Mcmr

" it is all in the eyes of the beholder, as the saying goes each sees the world not the way it is, but the way they are."

This was a bit below the belt lol

Yeah, let's just agree to disagree I guess. I do stand by what I said though as the FL clearly exhibited toxic traits/behaviors (her constant dishonesty being one of them)

And btw, no need to get personal just because I disliked this show 🤣 But hey - you do you

If the FL falsely accusing the ML of forcing her to sleep with him is not toxic, then I don’t know what it is...
Or perhaps running away to Shanghai and imposing a long-distance relationship without informing him beforehand (even though they are engaged) is not toxic? And let’s not forget that she physically assaulted him too.

I used this word on purpose because it applies to this FL.

Thanks for the rec! I will give it a try 🤗

Let me tell you that she'll do something even worse than that! She's really toxic to the core

Did you ID the intro song by any chance? I LOVE it!

1. I don’t remember when they got together, sorry
2. Yes, there will be a break up (won't last too long though)
Edit: In fact, they'll break up twice at least
3. Yes, happy ending (ML and FL end up together)

Totally- she was serviceable at best

The ML was super unlikeable, but the FL was even more toxic lol. This girl will get more ridiculous as the show goes on

+ the leads were quite toxic but it was completely brushed over. I wouldn't have minded if they were MEANT to be toxic, but the way the story was told made me think that their behavior was somewhat socially acceptable. It was not romantic/wholesome at all, and def lacked depth. Dialogues were clunky and unnatural, ML didn’t act well, director favored style over substance, some side characters (like the FL's brother, grandma Lin) didn't add anything to the drama, pacing wasn't great...

Honestly, the only I watched till the end was because I liked the teenage versions of the leads, the FL's sister, the FL's best friend and Cui Ge (the TCM doctor)

This drama also kept glorifying abuse and was quite nonsensical at times. I am surprised it was such a critical hit...

Thanks for the kind words, and apologies for the very late reply (got very busy with life).

I don’t have a list per se, but my fav cdramas are as follows: The Story of Minglan, The Story of Yanxi Palace, Oh My General, Court Lady, The Sword and The Brocade, The Legend of Shen Li, Meet Yourself, Joy of Life, Sword Snow Stride, and Mysterious Lotus Casebook

Thanks a lot for the link and for this explanation 🥰

Please share if you still have it 🤗🤗

Hahaha yeah, yxh and antis are real life villains!

Wtf! Hope the police got involved! That's just insane!

Totally agree! I don't understand people who watch only a few episodes and then rate the show... Clearly, they haven't watched enough to judge the entirety of the show! And yes, it's sad that people are review bombing just because they happen to dislike the cast...

I have never seen anything like this tbh... Like, the hate is so unjustified... I just cannot comprehend what went so wrong

I have become very wary of c-ent now. I hope the FMOH will come out of this debacle unscathed and well. I feel super bad for them

Clearly, these antis have way too much time on their hands...
I wish the government/police would tackle these cases when they veer into cyberbullying...