AmirTH

thank you so much for your opinion:)
for what to you said I feel sympathy towards your situation. as a man, yes there are guys that probably wanted to get something physical I hate those people as much as you do, I won't let any of those come near my family. BUT about the rest, look more often it's men that step forward and confess because women are by nature more reserve and modest, absolutely no problem with that. but pls understand this if you confess and there were feelings involved and it gets rejected, it hurts, it hurts bad. if women should be given love and care, men live with their dignity and need respect. there is no doubt that you have every right to reject them but it's tooo difficult be close to someone who you have feelings to and have already confessed and call them a FRIEND. I hope you understand them. at least the good ones

thank you for your opinion:)
in real life situation, he should let go, but since it's a drama ...

you read my mind my friend:)
women live in these imaginations and dramas but IF this ever happened in real life for them.......
men have to be cautious, when she says no, then it's a no. these days there is no time for playing hard to get. I know I don't.

not when she wants to set boundaries also doesn't want to lose you, if the situation was reverse they would call that guy scumbag:)

I'll tell you the answer, MAXIMUM after a year or 2 a guy knows if he has feelings for a girl he is close to, in the flash backs in eps before 8 I can see it in his eyes, he like her. I have a girl_friend and I know deep in my heart that I will never ever date her. she has her life I have mine. this is a point of view a man and a woman who are JUST friends, considering all the flashbacks do you think he is the same as me? definitely NO. that's why he should've taken his chance or let go of her long time ago.
one more thing treating her as a bro is a cover and a lie both to her and himself
I'm a guy take this advise from me don't fall for this trick from some men.(JSY is different because we KNOW FOR A FACT that he is a good person and he is deceiving himself too by calling her a bro)

women, a question on ep7 I want to know the answer:
TY after badminton tells JSY: don't you feel lucky to have a good buddy like me who is reasonable, always ready to apologize and etc?
considering the tension they had before at school, is this her setting boundaries or it's just a statement??

I'm on ep6 and as a man I can see JSY burning with jealousy right now, you're telling 10 ep later he is still like that? If we count that 13,14 years of being JUST friend plus this 15 ep, this is NOT healthy at all. in real life at least he should've moved on long time ago. Considering all the years they've been together, his love can't be rushed? Really???

the 'scent of time' didn't LIE to the viewers because of 3 reasons:
1_there was always hints that something is not right.
2_ the ending showed us that you have to live with the consequences of your actions, you can't just magically erase them.(there was a morale to that drama this is SOO important)
3_that entire drama was like a big puzzle and the ending put them together which was satisfying.
this was really a waste of time such a shame

the ending is so awful, the whole drama is like a lie to the audiences, and you CAN'T lie to the audience, I wanna compare it to 'scent of time'

I think it deserves a score more than 8 too, there are cdramas with high scores that are not good as this one in terms of story and acting, such a shame

this drama was good I enjoyed it especially the acting of main leads, but 2 things were interesting:))
1_ almost everyone is a villain even some of those fewww good ones are not reliable
2_why villains in this drama are all a bunch of pshycos? come on have some rationality

again this forgiveness plot from cdramas that however bad someone is throughout the entire drama, if he/she is on good terms with one of the good guys she is forgiven, no questions ask. one of the weak points of cdramas.

Lin qiao's love interest is a walking red flag, can't believe that whenever I feel like she is gonna be supportive and be on their side, she goes hellbent on ruining everything and everyone, damn.

She gets possessed from time to time but the ml can control her

they literally tortured his wife, so he decides to take revenge, and what's the revenge? a scarred face and canceling an engagement, that's it? seriously? and you call yourself a man? come on. one more thing, IF chu fei Yan is dead, she died tooo easy , tooooo easy, that's a shame

I'm on episode 27. wait, whaaat?

I'm on ep 21, I think the show is good, it's not worthy of a score below 8. those who think it's bad tell me why do they think like that?(without spoilers from more than 21st episode)

The best friend is the definition of TOXIC, he is in that situation because he literally saved her life and got stabbed, and now she is telling her to leave him because she'd be a widow if he dies, she has to think for herself. are you kidding me? women are like this? really? come on

I'm on episode 19, what the f am I watching???

in the last 3or 4 episodes the best friends plot got better, it got more real. it showed not everything can be a fantasy even in a drama