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Hahaha oh yeh those are so good, but so many cliff hangers when watching them ongoing.
I wish I could be like you probably save me so much stress but I'm just too impatient to wait 😂 but yeh shouldn't be too long till this finishes

If you know it's rude why say it? Literally you say I know it's rude then proceed to be rude. If you know it's rude, just don't say it. It's fine if you don't find him good looking, looks are subjective after all.

It's when everything comes out. Massive argument between Ml and FL, FL says ML was just using her and lying to her, ML exposes to FL he knows everything about her past, FL says if he wants a divorce she will agree. Pretty much the start of their break up phase 🥲

Hahaha yeh I agree, also feel like from the start it has been FL chasing ML, so nice to see them swap with Ml chasing her this time. Have you seen the preview for ep 14?

Hahaha I get you, but hey way better than kdramas, waiting a whole week for new eps. I remember watching stuff like taxi driver season 2 or worst of evil when they were ongoing, every time it ended on like a cliff hanger and I had to wait a week, dunno I survive ongoing kdramas.

I feel you, Lusi been gone for a minute now she's finally back, this should end roughly around October 10, probably a few days earlier for express.

No problem, yeh I know what you mean for sure, she's very good, so glad they picked a veteran actor to be her ML,.Hope you enjoy.

Hahaha really, thats MDL for you so buggy sometimes, but nah not finished ep 9 and 10 released today, out of 32.

Not even close, only day 4 today, where on MDL does it say it's completed?

No problem

The scene in ep 9 of Qiao Lin and Xu Yan walking side by side, joking around with flashbacks of Qiao Lin taking care of FL during childhood, with FL also cracking a couple genuine smiles, was so nice. It shows that FL's wall around her heart towards her sister is coming down slowly. The difference in how she treats her parents vs sister, shows deep down, she knows her sister truly does love and care for her, and she also is beginning to acknowledge that. It's clear FL has a soft spot for anyone that has shown her genuine love and care. While her parents never did, her sister did. So while she is ok with cutting off her parents (as she should), she still has a soft spot for her sister and it shows. In ep 9, their dialogue as they walk, the smiles FL shows, FL telling her she is welcome to eat with her and come over more, pretty much saying she wants to spend more time together, demonstrates that she also does loves and cares for her sister, because she knows her sister cares for her as well.

I know some people find Qiao Lin annoying and that's ok, but I really loved their dynamic in ep 9 and hope it continues to grow throughout. I hope Qiao Lin can be the big sister Xu Yan always needed. We see in ep 9 how not only when they were younger, but also in the present Qian Lin cares for Xu Yan. How she consulted a lawyer about the possible repercussions of Xu Yan's lies and tells her she supports her, is so sisterly and caring. The joking around and tips Qiao Lin was giving her about making sure Shen Haoming falls in love with her and all that, was very sisterly

Maybe Xu Yan is starting to realize that besides her grandma, when she was young, there were others like her sister who also appreciated and loved her. When times are tough and things are dark, it's very easy to not notice or realize the love and affection some people are showing you. I think in ep 9 the dialogue showed FL does like to be around her sister and hopes to have that sisterly connection. And Qiao Lin for her part, has always loved her sister and cared for her, maybe sometimes she hasn't shown it in the best way, but we see in flashbacks it has always been present.

Its pretty much confirmed they will definitely divorce one way or another, then ML will realize his mistakes and chase her back.

Hahaha 100%, I'm so here for it, dramas like this live off angst, so good

He doesn't don't worry, they're both brilliant, both hold their own very well.

Yeh 100%, but slowly you can see FL opening up again to Qiao Lin, especially in ep 9, really nice to see her let her wall down, I just hope when things start to go wrong with ML, Qiao Lin can be there for her. I also hope we see a scene of Qiao Lin confronting her parents or something like that, would be nice to see her sticking up for Xu Yan.

They are already growing closer in ep 9, we see another flashback of their childhood, and it shows Qiao Lin taking care of Xu Yan. I think a lot of people blaming Qiao Lin for their strained relationship but from flashbacks we've seen she has always loved her sister and cared for her and Xu Yan also knows that. It shows in the difference between how FL treats her parents vs sister. FL still cares for her sister and remembers the care her sister showed her when they were younger.

Oh no the ep 14 preview, its happening, already so painful yet I'm also so excited, maybe I'm a bit sadistic.

In an interview ZLS talked about how her character Xu Yan thought thought Shen Haoming was able to give her the love she lacked in childhood, she thought he was her rock and was determined to marry him no matter what because of that. Only to find out while she thought she was the praying mantis, Shen Haoming was the oriole behind her the whole time, she was just his pawn.

It's evident that FL's love is real, even if the methods she used to attain it aren't truthful. Where as, right now it seems ML is just using her for his own goals, maybe he does love her deep down but hasn't realized it yet, or maybe the whole time he's just been acting. I also think it's important for FL's development for her to realize she can flourish on her own, she can be her own rock, doesn't need anyone else. Only then can she enter into a healthy relationship whether with ML or anyone else.

ML I also believe has trauma from the past. I feel like we have only seen FL's perspective so while she uses manipulation, we sympathize with her because we understand her past and pain, and she's is just trying to seek out the love she never got from her parents. But for ML we haven't seen that yet, so can only judge him based on his actions. I hope we get more insight into his own past, I'm sure he also has been through a lot. I don't want to judge him without knowing his past and reasoning.


Can't wait for all the secrets to be out, but it's going to be so brutal at the same time.

Clip for the interview with translation:
https://x.com/wonwoncity/status/1972568305874694435

Hahaha yeh her reaction was so cute, also when they did that first dance together, after it ended she was so happy 😊

Hahaha yeh, him and Lusi doing those dances were so cute, his face was serious when they were filming the dance, real professional 😂

You might not know, before becoming an actor William Chan was a singer and dancer, he was even in a boy band, before going solo than becoming an actor, so he's definitely knows what he's doing 😂