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but he also sucks. there is literally no worse trope in romance than breaking up with someone for their own good π€‘
I also have a bit of an issue with Han Moo Young's presentation. For someone with such a high level of empathy he truly does not give a flying fuck about his co-workers and how his actions might affect the whole firm π€‘I think it would be far more interesting if they actually showed how conflicted he is, because his goals are at times contradicting and whatever he does, someone might get hurt.
Also... damn why is everyone so unlikable lol π
I guess they do deserve each other π
Her just being so pushy and not knowing boundaries is annoying.
Him giving her false hope knowing well he does not have any romantic feelings is wrong.
Mahiro deserves better overall.
Basically to explain with FL's case - psychopathy is not a disorder, it's a mix of personality traits that exist among all people on different levels. But then antisocial personality disorder is a disorder because it crosses the line when it has highly negative effect on person or/and people around them. Same with empathy - being empathic is trait on spectrum, and whenever someone is externally low or extremely high in most cases not preferable and can be dangerous. Both having a lot of empathy and having little empathy have positive and negative aspects/consequences, and if someone is far on that spectrum, they will face more severe ones, and in most cases they won't be able to deal with them alone.
For you example of introversion - that's a personality trait. But in extreme cases we talk about Avoidant Personality Disorder, when someone's "introversion" is so high they themselves feel trapped in it. Feeling sad is not disorder, depression is. Feeling happy and excited is not a disorder, manic phase of bipolar disorder is. Extreme levels of any normal behavior are viewed as pathological because they negatively affect person's life in a long term.
Any personality trait that is on the far end of the spectrum usually have many negative aspects to it, no matter if generally people view said trait in a positive light.
In his case he is literally overtaken by the emotions of other people. Highly doubt they will talk about this in drama, but it can affect one's sense of self since it might be hard for them to differentiate between their own emotions and emotions of others, since they do experience them on the same level.
It's a bit like having a good memory is overall a good thing, but having photographic memory can affect someone's life on a really negative way, especially if it means they cannot move on from negative memories, since they never fade away (normal human memory will burr the past which means it will have less emotional effect on a person when they recollect it).
Most people cannot really imagine the negative effects of high empathy because they will never experience this level of being "in tune" with someone else's emotions. It's more than just "I will sad when someone else is sad".
I actually truly love how the show clearly points out neither having high empathy nor psychopathic traits is all back and white - both have positive and negative aspects and one has to learn how to navigate if they are on far end of spectrum of either of these traits.
Also, I think they made it rather clear he is not just highly sensitive - he literally feels exactly the same pain, loss, emotions that people he connects to. To the point that it negatively affects his life and that's usually how disorders are separated from just personality traits.
Everyone has some level of empathy and psychopathy in them, the drama points out how people on FAR ends of said spectrum would operate, work, behave and what issues they might face.
I love Chan so much, he is so adorable and needs to be protected. Love how they established that he is the helpful good soul making sure everyone has what they need and helping solve the problems. So now him getting interested in Yeol so fast makes sense - here comes a guy who gives him compliments and asks if he is alright: things that so far he did for others.
The chemistry is great. Yeol is obviously lost and has no idea how to act in this new environment, but I appreciate how he is not a "cold male lead" type of a deal. He's just adjusting.
Not gonna lie, loved the first half and all the not realized jealously going on and the low-key angst and conflicts and misunderstandings built on that. But then the 2nd half was just a massive mess. Last two episodes? Laughable π€‘