Kinara

I am rewatching this and it is clear that she starts weaving this web and then she gets entangled in it. It keeps happening again and again. And I have realized that it is more her head than her friend’s advice . She has some input yes but the FL extrapolates everything to a different level.

That is true ,she is just bad on the relationship front

She keeps second guessing everything that happens between them. It’s just crazy

My point as well LOL

Yes she has her own story going in her head and then there is the reality that is happening around her. It’s so true . She is stuck in the web that she spun

I guess. -but that is her thought process

Yes that to true. BTWi just realized something of you want to understand Shuyi ‘s behavior now it may be possible if you go. Back and watch ep 18- the post new year stables conversation between Shan Shan and her. It may give you some insight

For sure. She did a number on him

It’s totally getting out hand- it’s such a simple stupid issue really that has been so drawn out

Ok that make sense- looks like that may move along this train wreck. Anything at this point - this story needs to move

Well only the part of her brain to do her job well is developed . The rest is straw . Shan Shan was in a bad place and mopping everywhere . That is why she gave such bad advice

But man can’t they leave some redeeming quality on the he FL? Why make her so horrible

I liked when I fly towards you - it was very sweet

Agreed she was pretty aggressive when she pursued him and now she has cold feet. If you really love a person there are many ways you can reach them . She could have asked You You or Shiyue to arrange a meeting . Whatever. She never put in any effort

And you are gritting your teeth lol

Yes what that coworker said was completely valid

Oh really? That is the direction this is going? Interesting

I second thaf

Yes it’s a bit much . Not at all healthy for the relationship itself

Oh absolutely- but she did take a lot of shanshan’s advice seriously ’