Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that, Edinaa! I hope it isn't anything too serious.
If you'd like to share, I'd be happy to listen as a friend without judgment.
How did you like Like Father, Like Son? I also saw it here in the cinemas.
Hugs to you, luv!
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Ohhhh! Me thinks he likes yah, Juniko-ssi! Although we kinda already knew that. I just think men - regardless of where they're from - are way too selfish & self-centred to waste time & money on a girl they don't really like.
Cultures within Asia can be weird, and their dating culture is obviously different from that of the West. Moreover their tendency to infantilize women can lead to an overabundance of chivalry even if they're not that into you ... but I still can't sense that happening in your case.
Either the guy really digs you OR he's working hard for some booty!
Are you going to meet him again? What do you want from him?
Thx for the heads up on the finale of Nine. I knew the ending was weird, that's exactly why I'm afraid to watch it. What if it's weird I don't like?
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Golden Bride is so cute & so worth it, BUT it's at least 20 eps too long so prepare for a lot of repetition & drag.
I absolutely loved Chang Ui in this drama, though. He was sooooo wonderful. Every girl should find a man like him. He & the female lead made the cutest couple EVERRRRR!
As for your bad habit ... hehe! No judgment here! I usually go for the looks first then sit up and pay attention when I see damn good acting. This is what happened with Go Soo in Golden Empire. Always liked him for his fineness, but damn that drama proved the brother can ACT!
I'm also known to tolerate a lot of cringe worthy acting for a cute face! :p
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How are you liking Missing You? It's one I want to watch. I tend to like the female lead. Her dramas always have good kisses! :p
A drama can never have too much happiness for me. As long as it's not clawing & cheesy, light ... with some comedic moments (like City Hall) is what I love best.
You still haven't watched beyond ep 11??? Gurl, what you waiting on?
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Omo! I just noticed that Tæ Won is played by Song Chang Ui ... or whatever his name is! I LOOOOVED him in Golden Bride! Such a sweet guy! He suits these nice guy characters, but he always plays in dramas where he's controlled by his mother. I just can't fully respect a man who can't stand up to his mother. Come on!
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Somebody needs to Lorena Bobbitt his ass. God, I really hate characters like him. I don't know how you tolerate dramas like these, sis. I really don't.
Heck, I didn't realize the show was so long! Thought it was about to be wrapped up!!! Oh, one thing I forgot to ask, how old is Eun Soo's sister? She's older than Eun Soo, but still a virgin????
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Thx for the update, hon! As usual you crack me up with your very creative play with words. Visual diarrhea! Haha Girl, WHERE do you come up with these phrases???
I'm a lil disappointed we didn't get an all out show down this week. I'm not even watching the show & it already feels draggy to me. Does it feel that way to you? Anyway, finally happy to see that people are starting to get their due. Looks like next week is the sh*t! :)
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I listened to the DVD commentary & the creators (writer David Benioff among others) said they had to leave out more than just a few details to fit not only into the time slot, but also the 10 ep (as opposed to 20+ on network TV) season count.
I can't wait to sink my teeth into them, though when I'll have time to read several 1000+ page books is anybody's guess! :)
You still haven't come with any erotica recs, btw. Are you avoiding my question or just caught up in our convo? :)
Did you start any dramas? Why don't you update your lists? Surely you've seen more than 5 dramas and 2 movies?
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The same here. I used to love romance novels, but after I hit my twenties they lost all appeal. I mostly read crime, horror & fantasy. I'll read the occasional romance if it's an author I know & trust, but otherwise, no. When it comes to erotica though I don't seem to mind it. I still look for a story line, but because I can't read pure erotica I gravitate more toward romantic erotica. I'll read fantasy erotica too, but the ones I've come across weren't very well done.
In the books I mentioned most of the doms were women, whilst the men, except two, were subs. Eventually the main mistress turned out to be a switch, though she continued being Mistress to her subs. Anyway, doesn't seem BDSM is your thing so these might not be for you.
I'm still on the first book in Song of Ice & Fire. I never should have watched the series first because now I'm dragging my feet reading the books! Which is pure foolishness because I know the series takes great liberties with the story & plot!
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Haha, porn isn't meant for entertainment. You just get your rocks off and be done with it! :p
The series I mentioned, which consists of 6 books, has two books dedicated to gay characters. The 1st & the 5th. I read the first book, have not read the fifth and probably won't.
I'm not homophobic (seriously), but I don't usually read gay fiction. Well, that's not entirely true. Once in a blue moon, but it's not my go to fare. I really enjoyed the writing in the first book, the characters were also okay, but I recall the story left something to be desired. I've heard good things about the 5th book, Rough Canvas.
If you have a kindle I do rec you give these book a try & see if they're for you. The D/s (and other BDSM elements) is intense, but not intolerable.
Song of Ice & Fire ... that's G R R Martin, isn't it?
One reason I prefer romantic erotica is because I sometimes find pure erotic fiction hard to stomach. People just fucking for fuck's sake. Page after page after page. Like you said, porn is boring! :) No judgment, mind you, but not my cuppa chai.
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Haha, no, no fecal matter! Do people really enjoy reading about that stuff??? #smh To each their own I guess.
Anyway, I really enjoyed the Nature of Desire series by Joey w. Hill. I haven't read the entire series, only the first 4 books. Of those four my favourite was Ice Queen/Mirror of my Soul.
You seem to have very specific tastes so I can't guarantee you'll like it (if ever you choose to read it), but it's one I've rec'ed to fans of the genre & mostly people have enjoyed it.
I tend to prefer romantic erotica than pure erotic, though I do read both. What about you?
Can you recommend me some of the titles you enjoy? Even though I'm not reading as much as I used to, I still collect books. You never know how the tides might turn in the future!
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Jo, what's up? Did you finish NINE???
We were supposed to watch the last ep together, remember?
As for sad dramas ... I don't like tragedies. I can watch one every once in a blue moon or if it's a story that's significant in history, but that's an exception to my general rule. I think life provides enough opportunities for sadness. I don't need more in my entertainment.
Not that I'm looking for complete escapism. I DO like watching dramas with a certain poignancy to them. Where everything isn't roses & bows, but not death & gloom either. I guess it's a balancing act.
Best example I can give is the movie 3-iron. It had just the right amount of sadness, but was also thoroughly infused with hope & lightness. That movie made me a fan of director, Kim Ki Duk. I can't remember if you've seen it?
What's been up with you lately?
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Bourne, I still haven't watched the last ep of Nine yet. I guess I'll get to it when the time is right.
What are you watching these days, if anything?
I seem to be in a slump. Haven't watched a drama since ... well, Nine. But I have been catching up on some movies. Mostly Japanese classics which I'm starting love more than its contemporary cinema.
By the way are you familiar with Thai director Pen-Ek Ratanaruang?
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Top fan! Apologies for the late reply, chingu! Busy, busy, busy! :)
I haven't seen Phoenix with my main squeeze, Lee Seo Jin. But I most definitely will! :)
Did you finish it? How was it?
Man, I can't wait for the day Eric Munn does another drama that's watchable for me! That brother is seriously hot! lol
What else are you watching? Anything good?
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Displaced, apologies for the late reply!
I realize as time goes by I'm getting pickier and pickier about dramas I watch. Sometimes dramas are too wayward in insulting people's intelligence so I can't be bothered with most of them unless I'm in a specific mood for pure silliness.
When it comes to my viewing preferences I do have certain genres I enjoy more than others (as you saw on my profile), but I literally watch anything according to my mood. A few months ago I found it impossible to watch anything that wasn't romance related. Now I seem to have developed a strong appetite for Japanese classics -- which I'm starting to enjoy MORE than their contemporary cinema because the stories are richer, the emotional impact stronger & many are surprisingly less prudish than their contemporaries. In fact watching latter day Japanese cinema one might think the country has experience some sort of sexual regression the way they make a big deal of 2 characters holding hands! lol
Anyway, loved your article on Oguri Shun! He's not the most beautiful man on the planet, but he's just the way I like my men! Fell in love with him in Rich Man, Poor Woman & can't wait to see him in other shows & movies as inspired by your article! :)
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Sleepy! Don't shoot!
I'm sorry it has taken so long to write you back. I've been a little busy & stressed out as usual. Anyway, thx for the news about ms. Nina-ssi. She did mention taking on a bit more responsibility at her job. Good for her! Though I miss having her around.
As for what I've been watching, nothing much drama wise. Seems like I'm in a little slump, though I wasn't expecting to be. I think my last drama was Nine & I loved it! :)
I've mostly been trying to put a dent in my movie watch list. Since that list just keep getting more and more pregnant.
I read just now on facebook that Seo Jin's new drama has already breached the 30% mark in ratings after only 2 eps! Looks like I'm not the only one who's missed him! The entire nation of Korea has been wondering where the heck the guy's been holding up! lol
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King2Heart was pretty hyped on this site, but I'm not surprised it's not living up to expectation. I'm a Ha Ji Won anti-fan so I'll never watch it (esp since I'm not into any of the male leads). I am looking forward to your review, however. When's it coming? It's been 2 weeks now since you've watched the show. Did you write it & I missed it somehow? I hope you're well, ms. Ela! :)
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Hello ms. Juniko, you must forgive me for taking 2 whole weeks to respond to your post. It's all due to overwork, stress, mental exhaustion & laziness. My apologies.
My grand plan to go shake my booty with the Ahjussi fell thru when he opted to watch the Olympics than 'patronize commercialism' or something to that effect ... his words. He did give me a good undramalike kiss & warm cuddles though so I guess no valentiney gift trumps that! :)
And I got to hang out with my good friend Lena from Latvia. We had some Indian & downed 2 bottles of white! ;) She's a good 12 yrs or so older than me, but so much fun! I intend to share her story with a Japanese boyfriend sometime on the feeds! It's like straight out of a drama, I tell you! ahaha
Re: LJW ... it's possible he has an issue with his sad face, but who cares Juniko??? Oppa is totally asmokin'! haha No, seriously though, you may be right! I can't remember. I'll keep a look out when I finally WATCH THE LAST EP! Don't ask me what I'm waiting on! I can be such a pussy sometimes, scared of bad ambiguous endings & sad endings...
How did your plans go down after your cold? Did you manage to entertain your guests? And if I'm not being too forward, how is your love life??? Whatever was the conclusion with that Japanese guy? Are you two still up at all hours of the night chatting? I know you're currently single ... which I think is a good thing, but you're allowed to have friends of the male persuasion, ani? ;)
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Omo, don't tell me it's more of the same BS again this week? Girl, hurry up & write! I've got to see what you're talking about!
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I've been watching mostly movies of late, Japanese classics which I'm starting to love more than it's contemporary cinema & a few mindf**k movies from the aficionado of bizarre, Takashi Miike.
I can't seem to muster the interest to start a new drama! It's been a few weeks now.
What are you watching that's good for you? Are you still mostly watching American shows? Are you watching any of the newer ones? I've heard House of Cards with Kevin Spacey & Bates Motel (with my favourite actress Vera Farmiga) are pretty good. At some point I might check 'em out.
Haha, actually I'm thinking of returning to my original name. I'm not divorcing mr. Lee, but I'm starting to feel like I've lost my identity bearing his name around. Haha! :)
If you'd like to share, I'd be happy to listen as a friend without judgment.
How did you like Like Father, Like Son? I also saw it here in the cinemas.
Hugs to you, luv!
Cultures within Asia can be weird, and their dating culture is obviously different from that of the West. Moreover their tendency to infantilize women can lead to an overabundance of chivalry even if they're not that into you ... but I still can't sense that happening in your case.
Either the guy really digs you OR he's working hard for some booty!
Are you going to meet him again? What do you want from him?
Thx for the heads up on the finale of Nine. I knew the ending was weird, that's exactly why I'm afraid to watch it. What if it's weird I don't like?
I absolutely loved Chang Ui in this drama, though. He was sooooo wonderful. Every girl should find a man like him. He & the female lead made the cutest couple EVERRRRR!
As for your bad habit ... hehe! No judgment here! I usually go for the looks first then sit up and pay attention when I see damn good acting. This is what happened with Go Soo in Golden Empire. Always liked him for his fineness, but damn that drama proved the brother can ACT!
I'm also known to tolerate a lot of cringe worthy acting for a cute face! :p
A drama can never have too much happiness for me. As long as it's not clawing & cheesy, light ... with some comedic moments (like City Hall) is what I love best.
You still haven't watched beyond ep 11??? Gurl, what you waiting on?
Heck, I didn't realize the show was so long! Thought it was about to be wrapped up!!! Oh, one thing I forgot to ask, how old is Eun Soo's sister? She's older than Eun Soo, but still a virgin????
I'm a lil disappointed we didn't get an all out show down this week. I'm not even watching the show & it already feels draggy to me. Does it feel that way to you? Anyway, finally happy to see that people are starting to get their due. Looks like next week is the sh*t! :)
I can't wait to sink my teeth into them, though when I'll have time to read several 1000+ page books is anybody's guess! :)
You still haven't come with any erotica recs, btw. Are you avoiding my question or just caught up in our convo? :)
Did you start any dramas? Why don't you update your lists? Surely you've seen more than 5 dramas and 2 movies?
In the books I mentioned most of the doms were women, whilst the men, except two, were subs. Eventually the main mistress turned out to be a switch, though she continued being Mistress to her subs. Anyway, doesn't seem BDSM is your thing so these might not be for you.
I'm still on the first book in Song of Ice & Fire. I never should have watched the series first because now I'm dragging my feet reading the books! Which is pure foolishness because I know the series takes great liberties with the story & plot!
The series I mentioned, which consists of 6 books, has two books dedicated to gay characters. The 1st & the 5th. I read the first book, have not read the fifth and probably won't.
I'm not homophobic (seriously), but I don't usually read gay fiction. Well, that's not entirely true. Once in a blue moon, but it's not my go to fare. I really enjoyed the writing in the first book, the characters were also okay, but I recall the story left something to be desired. I've heard good things about the 5th book, Rough Canvas.
If you have a kindle I do rec you give these book a try & see if they're for you. The D/s (and other BDSM elements) is intense, but not intolerable.
Song of Ice & Fire ... that's G R R Martin, isn't it?
One reason I prefer romantic erotica is because I sometimes find pure erotic fiction hard to stomach. People just fucking for fuck's sake. Page after page after page. Like you said, porn is boring! :) No judgment, mind you, but not my cuppa chai.
Anyway, I really enjoyed the Nature of Desire series by Joey w. Hill. I haven't read the entire series, only the first 4 books. Of those four my favourite was Ice Queen/Mirror of my Soul.
You seem to have very specific tastes so I can't guarantee you'll like it (if ever you choose to read it), but it's one I've rec'ed to fans of the genre & mostly people have enjoyed it.
I tend to prefer romantic erotica than pure erotic, though I do read both. What about you?
Can you recommend me some of the titles you enjoy? Even though I'm not reading as much as I used to, I still collect books. You never know how the tides might turn in the future!
We were supposed to watch the last ep together, remember?
As for sad dramas ... I don't like tragedies. I can watch one every once in a blue moon or if it's a story that's significant in history, but that's an exception to my general rule. I think life provides enough opportunities for sadness. I don't need more in my entertainment.
Not that I'm looking for complete escapism. I DO like watching dramas with a certain poignancy to them. Where everything isn't roses & bows, but not death & gloom either. I guess it's a balancing act.
Best example I can give is the movie 3-iron. It had just the right amount of sadness, but was also thoroughly infused with hope & lightness. That movie made me a fan of director, Kim Ki Duk. I can't remember if you've seen it?
What's been up with you lately?
What are you watching these days, if anything?
I seem to be in a slump. Haven't watched a drama since ... well, Nine. But I have been catching up on some movies. Mostly Japanese classics which I'm starting love more than its contemporary cinema.
By the way are you familiar with Thai director Pen-Ek Ratanaruang?
I haven't seen Phoenix with my main squeeze, Lee Seo Jin. But I most definitely will! :)
Did you finish it? How was it?
Man, I can't wait for the day Eric Munn does another drama that's watchable for me! That brother is seriously hot! lol
What else are you watching? Anything good?
I realize as time goes by I'm getting pickier and pickier about dramas I watch. Sometimes dramas are too wayward in insulting people's intelligence so I can't be bothered with most of them unless I'm in a specific mood for pure silliness.
When it comes to my viewing preferences I do have certain genres I enjoy more than others (as you saw on my profile), but I literally watch anything according to my mood. A few months ago I found it impossible to watch anything that wasn't romance related. Now I seem to have developed a strong appetite for Japanese classics -- which I'm starting to enjoy MORE than their contemporary cinema because the stories are richer, the emotional impact stronger & many are surprisingly less prudish than their contemporaries. In fact watching latter day Japanese cinema one might think the country has experience some sort of sexual regression the way they make a big deal of 2 characters holding hands! lol
Anyway, loved your article on Oguri Shun! He's not the most beautiful man on the planet, but he's just the way I like my men! Fell in love with him in Rich Man, Poor Woman & can't wait to see him in other shows & movies as inspired by your article! :)
I'm sorry it has taken so long to write you back. I've been a little busy & stressed out as usual. Anyway, thx for the news about ms. Nina-ssi. She did mention taking on a bit more responsibility at her job. Good for her! Though I miss having her around.
As for what I've been watching, nothing much drama wise. Seems like I'm in a little slump, though I wasn't expecting to be. I think my last drama was Nine & I loved it! :)
I've mostly been trying to put a dent in my movie watch list. Since that list just keep getting more and more pregnant.
I read just now on facebook that Seo Jin's new drama has already breached the 30% mark in ratings after only 2 eps! Looks like I'm not the only one who's missed him! The entire nation of Korea has been wondering where the heck the guy's been holding up! lol
My grand plan to go shake my booty with the Ahjussi fell thru when he opted to watch the Olympics than 'patronize commercialism' or something to that effect ... his words. He did give me a good undramalike kiss & warm cuddles though so I guess no valentiney gift trumps that! :)
And I got to hang out with my good friend Lena from Latvia. We had some Indian & downed 2 bottles of white! ;) She's a good 12 yrs or so older than me, but so much fun! I intend to share her story with a Japanese boyfriend sometime on the feeds! It's like straight out of a drama, I tell you! ahaha
Re: LJW ... it's possible he has an issue with his sad face, but who cares Juniko??? Oppa is totally asmokin'! haha No, seriously though, you may be right! I can't remember. I'll keep a look out when I finally WATCH THE LAST EP! Don't ask me what I'm waiting on! I can be such a pussy sometimes, scared of bad ambiguous endings & sad endings...
How did your plans go down after your cold? Did you manage to entertain your guests? And if I'm not being too forward, how is your love life??? Whatever was the conclusion with that Japanese guy? Are you two still up at all hours of the night chatting? I know you're currently single ... which I think is a good thing, but you're allowed to have friends of the male persuasion, ani? ;)
I can't seem to muster the interest to start a new drama! It's been a few weeks now.
What are you watching that's good for you? Are you still mostly watching American shows? Are you watching any of the newer ones? I've heard House of Cards with Kevin Spacey & Bates Motel (with my favourite actress Vera Farmiga) are pretty good. At some point I might check 'em out.
Haha, actually I'm thinking of returning to my original name. I'm not divorcing mr. Lee, but I'm starting to feel like I've lost my identity bearing his name around. Haha! :)