Kinara

A lot of us are watching because we love these actors. And I think Bai Lu has done a fantastic job portraying Shuyi - a very unique FL lead with a lot of negative aspects. She is one of my favorite actresses

I thin you are dwelling on the wrong stuff

Thank you. Wonderful analysis of the show

They need to put a health warning on this one

She could go to his house for her damn interview draft and wait there for hours can’t she do the same thing for this? To say I can’t do anything is ridiculous

Yes you are not alone- I felt very sad after this episode. I feel for Shi Yan

Then just do the job don’t hang out with him in malls and restaurants or cycling or you high school. That means you are not drawing a clear boundary and you want the
Attention. This woman can’t say no to any of the men and treats them all better than her boyfriend

I don’t think so Shi Yan is just reserved- he is not at all complicated. He has some firm principles- but that’s about it. He already said that he puts honesty up there . He put a 100% effort into that relationship even helped her with her career. So I don’t blame him for being angry now . If she is not even ready to talk through it and apologize properly - why should he listen,? The FL is clearly wrong here . No excuses . The ML is the victim here

He has much higher EQ and better boundaries than her. Look at the way he took care of her when they were together . The FL does not deserve him

People for some reason want to sweep all the FL’s wrongs under the rug and want talk about the ML’s faults

I am glad he rejected her help when GJ offered it. That B is up to no good placing the blame squarely on Shi Yan’s lap

Absolutely

Yes that is what has happened- there is no weight or value to anything she said or did. That is why Shi Yan is in this state now

That is true too

Exactly. Shi Yan is not stupid

Yes that too and that too after she made all those grandiose statements about being there for him forever

She is just trash. This is what happens when you listen to trash rather than rational people. I am glad Shi Yan refused her help when Guan Ji offered it. That woman is up to no good

Exactly - is that a surprise .- it’s like someone said here- why can’t they make it about the man this time. Clearly he is the one who loved her deeply and got hurt. But then because of that he will be one who will try harder to patch up sigh!

Exactly - who does that ? And for once let it be about the man too. She is the one who created the mess - it is on her to understand what she did wrong and fix it. And if she really loves him sincerely she will do way more than what she is doing now. Her so called apology was awful and she is clearly more interested in hanging out with a guy who she knows is pursuing her. How much does she love our ML then? It’s questionnable

She is stuck in this web she spun and she can’t get out