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tbh if you watch carefully he think fenglong is the best partner for xiaoyao, that's why besides of just asking for help i see it as him wanting xiaoyao to give fenglong a chance to get to know him. i think it is obvious from the statement he made that he would be fine if her choice is fenglong as for all the reason he has stated and this is proven later when he was not as hostile as he is with jing when fenglong gonna marry xiaoyao.

in fact for recent ep i think he is heeding his words of being good brother (in term of not overly obsessive jelous). ofc he is jelous still but when xiaoyao want to stay with jing at chi chen house his face doesnt show an angry murderous jelous face but more like an acceptance face, but ofc that's what i intepret from that scene.

this i wish ppl see the character as it is now, we ourselves never know when we will turn evil 🤣

fr if only he doesnt have to be an emperor maybe he can protect and shower her with the attention she want, and if only he treat her like a man would to a girl they like (in my eyes despite him liking her he still treat her in brother sister way) maybe xiaoyao could see him romantically, who knows? this is drama full of what ifs and im not really shipping them per se but yeah....

when she said she doesnt like feng long precisely bc he is like him FOULLLLLL 🤣🤣

my heart hurt for cang xuan everytime people ask to set them up with xiao yao 😂 not their fault tho why you have to fall for her 😞😞 but at the same time i cant blame him she is the only one who he can be real with, also with all the things she has done for him, how can he not fell more in love yes i actually shed a lil tears for him today dont mind me im vulnerable for him

yaojing is really cute like real cute idk why people think they are boring, anyway there is no single character i dislike especially not the four main leads. i root and hurt for each of them. we all have our favourites, i do too but i find all main characters lovable, charming, flawed and pitiful in their own way. i dont really understand xiaoyao hate, bc im absolutely loving this character (my fav from yangzi) but each to their own 🤗

fr they wanna paint him as this awful guy so bad, he is not. some people need to heed yangzi advice to watch the drama rationally and understand why the characters make the decision , there is no need to put down other character to elevate your faves bc all of them are flawed.

we dont even have to agree or support their action but just understanding why they made the decision or circumstance they are in is enough

im gonna keep my expectation low bc i love ding yuxi a lot so i dont want to get disappointed if i end up not liking the drama, but knowing it is from lbfad writer i might like it.

man, not even a fan but the hate he receive is ridiculous. firstly, i never see the controversial statement as misogynistic, some women share the same view and it is fine so if a woman can think that her being a mother is better and prefer to stop working, are we gonna attack them for having this mindset? plus if his partner is okay with it and he never force her to stop working, i do not see the problem.

secondly, i come across interview of him where he said he is not gonna force his wife to stop working. it gonna be her choice bc he cant just ask her to do that so that actually to me already solve whatever people are angry about in the first place? the sad thing is, that interview was never viral. why? because people choose to ignore it they just wanna hate and that saddens me i just cant see people getting hate for no reason regardless im a fan or not.

lastly, there is nothing wrong about his preference in shorter woman. some women are so hypocrite bc they can say they dont find short men attractive but men cannot say the same? where is the logic when both basically root from wanting to protect and to be protected. i never get why people are angry at this. we all have own preference but that doesnt mean we are so rigid that we must have our preference as our partner

if you look from cang xuan pov, he doesnt know jing is behind all the help he received, hence his ungratefulness. he see feng long as the front person. also, jing is an engaged man, as someone who is very overprotective of her, it make sense why he doesnt like him besides of just being a jelous fellow imo. not to mention, he was the one with her during all those days in xiyan (which we dk how many years has passed) he witness her getting sad and hurt for jing, while having his status as an engaged man and see it as him stringing her along. that is my analysis on why he hate jing, not only bc he is jelous but also bc he witness her hurting.

all things considered, as much as i love and hurt for all the ml and a xuan girlie, jing has always been the most deserving partner for xiaoyao. people need to think back about what xiaoyao want, someone who always put her first, someone who can accompany her for a lifetime, someone who can give her their attention, it's a bit toxic thinking on her side but that is the result of her trauma, and jing is able to comply with all. xiaoyao deserve that peace and most importantly she likes him too. (she likes him, ppl can argue with the wall if they think she doesnt)

jing strongest trait is his kindness but that also become his weakness, but that is what xiaoyao like about him, as she said she is a bit hard hearted, so she likes someone like him. imo it makes her feel a bit of humanity. it is so easy to become evil and treat the harm comes your way with the same evilness, it is harder to stay kind and ignore the ppl who hurts you and unfortunately some see this as a weakness, but this is definitely a strength in my book (and xiaoyao's too 😆) anyway, dengwei potray the character given to him very well. he is doing a great job based on the characters design and i wanna praise him for that. i definitely see him as this cute lost puppy and a very good naive kind of person.

and yangzi, we all can see she is slaying her role. she is the best performer in the drama for me

bc he is a powerful demon? i will def read the prequel novel after s1 end

yangzi on yaoxuan:

people say cang xuan is using xiaoyao, but I don’t think so. from the very beginning, cang xuan didn’t want to do that, he was the person who grew up with me, but that’s what fate planned for him. If he didn’t pursue power, then others would have killed him, everything cx done was to protect me. gege wanted the throne, and xy helped him achieve it

https://twitter.com/yushooxin/status/1688923107745251328?t=FXB45Y2BjIKGfyEDGKD7mg&s=19

anyway i second yang zi aka xiaoyao ppl can think he is using her but if she is willing and doesnt feel bad for being used at all, is that really using? each to their own i guess. to me, that was her main purpose on becoming princesss again, a decision she made without being forced by anyone, which solely to help him to get to the throne.

that and bc jing hurt her, unintentionally. we dk how many years has passed in the deity world but cx is the one who stay with xy the most all those times. he saw her getting smitten by jing, he saw her getting sad when he stop sending wine, he knew her pretending not to care bc jing has hurt her (unintentionally) most importantly, he saw jing as an engaged man which he repetitively said. he dont see jing able to break the engagement and commit to xiaoyao. distrusting is his nature, we saw this from earlier ep with xiaoliu.

hence, i dont think it is based on pure jelousy but also root by the fact he witness her getting hurt. ppl can say he use xy at some point but he has never hurt her after knowing who she is, never make her unhappy & force her to do anything she dislike, so i see it as one of those parents moment where they treat their child so well that they dislike ppl who hurt their child.

regardless her liking fl or not, he still let her marry someone else that is not him. fenglong is his buddy, someone who he view as capable (bc he help him directly) and most importantly is not an engaged man. that's why he is fine with fenglong beside his jelousy towards jing imo. jing too at the end of the novel acknowledge xuan doesnt see him capable but he see fl as one and this only amplify later when jing 'marry' ffyy and hurt xiaoyao again.

anyway we can agree to disagree i dont doubt at all he doesnt like jing bc he is jelous of him but i dont think it was pure jelousy, that's all. after all, he did warn jing not to hurt her.

nah i dont think he knows like from jing pov if it were me it make sense why xuan brought her away, there were mess and she was getting a bit unhappy and sad with the whole jing engagement situation, so it would be totally normal for her brother to cheer her up and bring her away from the place and situation

kissing her where? those are what he need to do to get out of the place are we even watching the same thing 😭

ugly crying for cang xuan and xiaoyao that was really sad

yup after today ep i see him resigning his fate as her brother that's why he said to be a good brother to her it just later on he gets more unhappier and it doesnt help that he doesnt like jing. personally looking at his pov imo he would be fine with jing if he is not engaged bc he doesnt look hostile with feng long trying to get with his sister

he see it he just got greedy later where he want she to love him as a man