I don't know what straight asians shows you've been whatching, but this series shows much more than the regular…
I wish I had the money to produce LS3. I love how ground-breaking LS1 was and to some degree, many would argue that LS2 was also groundbreaking (first fanservice in Thai BL, first multiple BL couples). I would love to see LS3 being ground breaking and what better way than to have the first GL in a mainstream show in Thailand :)
(I also would like to see Noh and Phun dealing with the fact that they are gay and attracted to other man even when I know they will end up together. Just having Noh say "I am gay" would be a huge deal. TharnType has done that but I think it would be more significant if we see it in a franchise like LS. And it would be great if they have flashbacks that allow us to see the cut scenes from season 1 and 2 that never made it on air).
Oh, I digress. I thought we were talking about DBK? :)
And the missionary position as Gulf tried to console Mew. Like dammmmmmn!
I understand where you are coming from, and without this degenerating into a long back and forth that this board does not need, I would ask you to consider that these actors are not that innocent, they play into this because they make money out of it. Also, we as international fans don't have much say in terms of what happens with this fan service. It seems to be something that is expected and accepted in some Asian countries, including Thailand.
I rarely watch this stuff and if I do, I just look at it light heartedly. I do think you have the right attitude about the fanservice but I think you are on the other extreme of things, protecting the actors or pretending the actors are all innocent and victims... They are part of the scheme! They make $$$$ from it!
Lovesick , don't know if yo'll like that serie, it is very different from this oneYou should watch Sotus that…
Love Sick does not have a love/hate or tsundere type relationships but I think if you like BL you should give it a shot because its literally the mother of all Thai BL.
He's coming to me is beautiful. You should watch it. I don't know what else to say, I really liked it and I hope you do too. It is about a boy who dies and comes back as a ghost and falls in love with a kid who can see him. I cried so many times, its just a really cathartic experience and the show has a positive message. You can see my opinion on the review page in mydramalist (I am one of the last reviewers).
Wow @J100, you are mean... I am married and I have been with my husband now for 12 years and we are very happy.…
First of all, technically speaking once you are past a certain point in the relationship the likelihood of separation goes down, not up. Most research pins that around 6 years but I have heard other numbers so I am not sure.
As far as research on the stability of gay couples, results are mixed but I own experience is that the older the couple, the more stable up to a certain point.
This data is only valid for the US. Other countries may show different trends. The overall lesson here is that the gap is closing for sure and that as gay relationships become more normalized and the support network for couples widens, the stability should go up.
I think my main point is that long term gay relationships exist, and while you may not consider 12 years a long time, its enough for me to feel secure in my relationship. And as I said, I know several couples who have hit the 30+ anniversary so 40 is not impossible. Remember, the older we get, the less likely it is we will separate!
Well this happens always in BL/YAOI. Don't forget it is fiction written by straight women plus is a romance novel,…
Agreed and agreed. I respect your decision. I just wanted you to know that love could be on the corner for you. Never say never, I guess... :)
We thought about having kids and now we have decided that we probably won't for that same reason you just said. I do have friends who are gay who adopted and are very happy so as you said, to each his own!!!!
Well this happens always in BL/YAOI. Don't forget it is fiction written by straight women plus is a romance novel,…
Oh I am sad that you think that! Love grows! You love a person so much more the longer you are with them! They become part of you and you become part of them. Its not that your life is meaningless without them but its like you enjoy less being alone than with that person!! :) I hope you find your true love!! :)
And yes, I am one of those romantics :P That's probably why my favorite BLs are He's Coming to Me and Love Sick. I am a sucker for romance.
After reading some of the comments, I would like to point some things that some people are kind of forgeting:…
I would like to know what the word for "casual lovers" is in Thai because when he said it, and the translation popped up, it sounded like one word. I wonder if there is something we are loosing by not knowing the story behind the term used!!
People here talking about Tharn die at age 60 and all those years (from 20?!) they together, so take it in proportions…
Wow @J100, you are mean... I am married and I have been with my husband now for 12 years and we are very happy. I can't see myself with anyone else... I have a friend who is also married and he has been with his husband for like 30 years or more!
Love is love. Gay or straight, we can all find true love if we are open to it.
'cause Thai BL and us BL lovers need representation, here goes my list.. All of these are from Love Sick, which is my favorite BL, even if its a bit dated now (its from 2014/2015!)
[Love Sick The Series: Season 1] Noh to Phun after he catches Phun looking at a girl: "I thought you would forget the front now that you have tried the back"
[Love Sick The Series: Season 2] Phun and Noh are alone in the locker room Noh: "What are you doing? Are you trying to force yourself [on me]?" --Phun is just trying to change in the locker room so this is all a misunderstanding but he is mischievous and is testing Noh so he says...-- Phun: "Why? Is the floor too hard?" Noh: "Yes." [Noh then realizes he slipped up] "NO! I am not letting you do THAT!"
[Love Sick The Series: Season 2. This is one of the last scenes of the show. ] Jeed: "Noh, are you gay?" Noh: "I call it love" [Slowly walks out with a smile on his face]
After watching TharnType, I proceeded to watch the clips of DBK with Engsub. And yes, I agree with your opinion.…
The flaws you see in Pete are what makes me on one hand dislike his character ('cause I like Tay, I mean, who doesn't? If you don't know what I mean, watch him in S1 of OffGun Fun Night.), but on the other hand his attitude remind me so much of my EX LOL The constant calling and asking Kao what is he doing, the "I am bored", ergg.. SOOO ANNOYING. The fact that he represents a character flaw that I am very familiar with makes me interested to see if he changes and grows as a person (will he? my ex never did! The other day he told me that he is as annoying with his current lover as he was with me LOL)
But I do think we are supposed to find him insufferable and annoying. I don't think anyone in their right mind finds that cute. At least, I don't. My ex was annoying as heck :P
I don't know what straight asians shows you've been whatching, but this series shows much more than the regular…
I would actually love to see a show like Love Sick but with GL.... Imagine that at the girls-only school in front of Friday College we have two girls who discover they have feelings for each other? And the story mirrors Phun and Noh..? I would watch that, specially if it has BL. It could even take place in the Love Sick universe!
(I also would like to see Noh and Phun dealing with the fact that they are gay and attracted to other man even when I know they will end up together. Just having Noh say "I am gay" would be a huge deal. TharnType has done that but I think it would be more significant if we see it in a franchise like LS. And it would be great if they have flashbacks that allow us to see the cut scenes from season 1 and 2 that never made it on air).
Oh, I digress. I thought we were talking about DBK? :)
I rarely watch this stuff and if I do, I just look at it light heartedly. I do think you have the right attitude about the fanservice but I think you are on the other extreme of things, protecting the actors or pretending the actors are all innocent and victims... They are part of the scheme! They make $$$$ from it!
He's coming to me is beautiful. You should watch it. I don't know what else to say, I really liked it and I hope you do too. It is about a boy who dies and comes back as a ghost and falls in love with a kid who can see him. I cried so many times, its just a really cathartic experience and the show has a positive message. You can see my opinion on the review page in mydramalist (I am one of the last reviewers).
Lovesick is my favorite. Its really sweet and tender and innocent, even when they have sex quicker than they did here LOL
Did you watch He's Coming to Me? Its very good!
As far as research on the stability of gay couples, results are mixed but I own experience is that the older the couple, the more stable up to a certain point.
Here are some resources:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201710/are-same-sex-or-heterosexual-relationships-more-stable
https://www.livescience.com/13409-myths-gay-people-debunked-sexual-orientation.html
This data is only valid for the US. Other countries may show different trends. The overall lesson here is that the gap is closing for sure and that as gay relationships become more normalized and the support network for couples widens, the stability should go up.
I think my main point is that long term gay relationships exist, and while you may not consider 12 years a long time, its enough for me to feel secure in my relationship. And as I said, I know several couples who have hit the 30+ anniversary so 40 is not impossible. Remember, the older we get, the less likely it is we will separate!
We thought about having kids and now we have decided that we probably won't for that same reason you just said. I do have friends who are gay who adopted and are very happy so as you said, to each his own!!!!
And yes, I am one of those romantics :P That's probably why my favorite BLs are He's Coming to Me and Love Sick. I am a sucker for romance.
Love is love. Gay or straight, we can all find true love if we are open to it.
[Love Sick The Series: Season 1]
Noh to Phun after he catches Phun looking at a girl: "I thought you would forget the front now that you have tried the back"
[Love Sick The Series: Season 2]
Phun and Noh are alone in the locker room
Noh: "What are you doing? Are you trying to force yourself [on me]?"
--Phun is just trying to change in the locker room so this is all a misunderstanding but he is mischievous and is testing Noh so he says...--
Phun: "Why? Is the floor too hard?"
Noh: "Yes." [Noh then realizes he slipped up] "NO! I am not letting you do THAT!"
[Love Sick The Series: Season 2. This is one of the last scenes of the show. ]
Jeed: "Noh, are you gay?"
Noh: "I call it love" [Slowly walks out with a smile on his face]
But I do think we are supposed to find him insufferable and annoying. I don't think anyone in their right mind finds that cute. At least, I don't. My ex was annoying as heck :P