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Replying to messypree Jun 10, 2021
Watched first episode and failed to "hook" me...so will drop for now and probably will come back once all episodes…
That's a good plan. These episodes are really short, and while I've enjoyed it, I'm getting bored now - too many tropes. I'm still trying to understand why BL characters think a sponge bath can cure cancer.
Replying to niso2020 Jun 10, 2021
This show also has the terrible habit of spoiling every hot scene with a song that sounds like they borrowed it…
It wouldn't be BL without a sponge bath and truly awful music.
Replying to J100 Jun 10, 2021
episode 5 when Shi lei is fainted it was funny , he poses as model , and than he is sick and in the bath he wearing…
I laughed out loud at that scene.
On Be Loved in House: I Do Jun 10, 2021
I've been enjoying this series so far, but this episode started to feel like a checklist of BL tropes. Enough with the sponge baths already!

Also, do you know how hard it is to carry someone bridal style? A normal person would throw him over the shoulder - you can make five times the speed and distance like that, and much more safely.

Also, I wish I looked that good when I'm sick. I wish I looked that good when well-rested and healthy.
Replying to jpny01 Jun 10, 2021
Just as food for throught, though I agree with your point, BL is also hugely reinforcing gender roles with the…
And that's not even getting started on trans representation in BL...
Replying to Ballerino_KAI Jun 10, 2021
God I really wanted to hug oh aew when he was told he was too girly :/ that's such a shitty and ignorant thing…
Just as food for throught, though I agree with your point, BL is also hugely reinforcing gender roles with the inviolable uke/seme dynamic, which is not at all true to life, and relegates the more "feminine" character to being the "bottom". I haven't seen one single BL, ever, where the seme was anything but 100% straight-acting. Top & bottom have nothing to do with that, and most couples switch it around at least some. Not only that, but the seme explicitly "takes care of" the uke, as if he's some helpless Victorian maiden with consumption. Besides the poor representation, it's fundamentally misogynist as well as homophobic.
Replying to Diva70 Jun 10, 2021
I agree. I really didn’t think anything about the both of them having on trunks. Some of the comments seem to…
I don't understand what formula you mean. If there's a formula, it's a total lack of physical intimacy, or intimacy that's so wooden that it takes me out of the story. There are maybe what, four BLs where there's sex? Half of them are indistinguishable from bromances.

It is completely ridiculous for people in a relationship to wear trunks in the bath. I'm fine with not showing anything, but that's just silly. The part covered by trunks is the part that most needs washing, right?
Replying to Sugar Jun 10, 2021
I wanted to bring this up here, not sure if anyone else has yet, but I came across a post a bit ago that perfectly…
I don't understand what you're saying. BLs contain almost zero sexual intimacy, almost to the point of ridiculousness, except in a handful of cases like TharnType, which aren't really serious dramas.

The issue I think people are seeing here is that we never really saw them togther, so it's jarring to skip ahead to where they're not intimate anymore, and perhaps makes it hard to see why they're even together at all.
Replying to Robertita Ale Jun 10, 2021
I feel like you right now. I think Oh will do something stupid soon and breaks Teh's heart.
Oh?!? Teh has been one endless stream of stupid throughout both eps so far. He's horrible - I'm betting on him doing something stupid.
Replying to Diva70 Jun 10, 2021
I just saw a preview to ep 3 and I really don’t want to watch it now. As soon as a couple show any cracks in…
You want to watch a story where nothing happens? I don't know - that sounds tiresome. Real relationships have ups and downs and crises that can make it stronger (or kill it). There are lot of fluffy rainbows and unicorns BLs out there, but does anyone really remember them? Nobdoy will forget ITSAY and probably not this either. But I get the stress - I'll watch it, but I've have to psych myself up to do it.
Replying to yoonie Jun 10, 2021
Okay but am i the only one who's liking this season much more than the other?idk just the vibes-
Yes. I like this and think it's one of the best BLs ever, but I liked the first season much better. This doesn't have the same heart or atmosphere - it's much darker and more of a standard drama rather than the quirky coming of age story we had before. Also, Teh is more of the villain of the story than the protagonist and I hope he gets run over by a truck.
Replying to Gun Jun 10, 2021
This is my opinion- I think OhAew and Teh should breakup already1) In season one we saw that didn't talk to eachother…
OhAew knos exactly what he wants in terms of love and relationships - that he wasn't clear on what he wanted to study doesn't really have any bearing on his suitability as a bf. But I agree with you completely about Teh. He's a dick. The way he treated OhAew at dinner was unforgivable.
Replying to ionlystan#OT5 Jun 10, 2021
the way ik nadao tricks us into thinking the worse every single time, just makes me not care abt the preview cuz…
I found it worse every time than the previews made it seem.
Replying to AtThePlayground86 Jun 10, 2021
Yea I definitely agree about the kissing scenes...it still needs work. It's also like they are afraid to go all…
In the series, I kept thinking Kao was acting that stiffly to make his character seem Not Quite Right because he was hiding something. As it turns out, what he was hiding was that he only exists to be a fantasy bf for a middle-aged female writer who inserted herself into the story as Gene, and Gene only exists for that purpose. So neither main character is really a character, which is probably why it's impossible to give a flying f@#$ what happens to them.
Replying to Mmicc Jun 10, 2021
I agreed with your review even though I’m still on episode 2. I dropped this once, couldn’t get pass first…
The first ep is pretty bad - they really should have rethought it. I came sooo close to dropping. Nite II grew on me fast, and Tae is so beautiful after the post-Ep 8 hiatus that it kept me going. I feel bad for all these small productions that had to work around COVID.
Replying to chiha Jun 10, 2021
I mean you'd expect fujoshis to be more creative than this right? The girl must've watched plenty of bl to know…
That's a really good point. What kind of fujoshi hasn't ever watched a BL? We should send her a link to Fish Upon the Sky.
Replying to Jess Jun 10, 2021
Title Nitiman
The director IS awful, as a person and at his Job
Well, I can't argue with that - this show is like bad fanfic, and I've been told it actually is a an adapation of bad fanfic (!)
Replying to Rahab75 Jun 10, 2021
Both & Newyear are not that terribly young either. Newyear is 26 and Both is 33, but what counts is that they…
There's nothing wrong with liking people - I didn't mean it as an insult or criticism. I didn't see the in-jokey side of it because I'd never heard of them until this series. I don't really think they're comparable to Louis Armstrong or the ladies in Jack of Diamonds. Have they done anything besides be attractive, gay, and in a relationship? How do you hear about people like them? (Not sarcasm, I'm asking.)

My problem in general with the series is that there are way too many characters, and my only point is that their role is too small to justify their presence. They don't have to have relationship drama, they can face an external issue, or be more woven into the main story. They're neither playing themselves or playing character roles. They're playing characters as themselves. That's not really either a celebrity cameo or acting, so it comes of to me as pure marketing.

One of them could have worked at the office in place of one of the other minor characters (e.g. the HR director) or any number of solutions. Maybe it's just a writing issue, but their advice always sounds like it came off a greeting card, and it's not really affecting the story. Maybe it will and I should just be patient.

There are five pairs in this story - that's too many. The only episode that really grabbed me was this last one which was devoted almost entirely to one couple.
Replying to AtThePlayground86 Jun 10, 2021
Yea I definitely agree about the kissing scenes...it still needs work. It's also like they are afraid to go all…
I think the director should make them take a few shots of tequila before kissing scenes so they loosen up. Kao seems to think moving incredibly slowly = sensual, but it's actually just moving incredibly slowly.

Gene & Sib aren't terrible, but I'm not feeling it. Maybe it's because BLs are determined to have ukes behave like they hate sex or being touched. The way Gene backs away from Sib as if he's scared is ridiculous after being together for 2 years - it's not like he's a virgin anymore. Another reason why the seme/uke thing should be thrown out and just have two people.
Replying to niso2020 Jun 10, 2021
Honestly, I was watching this for Aey only. A long wait, but somehow after their short appearance I got the feeling…
100% agree - well, 99%, I was 1% hoping for Tum in one of those form-fitting knit shirts, but we didn't get that either. Aey & Mork were a much more compelling couple even though they weren't ever together in this. Bruce is such an amazing actor that you could feel the damage, the toxicity, and the basically good person underneath all that. In the main series his character would have been a 2D villain with a less skilled actor portraying him.

I'm not sure about Chap yet - I can't tell if his acting is good or if it's just that he's so hot that there's apparent chemistry with everything that comes near him. I can certainly say that I never get tired of him...