Just because he said he dosent want her to go that does not mean he meant it, she didn't have any obession with…
I still see a difference between her actions and compassion. She did not need to keep saving the grandson multiple times. The ML's change of heart and transformation now in ep 20 can be called compassion. While hers were more like obsession as she even kept a tree branch to know when he is in trouble.
Also, i am not talking about spending night planning about killing the dragon. Even before that, she saved him and took him far away from that place and spent nights in a house.
Saving life once or twice can be called compassion. Keeping a branch without his knowledge to keep an eye on how he is doing, is what takes it further to the level of obsession. Taking him far away despite knowing that she will not be able to use magic immediately and will have yo spend the night with him, further makes it problematic. A ML would have been tagged as a red flag if he had done the same things in name of compassion. But again, I too respect your opinion.
Just because he said he dosent want her to go that does not mean he meant it, she didn't have any obession with…
I do not know what your defination of obsession is! But running to help that grandson every single time he is in some trouble does seem obsessive to me. He was not a baby. Bro had his own missions. She had already done enough by saving the grandpa and grandson's life from death. There was no reason to help them more.
Also, no she did not listen to the ML. She initially tried to send him away but let him stay when he knelt for a day. So, she in a way went against her husband again. She keeps promising her husband that it is the last time but breaks that promise repeatedly.
If it was a ML doing this for another girl, we wouldn't tolerate it. Her obsession with saving him resulted in her having to spend nights with him alone in a house! People are blind if they don't see how problematic that is.
I am in ep 15, and her constant meddling in Changin's life is very annoying. Like the man himself doesn't want to go with her! What is this obsession with protecting him when she had already done enough for his grandpa! She won't even listen to her husband! Honestly, if it was the ML obsessively protecting a girl, people would have bashed him with no mercy!
Is there a break up in this or do they stay together once they get together?
Both in the novel and in the show, they officially get together at the end. Then the novel added two extra chapter that showed their happy married life and children. So, no official breakup. But they do have a fall out around ep 13.
The MLâs mom in Go Ahead and Family By Choice (Korean Remake) top the list for me!
Since the Korean version has just 16 episodes, it was not explored that well. However, the Chinese Version (Go Ahead) explores the horrors of it. The ML literally develops mental health problems and has to take medication. There was this one scene in which, he is haunted by her voice. It was traumatic!
Those of you who are watching while itâs airing, do you think it is heading towards a HE? I need to know that before I start bingeing! I donât mind spoilers!
Also, i am not talking about spending night planning about killing the dragon. Even before that, she saved him and took him far away from that place and spent nights in a house.
Saving life once or twice can be called compassion. Keeping a branch without his knowledge to keep an eye on how he is doing, is what takes it further to the level of obsession. Taking him far away despite knowing that she will not be able to use magic immediately and will have yo spend the night with him, further makes it problematic. A ML would have been tagged as a red flag if he had done the same things in name of compassion. But again, I too respect your opinion.
Also, no she did not listen to the ML. She initially tried to send him away but let him stay when he knelt for a day. So, she in a way went against her husband again. She keeps promising her husband that it is the last time but breaks that promise repeatedly.
If it was a ML doing this for another girl, we wouldn't tolerate it. Her obsession
with saving him resulted in her having to spend nights with him alone in a house! People are blind if they don't see how problematic that is.
Honestly, if it was the ML obsessively protecting a girl, people would have bashed him with no mercy!