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This writing sucks....I know it's gonna seem as if I'm blaming the victim here but I'm really not. even a blind man can see that they deliberately wrote Lui Zhu character to be violent just so that they could justify everything Qian Qian has been doing. We've seen the character from the start and he was never like this even when he liked FWZ( if anything his father was the one who tried forcing her) so the way they drastically changed him is kinda off-putting. He has always been a person without a back bone but nevertheless he was very caring. She was the one who became neglectful and emotionally abusive first. I don't agree with him forcing her to stay but at the same time it's somewhat understandable why he's doing that. Also it's really stupid of him to not agree to move elsewhere with her and the baby. All in all in my eyes Qian Qian doesn't want to take up the responsibility of being a mother, she doesn't want to be tied down with a child or a "poor" husband. She wants to go around drinking, singing and even sleeping around with rich men so she can enjoy the life of luxury. Maybe i'm wrong for seemingly victim blaming and for that i'm sorry but I seriously cannot take her side when I know she knowingly approached him for what she could get out of him to help her mother and when she couldn't need that anymore cause her mom died she ran away. Of course it's obvious she experience difficulties from her in-laws but if she truly cared or respected Lui Zhu she would've convinced him to move with her...That boy has no backbone, do not look at me and tell me he's difficult to persuade come on now! But again, that's not the life she wants, she doesn't want a family, she's just flirtatious and promiscuous. We saw how she behaved around men even when they were still on good terms. There's just no excuse for abuse of any kind from Lui Zhu or her in-laws but God she makes it difficult for anybody to chose her side cause to be fair all of this is her fault for being greedy and wasting that boys time knowing she only meant to use him to take care of her mother.

oh brother... gurl bye. I understand that you're enjoying the show and feel a deep need to defend FL beyond logics but lets come back down to earth. We're 10 episodes away from this show ending and throughout her time on her own she had learnt absolutely nothing. She makes the same mistakes over and over again and this affect the people around her. She trust who she shouldn't and defend and care for people who simply does not serve it. She was quick to outcast her father when she thought he was cheating with even hiring his explanation first but cuddled Qian Qian after knowing she abandoned her child and cheated on her husband who has done nothing but care for her. She has no form of discernment and had it not been for the plot armor of the story she would've long had her tail between her legs and her head hung in shame. Nobody is saying she shouldn't make mistake as she's still learning. the problem is she's over complicating things and always making questionable decisions because she's a know it all. that's it. This conversation ends here. let's agree to disagree.

1. He was in the middle of preparing to grief the lost of his wife. In the hospital he said something along the lines of "break up with him, I don't have the time to fully explain to you right now but he's not good for you." to her. She didn't heed his warning at all or even think to herself why would her father be interfering in her dating life in the middle of her mother fighting on her deathbed. Maybe I wouldn't break up with him but I would at least take some precautions around him until I was able to revisit the conversation with my father. She's known her dad her whole life and that boy for a few months. The educated choice would be to listen to her father request and at least take a step back if she couldn't bear to break it off immediately. This coupled with the fact that her father had never done anything to make her distrust him.

2. I need you people to use that god giving brain your parents spent 9-10 months meticulously growing. If she wasn't being fast and tuck a step back then her father wouldn't have been framed as a matter of fact if she was so "smart" instead of immediately breaking up like her father ask she would've question why IN THE MIDDLE of grieving he would stop to meddle in her relationship. She knew very well the kind of character her father was so there's no way he would try to break her relationship up unprovoked especially when his wife was battling death. It just did not make sense. Yes he wasn't clear enough in the moment and that's understandable considering what he was handling at the time, but once again she has tendency to whole heartedly trust all the wrong people. That's why she's dumb beyond naivety.

3. He was very clear to her but she had no intention of listening to him. He clearly said to her his character was questionable and he didn't have a good rep amongst his peers and she cut him off for interfering. He warned her more than three times and each time she brushed him off. Here's the thing she worked with that man before she herself knew he wasn't a good person and that he had a questionable character yet she borrowed money to invest and even got her friend involved. Again maybe it's just me but if I have alot of money at stake a person who has helped me a great deal in several of my dilemma heed me to take precautions against a known wicked; the first thing I would do is investigate so I could put theirs and my mind at ease. It's not like you've never been taken advantage of...Yet you're still facing life head on without not even a second though? She's chasing down idiocy as if it owes her money.

First of all what are you even saying? Secondly the IRL event was NOT used to judge the show??? I called the show dumb because it is dumb. The only thing that has been protect FL from failing completely has been the plot armor. She hardly ever makes conscious decisions and she’s very very naive. She appears to be smart but she really isn’t. Every single detrimental error she has been has been something she was advise against doing or warned to take precautions against but because she’s prideful and stuck in her ways she didn’t listen.

She’s not a teacher but she’s well aware of her situation more than others and she’s smarter than the ones that follow her. They look up to her because she has further education than her therefore they’re using that to trust her wholeheartedly. Knowing people whole to to such a high regards should make you think twice about the choices you make since it will also impact them. It’s like the government and citizens.

Again I called her dumb cause she is. Who she’s suppose to be putting her trust in she’s not doing so. Who she’s suppose to care about she’s not caring about. Mistakes she’s made that are meant to be learned from she’s not learning from them. She was way smarter when she was younger and still in college. After she almost ruined her family good name and ruin her father career because she refused to hear him out one would think she wouldn’t blinding give away her money to a a man who has made questionable dating decisions as well as in business. He knew Nan was framing and firing all the girls that weren’t on her side and he sat back and watch it happen even if they were good workers. Two people FWZ knew were fired yet she didn’t think twice about investing in someone of such questionable character? And why because he sold you some backed up cancel order? Bro go on ahead.

Oh I wasn’t referring to the show love. This is a IRL event

Oh yes...I haven't been this happy about someone's downfall since that rapist died. Serve's her right. I'm overjoyed and over the moon her ass got scammed. She was advice, there were signs, she was warned. She took no precautions before jumping to borrow money to invest. That man was dating Nan for God sakes, do you really think a person who is honest could withstand a person like Nan for so long? He obviously saw that you were a reliable cash cow after you bought though clothes from him and came up with thousand of dollars within days. He knew you had a brain you refuse to use so he took advantage. Serve's you right. I was so annoyed by her covering for Qian and they even lied about her cheating now my anger has disperse. Had she listen to Xiang a little sooner her ass would've had some control over where her money went but no she wanted to trust that horrible ex-boss. Good hopefully she gains some sense and realize her naivety doesn't only affect her but everyone that works under her.

shaking my damn head....Wangzi really can't tell right from wrong when it comes on to Qian Qian. why is she talking to Lui Zhu like that as if he's the one in the wrong here? Not only did Qian cheat on him, she also abandon her child who can't even walk or talk yet. She's a terrible wife. terrible mother and a terrible person through and through yet Wangzi is choosing to cuddle her. That's why she keeps acting like this. She knows if all goes to shii she's able to cry to Wangzi and she'll get money, food and a place to sleep. Just ridiculous, Li Juan'er is literally the only person here with sense. I'm so over this rubbish

Hao Qian Qian Hao Qian Qian.....You're quite repulsive. I really don't care what kind of difficulties you're facing in your life. Liu Zhu loved and cared for you( base on what we've seen so far) He made sure to meet your every demand so you'd be happy but you dare to say "you look down on him" Why didn't you look down on him before you took all his money, before you slept with him? before you got pregnant by him? before you married him? That man could've found a sweet little thing to marry that would love and cherish him as much as she does him...Instead you've force yourself into that equation and took that chance away from him. really really disgusting. and for what? because he's not the generic rich city boy you desire? You've just had a child by him so what's gonna happen in divorce? the child being ripped away from him or you? I really wish her so call friend FWZ would do away with pitying her after hearing her sub story about her mother passing and give her a few good hit like Juan'er did. She honestly doesn't need consoling her ass is a terrible human.

The concept of this show is so dumb.
1. FWZ is nice and understanding to everybody except the one man who has constantly stuck his neck out for her. Her father
2. She has the foundation and resources to further high education yet she is adamant on taking on odd jobs... what the hell for? She can finish university in 1.5 years and still be able to pursue whatever she's trying to achieve right now. The whole reason her father abandon her was so she could have a better life with a rich family. I really hate how she's single-handedly erasing the parent-relationship between her and her foster family after learning the truth.

She's probably gonna make it big cause this is obviously a show but still the whole premise and concept is just dumb. She has taken everything for granted and couldn't even fulfil her mother dying wish of achieving higher education. She has the ability to help the ones she care about her and the ones that are around her quite easily and in a much faster and simpler way yet she's taking a longer route. just unnecessary. If she cared about her friends so much like she's making it then she would've completed her studies so she has a better chance at succeeding in business. ALL IN ALL she's overly complicating things and it's pissing me clean off....It might seems as if she's open and not afraid to fail but that's really not it. She's not failing alone or making stupid decision, agreeing to stupid deals on her own. She has those uneducated ones following behind her and they expect guidance from her and literally things everything she does is the correct way/path. She's mindlessly leading them through suffering when there's a simpler way for her to help them. but that's just me

It's only the first episode and the ML has already been sexually assaulted.....I AM SO DISGUSTED with how normalize things like this is.....Like I'm 100% sure if this was the ML forcefully kissing FL while she's tied up people would've seen the problem in it. We really need to do away with all portrayals of normalized assaults

I need her in a drama paired with Zhang Ruo Yun. Seven and Ruo Yun are two of my favorite and in my opinion the best chinese actors and actress. Like we need to see these talents 24/7 all 365 days a year!

I really have to be honest here....I don't think it was wrong of Mu jing to cut ties with her parents for her career and future. They literally would not have given her a chance had she not married someone of high caliber, so in more ways than one I completely agree with her for doing so. HOWEVER; what's done is done and what's in the past let it be bygones.

She should've went on that train with Muyang when he was going Yunnan to collect the parents to come back home instead she chose not to. Let's say she couldn't muster up the courage then....Then she should've went to visit them instead of going to see her grandmother-in-law. She obviously chooses where she wants to put high priority at.

Of course the relationship with her and her mother may very well still be as bitter as it is now but atleast it would've been noted that she made effort in reconciling with her family. I'm sure that Muyang and the father would've talked to the mother and have her stop being that hostile if Mu Jing reached out sooner and try reconciling.

Fang Mu Jing as long stopped being a victim so I'm real flabbergasted why she's acting as if her mother is being mean for no reason. To me, it seem as if the mother isn't mad mainly because she cut ties at that specific time but more so at the fact Mu Jing continued to act indifferent towards her even when they did their time and have returned.

Don't get me wrong both mother and daughter are equally ridiculous in my eyes btw. They need to get it together quickly the show is about to end!

I'm quite frustrated with the fact she keeps making life choices to suit her needs then when people react to said decisions she acts as if she's the only victim in the equation and everybody is wronging her. Please firmly stand on your decisions or consciously make amends.

which app did you buy the express package from?

There’s no love triangle here. She knows both men like her and she’s obviously made her choice regardless of if we want to believe it or not. There’s only 4 episodes left how are they gonna have her leave the SML and get with the ML? It must’ve gonna be the last 30 minutes of episode 12….she doesn’t deserve ML. She’s irredeemable. It’s better they remain coparenting and ML put away his feelings until someone better comes by. FL is not it. We can clearly see where her priorities are…..To let her have her fun and after she finishes she suddenly “knows where home is” will/would be a huge slap to Taehyung face. I truly hope they don’t let them get together. For the first time I want the SML to get the girl simple because I don’t think she’s worthy of ML.

They should make them a couple and give Tae hyung his own partner that’ll help him with Woo Joo and have eyes only for him. She can kick rocks. There’s literally no way to redeem her…. The truth is she took on guardianship but is now abandoning the child. I don’t even care so much that she’s leading on both men, quite frankly she can like and date whomever. I just really hate what she’s doing to that poor baby. Why take up a responsibility you had no intention of fulfilling?? One clearly stated that they’re not the type to be taking care of anybody and the other only has a big fat mouth to only take big. I’m sick a her ass..

EEEEEYUCK....All the men in the world and Wei Qiu Zi decided she needs to like her friend man.....Some people really are just rotten to the core.

I don’t think I’ve watched the express episode. I’ve only watched up until 14-15

HE PROPOSED TO HER.....he needed her very bit as much she needed him. She could've married any attractive acclaim man if they were willing and enter a loveless marriage for the opportunity it gives for her job while Qu Hua almost couldn't do the same since it's not as easy to find doppelgangers.... She's using him and he's also using her. They both hastily married each other. You can't only say SHE HASTILY married him when she wasn't even the one who came up with the marriage idea. She doesn't need to be serious about a loveless marriage and it doesn't matter if he cares for her or not. To be fair, she solely married him for his background as hers was literally holding her back and he solely married her because she looks like his ex. if along the way he develop feelings that's his problem to deal with and quite literally does not have anything to do with her unless she also begins to feel the same way. She doesn't need to be open to him or even act like his wife unless needed. She brought his clothes and his lunch for a whole week for show so people wouldn't start whispering then went right back to doing her Maths. That's to show you where her main priority lies.

why is she only one considered a red flag? Bruh if you miss your dead ex and you marry me cause i look like the bih and if i marry you cause your family background can get people to stop looking down on me.....Isn't it quite obvious both these people are red flags? both are opportunist. it baffles me why she's the only one getting shit for it.

Again both her parents were to put it simple criminals, they were included in the five black categories....society denounce, scorn and look down and these time of people. Knowing I have knowledge, talent and but can't maximize on these potential because of parents I haven't seen in like two decades bro...I would've denounce them too and I'm almost positive her parents would've advice her to do the same if it meant her having a better more happier life.

The relationship between these parties were build on nothing more than to exploit each other. If it should develop into something more them so be it but the premise of the whole ordeal was to use one another. Both knew what they were signing up for. Get it together please.....

His reason his WORSE I fear. Think about it….all she’s doing is using his family background to finally get the opportunities she has been missing out on because of prejudice while he’s using her as a replacement for his dead ex. I don’t know if it’s like this in his case here but if we’re using logics he doesn’t necessarily see her or was drawn to her because she’s Fan muijing. It’s more like the image and likeness of his dead ex to help him cope he’s after. He’s basically using her as a reborn Doll to put it simple. Again I don’t know if this is exactly what he meant to do but in his situation and what we’ve seen so far, he hasn’t let go off of his ex and potentially feels guilty for her death hence he’s hanging unto anything that makes it seem as if she’s still here with him.

She married him solely because she needed his background to get ahead. She notified him twice. Even though he was drunk that was the first time, the second time she left a note. Furthermore she apologized. Before she was married she missed out on so much simply because of who gave birth to her. Now that she has a way to grab the opportunities infront of her without prejudice I see no reason why she shouldn’t. Qu Hua lost someone dear to him then met somebody that looks exactly like her to fill his void he spared no effort to claim that opportunity just like her. If they were in a sincere marriage then ofcourse she should spare his feelings but as of now that’s not the case so I say take back all you’ve lost and more because of prejudice girl.