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"contextually" lol "would be applied" by...whom? You? Them? Good god.

Am I hearing you agreeing I did NOT make statements about ALL women or ALL teen girls, but that, nevertheless, I'm responsible for the hilarious overreaction of those who choose to pretend I did do so, or who have poor reading comprehension, and took offense? Or who fit the description and took offense?

No, I'm not responsible for the first two groups, but I am for the last one, because they are the people I described. And I'm good with that.

I think I might be the only "hater" of this show who has commented here.

Nevertheless, the Teen Girls who enjoy the show and its "comfortable" vibe, cannot abide ONE person who sees the show as significantly flawed and dares to say so on "their" comment thread.

Plus, not one of them has the sense to block me, rather than let my comments "ruin their watch." lol

I've never used a term remotely like that.
I assure you, you have never met anyone like me.
No one needs an "excuse" to enjoy R18 scenes if that's what they're into. That you think they do reveals your latent prudishness.

I repeat: I don't look for porn in BLs.
There are a zillion levels of sexual expression between sex-phobic fluff and "porn."
Why is it hard for you to grasp that? Never mind. Please don't answer.

And no, I wouldn't automatically be praising this show if it was loaded with "R18" scenes. There are tons of R18-loaded BLs, mostly Thai, that are garbage.

btw, you seem to be working as hard as the DEVIL corresponding with me.

Are you suggesting your, or any other one person's, experience constitutes the entirety of "reality" for gay people?

Most people enjoy porn. Just check the statistics on how many hits porn sites get every day around the world.
I don't look for porn in BLs. Never said I did.
You're not perceptive.
Isn't it time for your daily check-in with SATAN?

“Homo stuff” isn’t just sex..."

I never said it was.
The assumption among these comments, including yours, that the only way sexual energy expresses itself is through tongues down throats and d**ks in butts, is incredibly instructive.

I wasn't "talking about the 'queer' experience," I was talking about gay sexual energy between young men.
Also, it's telling that you spent a comment telling me how reductive my perspective is, then use the term, "the queer experience." So, you believe all LGBTQ people have one, universal life and it can be summed up as "the queer experience?" You contradict yourself.

Sexual energy, fully expressed, fully repressed, or somewhere in-between, is what I have been talking about here. Perhaps I should have used that term to begin with, though I doubt it would have made a difference to the amount of sex-phobic vitriol directed my way in response.

What's your hangup with Satan and all-caps?

Consider working with a therapist on your issues surrounding gay men in relationships as being "...just fluffy."

No one said anyone had to be "extremely sexual" in this show. There are a zillion ways to indicate/express sexual desire/energy in a show, other than hardcore butt-f**king. The fact that you see gay men as having two opposite settings, Teddy Bear or Porn Star, with no possible alternatives between, reveals you as the weirdo with prejudice and bigotry lurking in your tiny mind.

"Must Gays Have SEX to be gay?"
No, child, but 99.9% of gay men DO have sex, just like straight people.
They don't HAVE to have sex to "be gay," because generally, they are already gay long before they hit adolescence, like, from birth, actually.
Did you not know that?
It's true!

"...most of those enjoying these are GUYS and are gays."
Is this you suggesting that the majority of the BL audience is composed of gay men?
You have zero idea what you're talking about.

You've obviously never seen pornography. Educate yourself.
I do enjoy well-made porn, but I certainly don't expect this show to be that. How lame that you'd suggest that I would.

I think I know who's "pathetic" here.
That would be the one working harder than the devil to respond to a porn-lover who works harder than the devil posting comments that twist your panties.

Have you ever considered blocking me? No? Why? Interesting.

"You don't get to tell me..." What a defensive, moronic line.
"If you want..." were the words I used. If I wanted to shove unwanted suggestions down your throat, I would have listed them in my reply.
Clearly, you don't "want," so I won't list. See how that works, cranky-pants?

And didn't you turn into a nasty little beeyatch all of a sudden? Revealing.
No one's stopping you from escaping reality with your one gay friend, by watching this show as often as you like.
No one suggested you do that.
No one cares what you do.
Why do you care what I do?
Why don't you simply block me?
Why didn't you block me weeks ago, given your horror at the sight of my think pieces and essays?
Oh look, here I am writing another essay/think piece. How will you ever survive it? :)

I don't owe you an explanation regarding my time management, so let's just say I am 100% free to do what I do when and where I choose to do it. And one thing I choose to do is "camp here and drop my little think pieces and essays every week..." What you think about that is of no importance to me. Especially now that you've revealed yourself as just another bitchy Teen Girl of the type that eats up shows like this.

Nah, I will keep posting and writing whatever and whenever and as often as I like. But, thanks.
People are perfectly free to "...watch and rate..." whatever they want?
Why would my comments stop them from doing that?
Have my comments made you dislike this show? I doubt it, so what's your problem?

I suggest you scroll on by my comments or block me.

I wonder the same thing! Like, is this squealing-girls-with-confession-letters thing for real IRL? The way they act like the school stud(s) is a BTS member who just beamed in from Heaven would be hilarious by now if it weren't so overdone and frequent.

btw, disagreeing with me is a common and totally allowed thing. :)

"fluffiness" is my nemesis. :)

Not many MDLers take my comments as even slightly "passive." :)

Yay! :)

In reference to another show, I wrote recently something like "THIS is how you do tropes right." Because with creativity and imagination, there is an unlimited number of ways to portray interactions/situations we've seen on screen 500 times before, and that show did just that.

THIS show, not so much.

And you're right...Hioki's been told and Watarai has confirmed, multiple times, that he LIKES him, goddammit. So, when Hioki goes "huh?...eh...You mean you...LIKE me..." yet again in the sixth episode, he comes off as on the spectrum, and I don't think that's meant to be part of the story.

"But let’s not act like the other extreme fujoshis and fudanshis who only show up when there’s sex to fetishize are any better."

I'm NOT acting like that. I didn't address that issue at all.
What's your meaning of the word "fetishize" here? There are way too many people on MDL who see any appreciation or enjoyment of sex in BLs (and I challenge you to name one BL in which indications or depictions of sex are truly graphic or explicit) as the "fetishization" of it. They like to throw the word around without understanding what it means.

I'm a gay man too, and I know exactly what you mean about the richness and value inherent for us in shows that depict versions of my young self in romantic situations I never experienced. When I first discovered BL six or seven years ago, I spent weeks bingeing old shows, often sobbing over scenes that made me feel seen...by myself, for the first time. I imagined myself in those scenarios, and wept with joy at what I was seeing and with sorrow at what I had missed.

Which is yet another factor in why this kind of show annoys me. REAL high school boys don't act like this. REAL high school boys in love for the first time experience intense romantic emotion right alongside sexual desire. They don't spend weeks on end acting like they don't understand that another guy who has told them 50 times that he likes them, actually, you know, LIKES them.

They don't tremble and hem and haw nervously for weeks and weeks, coyly pretending not to know what's going on, far past the point where what is going on has been made clear, both verbally and physically. The vast majority of real people don't do that. The version of young gay male romance we see here is the sexless Panda Bear version that the "teen girls" to whom I refer ooh and aah over because it's like cotton candy melting in their mouths...there's nothing there. And they like it that way.

It's the "fetishization" of gay romance, twisted into something soft, silky, without weight or edges, and nearly unrecognizable, for these "teen girls"' enjoyment.

If you want a long list of BLs that do an infinitely better job of portraying young gay men experiencing first-time love than this show, just let me know.

I repeat: "I've invested four hours to this series, so I'll stick with it to the bitter end. I've always found Hioki to be cute, but he's trying my patience now. :)"

Don't mind me, I'll be fine. You go ahead and enjoy this to your heart's content.

Sure, you were...girl.

Clearly, SOMEONE needs to give you English lessons, since you're attempting to use it to communicate here and failing. I thought I'd do you a favor and step in. oopsie

I don't care what color you are.
No one assumed your nationality.
I don't care if you're Asian, either.

"...then please leave Asian media alone." lol And you, of course, represent all of "Asian media." You know, now that I think of it, "Asian media" is a fairly racist/xenophobic term to use. There are many different countries, ethnicities, and regions in Asia, yet you lumped everyone into one category as though they're all the same. NE Asia, SE Asia, South Asia, Central Asia, West Asia (Middle East), and North Asia (Siberia). Each has distinctive peoples, countries, cultures, and traditions. It saddens me that you live with this burden of internalized racism against yourself.

No one mentioned "white people."
No one mentioned "superiority."
However, your comment drips with the internalized racism/inferiority complex towards white people that has you hearing voices in your head that whisper, "I'm inferior," "I'm not enough," "I must write stupid, revealing things about myself on the Internet." Sad. Try to love yourself. Rudolf does.

"...white ppl is insane, this is why no one likes yall."
RACIST asf.