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it is cat! he is certified cat 😭😭

i really thought zyz knows he has half of baize token 🤨 also why is zyc getting shy when wen xiao "praise" herself 😭

sorry that you intepret it like that, just wanna clarify that lusi is in fact one of my faves. you can check my watchlist if you are skeptical, and again story of pearl girl is one of my anticipated show 2024, i am here bc i have yet to watch it but i love seeing discussion as to not missed out so much when i finally start watching

i never said anything about being forced, i genuinely think this was admirable traits of lusi. i must definitely have missed that, do you know where he post the song?

i literally love lusi and while i have yet to start this, this is one of my most anticipated drama of the year esp bc there is new side of lusi acting which im excited to see. i was just being objective by giving luhan as example bc GXT also has drama airing rn. there is nothing wrong with friends supporting the drama and there is nothing wrong with reaching friends out to help promoting either, it is a kind of promotion. i have work in some events during school days and had to reach to my friends to spread about it to get people coming, it was not a bad thing. ofc i am not saying this is a fact, this was just my observation

it is not a hate comment or anything of sort but i do think she reach out to them, and there is nothing wrong with it, like luhan promoting her drama instead of his gf 😭 (romance in the alley) it reminds me when lusi went all out to make sure hidden love is a success (in term of production), this time too she went all out to get people interested in starting the show

definitely. in my case for the kind of losing someone type of scene, i always need more depth for me to connect with personally. the scenes was too short for me to feel anything as idk anything of the father & miao miao connection, i dont see their bond, nor do i feel connected to the characters (since it was only 1ep) so i was unable to feel anything

lol right this was why i was shocked when ppl complain about the real life age gap, i couldnt predict his age when i watch the drama, thought they were similar age but did not expect he was my age lol

i am just happy for the reba gongjun friendshil we got out of this drama

am i missing something or too unfeeling but the scene of miao miao reuniting with father in the game has many views on douyin, saw the same on twitter post which also has quite good number but i feel like the scene is nothing special i dont find it sad at all 😭

yes you are not the only that see it we all know the gay character is supporting character. my bad bc i did not noticed they put gay male lead tags as im using the apps, thought you were complaining about the LGBT tags included eventho ML is straight. dont worry about me watching the series cuz i only watch ep1 and dip, was never really interested anyway and was taking a break from my currently watched drama hence i start new drama on a whim.

fgs is for god sake, nothing homophobic about it and if you search the meaning that's the thing that came out first. funny tho that rude homophobic name is the first thing that came to your mind when my whole comments was nothing of sort, seems like projection to me. oh, idk what am i supposed not to be able to handle and move on from? and how i am not an adult or normal just bc i put my 2 cents when adults and normal ppl do exactly that. but, i acknowledged that this start from my misunderstanding of yr comments and i apologise for it

wasnt yang ling the one who initiated investigation of the tea smuggling? it doesnt seems too logical for him to be the mastermind and initiated the investigation, no? i was wondering did none of the ministers or even His Majesty think this was suspicious

i know as close as chancellor wang and lu jiaxue is, they are wary with each other, but why lu jiaxue never tell him luo shenyuan is chen jiuheng student and the one causing the case to be reopened? wouldnt that benefit both of them?

was surprised yining plan the madam qiao death but i find the part where she agree with yining idea a bit weak, it do not sound convincing that she easily agreed, sure yining promised some things to her, but i dont think she is the type that trust yining word

yup this is why some viewers prefer her to be dubbed, i applaud her for trying tho and this definitely made me understand more why many chinese actors were dubbed for historical dramas

no he definitely like her beyond that. he hesitate when asked by lin mao, but that was not an indication that he doesnt like her, imo he do feel something for her but it was yet to reach the deeper kind of love (understandably given most of their times are probably just being meal buddy with elders around) many people get together simply bc they like each other, and it could just due to mere attraction.For some, times spending together only strengthen the relationship but for other ppl, it fails in the faced of hardship and changes. he hesitated bc he likes the bubbly and cute her, but he is not confident that he would still adore her the same if she became different, that is still consider liking her imo, just not deeper enough. he is only stepping back bc she do not like him, but i believe had he was given a chance he would proceed bc stronger love can be developed with times, that's the case for relationship nowadays, no?

definitely her delivery, i didnt noticed at first bc i watch at 1.25x & 1.5x but one time i put it at 1.0x that i realised the complaints about her voice, altho i think it was less about the voice but rather the delivery. imo it has to do with the fact that the language used for historical shows are much complex than normal language spoke in modern times so her delivery are not very natural, i have watch her in ray of light and find her line delivery satisfying

fgs cant yall be normal? the brother is gay that is the lgbt in the story hence it is included, what im understanding is you come expecting gay romance bc it was tagged as lgbt but lgbt is literally more than that? the struggle, the sexuality all of those still falls under LGBT tag. even with supporting actors the shows include that theme so why should it be removed just bc shallow ppl like you? why would you hate representation just bc they were not the main lead

so i rewatch the whole drama ytd and might have skip many scenes (i watched almost whole thing at 1.5x speed) but i dont think it goes the way you were describing

1) he dated and broke up multiple times, simply said he was in relationship but was not in love. probably he didnt put many effort hence he was always dumped, but that didnt mean he wait for her. he has tried meeting new people but it did not developed into love. as he said, loving her is not about heartbreak, he take it easy hence he can still do many things for those years she was married, like dating and being successful in work. as for supporting her, i believe they both support each other but we just saw more of his pov, hence they are still close even after she is married and her being in good terms with some women he dated.

2) idk if i miss this scene but i dont recall him being happy that she was divorced, he didnt believe her at first thinking it was a joke but after knowing it was real he did not rejoiced or think he had a chance hence he never cross the brother line even after knowing she was divorced. in fact he was distressed knowing what she went through for a year after being divorced.

3) honestly i might missed the part where he help her secretly so i'm gonna skip that (he do help her multiple times but i dont think it was done secretly so maybe we are talking about different scenes)

4) she never date another man, she was in the knowing each other stage with SML, it was a casual relationship but they did not date, they only occasionally met and eat together, return and went home together. the SML himself said they were not dating yet during the scenes where ML, FL, SML, SFL ate together and not long after that their casual relationship stop as FL suggest that they should just be neighbourhood friends.

5) he confess to her while she was already in the knowing each other stage with SML and he himself said he not gonna force his feelings on her and she is free to went on date with SML, hence she still met with him multiple times after, but that was not dating. she never had feelings for SML like that. she likes the feelings on going on dates but she did not ever think to do stuff for SML, and this was different with ML bc whenever good things happen to her, ML is the first person she think of, eg getting paid: she only think of buying things for him and her daughter. even when SML hurt his finger, she forgot to give him band aid bc the thought didnt cross her mind, she was not concern and care for him.

6) i believe her hearts flutter multiple times for ML hence her rejecting him at first bc the thought of being with him scares her, as romantic relationship could be ruined in any moment. but ig it just get easier later to consider ML as a partner bc as she mentioned, she want to have fun with her partner and ML did mentioned them having lots of fun together, which imo lead to her considering it and realised that she has unknowingly view him as a man ever since she discovered his feelings for her

7) ml tried dating but he was not able to love anyone bc they are not her but that is the thing about love, some people just dont fell easily. and it is harder to forget when that person is close with you ig? not to mention they are the person that know each other best

i dont remember anything of this drama but i do remember liking it. tbf ml not dating anyone while fl was married is not really surprising/any kind of noble act or something, i dont think he is single bc of fl, or maybe he stay single bc he could not move on but that's the point, why use other people to get over someone?

i genuinely think not dating anyone else simply bc one have not met someone new that they had feelings for should be normalised. getting to know someone is seriously a very tiring process and some people are just not actively looking bc they are contented with their lives like that, i know i do. so it is not really something to be questioned about that he is single while she was married imo. some ppl only get into relationship if they seriously like the person instead of mere attraction, i personally dont think i have ever like anyone seriously in my whole life so i never date anyone and neither do i ever made any effort to find someone