feeding the seeds of evil.

and - here is a thought for you - there is no such thing as "light" entertainment :) It always carries messages :) that are always super serious - and that is why ALL entertainment is censored :) EVERYWHERE :)
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Replying to theWatchingDuck Apr 28, 2026
Dudeee, youre right, giving a lot of Kung Fu Hustle vibes here.and, hey...think you seen this in the last episode…
I dont remember now but it is very possible. Dramas make a living from advertisements :)
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Replying to InspectorMegre Apr 28, 2026
Title First Man
but chairman is also using fakeSR as a pawn in his game. he first let her choose and allowed her to NOT marry…
Yeah.
It turns out he did not know - how is that possible?
Well how is it possible he didnt find his own son for 30 yrs... ?? So clearly Chairman is not the sharpest tool in the box either.
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Replying to InspectorMegre Apr 28, 2026
Title First Man
Chairman INTENTIONALLY married fakeSR to JH to silence the Professor, to bring the enemies close and keep them…
Indeed - IF the dumbo JM can think of doing that...
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Replying to Deulama4U Apr 28, 2026
For me he isn’t shy but autistic. I don’t know if the author knows well the condition but he has really several…
I WROTE ABOUT THAT - THIS LABELING AND THAT LIST OF SYMPTOMS YOU SHARED - however it is called - IS A VERY SLEAZY WAY TO BULLY PPL INto SOCIAL OBEDIENCE. It is a form of Nazicm lmao

Since you havent read what I wrote and since you are so clueless and so ... nazi about enforcing somethng that has a MEDICAL LABEL AND SOCIAL STIGMA - and you take it sooo lightly and so righteously and that is precesly what makes you into a very dangerous psychopath, to be honest - I really do not think you should be meddling into it bc you are just off the rails with it

I do not wish to talk further with you. So bye now.
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Replying to A_x_0 Apr 28, 2026
Am I the only one that thinks Hwang Dong Man may have an ED and he use food to suppress his emotions?
no he does not
One part of the problem is that he is so poor he is literally starving - so he has to eat any free food he finds
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Replying to InspectorMegre Apr 28, 2026
Title First Man
I am very impressed by Korean sophistication - JM going to BH was solved with such tact and so cheeky! wow!!!!…
Easy - click on their name in a post, or go to mydramalist.com/user/THEIRNAME and that will display their profile.
So click on the LETTER icon next to "friend" dropdown menu
INTRESTING! I just tried to DM you and it said "token verification failed" - so I dont understand why... You will have to google this or ask MDL support
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Replying to TooEmotional Apr 28, 2026
The character chart shows a relationship between Eun Ae's Mom and the Chairman's wife- they are mother and daughter.
Cool :) I could not guarantee that I was correct - but I usually am :) I am so glad that you confirmed that I was on the right track.

I never look at those charts, previews, etc I just go by what I see, bc that is an EXERCISE in "seeing" :) honing my detective skillZ
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On Pearl in Red Apr 28, 2026
Title Pearl in Red
Chloe is right - Chloe is not BJJ... BJJ evolved into Chloe, someone very different - not naive at all, very wordly, very professional, very cunning, an amazing strategist and manipulator, an ASSASIN .... BJJ is somewhere in there, burried deep... but most of BJJ is gone.. BJJ was a naive pushover, and Chloe is a TIGER
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