I had similar thought: if Su Hyeon and Jae Min were not fucked up, this would be a good poly relationship đ
As a Polyamorous person, I had that exact same thought, if only the other two were healthy and sane people, this could have worked and they probably had opened their arms for Seong (if he was into that)
Is there no psych ward in Korea? I know itâs taboo in Asian culture, maybe more so over there. Any physician…
Iâm thinking they have done it together, Jaemin asked Da On to come to the garage. Did you notice it was the same house they were celebrating Christmas at. I donât know I donât think Jaemin will let go that easily knowing Su Hyeon is going after Da On again. In the end itâs about who âownsâ Da On, itâs about control.
Edit: Though after finishing the episode I think that maybe Su Hyeon is planning something else, maybe something that has got to do with the company and Da On. Jaemin is giving all the feelings of leaving and not coming back. Nobody would question it if he isnât been seen in awhile, especially if he has told people he is leaving.
Iâm just barely 7 minutes in but seriously for anybody who still wants to have Su Hyeon be together with Da On, Iâm questioning your sanity! And no the excuse well his upbringing did this, his parents or Jaemin caused this, just doesnât count anymore! He is the one who is now casually asking Jaemin to team up, so that they can have Da On instead of that âbasterd Ju Seong Hyeonâ!
I'm 10 minutes into the 1st epi and I don't know how everyone reached the 10th epi. I'm so disappointed. Seems…
I absolutely loved Cupids last Wish? When I just started watching BLâs I came across the bts of the scene where the characters were fighting after the will was read. Where Mixx was yelling, Earth was crying and cut was called. I saw Earth knees buckle and he started to cry and how Mixx had to actually leave the room to cool off. At that point I had no idea who these actors were, I also didnât know the name of the series, but I knew I was impressed. I kind of forgot the video after that, for some while because I hadnât had any friends who also watched BL yet, so nobody I could really ask. After I think 3/4 months I asked my friends (who by then I had found), I explained the scene I had seen and they pointed me to the series. And I just loved every minute of it, it was hilarious. Mixx acting out getting his character sisters period, I had moments that I just couldnât stop laughing.
It was kind of the same way with 1000 stars where I saw the bts of Mixx collapsing because of the cold and Earth crying. Later I connected the dots that those were the same actors.
I kind of feel the opposite where Heng doesnât deserve Mo the way he prioritizes everyone above Mo.
Agreed! It was also Heng who time and time again reassured Mo that he loved him, it was Heng who wanted to come out to the office about their relationship, but got accused by Mo of lying. And it was also Heng who did his hardest best to get the approval of Mo his dad. It was constantly Heng who wanted to move forward, who felt stable in the relationship. Yet Mo had his suitcase multiple times instead of talking to Heng, I canât imagine that feeling, of knowing your bf is not sure and with the smallest problems decides to run, rather than talk about it.
This might be an unpopular opinion but Iâm seeing some say use the spoiler button but honestly, why would you start looking through the comment section of a airing series? The series and what happens in the series is going to be actively spoken about. So going through these comments, feels like you just wanted yourself to be spoiled. If I donât want to see spoilers because I havenât seen an episode but I know itâs still airing and I know others might have seen it earlier then me (different time zones etc), I stay away from the comment section of MDL. I have seen people only ever use the spoiler button when it comes to stories that have personal details in them, when they are talking about what going to happen in the future of the series or when somebody is talking about what happened in the book(s). But like I said it might be an unpopular opinion, if you like using the spoiler button go for it.
Very curious about the reason production/writers decided to paint Yotha in the worst possible light throughout…
Blame it on New and the team behind it. Because indeed, why was Yotha his character written like that? Why was Santa told by New to act more like a child and use a childish voice? Why was PerthSanta their clothing, make-up and hair all a mess but for all the other couples it was all perfectly in order?
Why was YothaGun screening time cut in favor of showing Faifa more off? Why wasnât the script written like the book, where Yotha never kissed Warich and where Klao abducted Santa and only there Gun finds out that Warich was Yotha his ex? Yotha then comes to find Gun. Why was there so little time spend on Yotha and Gun their trauma, while in the books it takes Yotha months and for Gun his trauma Yotha and Gun had many visits to that shed where they would hug and build happy memories. The same way with Yotha coming over to sleep next to Gun, he came by at night for months on end, it became a running joke between Faifa and Gun. Yotha in the books was a very respectful guy towards Gun always asking permission to touch or kiss him! Why was that forced redemption between Yotha and their mother necessary, while in real life it wouldâve never happened.
Why did they decide to not have Yotha and Faifa as twins, like they did in the books? Which also would have explained why Yotha knows so much about Faifa his behaviors and what he likes and doesnât like.
So many questions where we will probably never get the answer for. I said it before New should stop directing large couple bl projects because one or more couples get screwed over by him.
I agree with you in the case of Yotha but honestly Newton is a pretty bad brother in my opinion. In Yotha Gun'…
I do agree with the comments saying Newton isnât as invested in Faifa as he was with Yotha. And I have wondered why we saw Newton so extensive in YothaGun their arc but we havenât seen anything of him in this arc. Maybe itâs just bad writing, maybe Newton had more of a click with Yotha because Yotha frequently visited his bar, which he had been doing less and less because of Gun. Honestly we just donât know.
But I remember being annoyed at Newton when Yotha came to the bar, spewing and ranting about his mother after another confrontation with her. It was Warich who comforted Yotha instead of his brother. I was also annoyed at Newton constantly pushing Warich on Yotha, not to mention the fact that Newton let Warich clean Yotha his room because their mother was supposed to visit. I hated it when Newton told Gun that Yotha was traumatized by love, it wasnât his story to tell.
Maybe itâs like me with my siblings, I remember being horribly treated by my parents but my siblings donât remember it or care for it. I donât really have a connection to all three of them. Newton is a bit older than the Yotha and Faifa, so it could be that or maybe he is just not as affected by it all. It could also be the complete opposite, Newton is deliberately distancing himself from Faifa because heâs afraid Faifa will leave again. Maybe it will be addressed in the next couple episodes, but I have a hard time believing that. With how the writing has been.
In the books Yotha and Faifa were twins, it is generally accepted that twins have deep emotional connection with each other. Also twins know each other so well that they often can predict how their twin will act or what they will say. Tearing them apart must have hurt a lot, they were very close before. So itâs also understandable that Yotha and Faifa had a better bond together, but seeing as in the series they arenât twins, I just do not know what the reason is.
I also wouldnât be suprised if it all is a side affect of all 3 of the boys being traumatized, by the separation of their parents and their mothers actions, behaviors. Maybe when they are older theyâll become close again, maybe theyâll drift apart more.
Im sorry but I get the feeling that a lot of you havenât seen the YothaGun arc otherwise you would have known that Yotha took it up for Faifa time and time again, against their mother. Yotha was the one who was mad and didnât try to hide it. He was also the one who pulled Faifa out of those confrontation with their mother, because he knew how much it hurt Faifa!
Maybe stop blaming the wrong people, yes Yotha and Newton should have texted or told Faifa, but misunderstandings happen, Newton probably thought the same thing as Yotha did, that the other one would have done it. But the fact is the blame lies with that wothless woman that doesnât deserve the title mother. She probably knew Faifa was going to pick her up and didnât texted him or once again forget him. Thats on her, not in Yotha or Newton!
Also the people here getting annoyed with Yotha being protective of Wine, maybe try to understand the situation. Yotha hasnât seen Wine or Faifa together, most of the lovey dovey moments between them have been private inside Faifa his apartment. But Yotha does have some experience with protecting Faifa from people who took his kindness the wrong way (see previous episode). itâs not a weird thing for Yotha to say that Faifa doesnât know how to love or how to approach people. Which is true even Faifa has admitted that he doesnât know what it means to be special to somebody or feel special. How can a person feel or know love if he never has known if? The same way Faifa doesnât know how to approach people, which is also what we have seen, Faifa treated everybody the same before Wine came along. Multiple people have pointed that out.
Wine is still Yotha his mentee, even if Faifa has taken on most of the responsibilities. Yotha is also somebody who wants Faifa to be happy, that he has said to Gun. Yotha knows Faifa is hurting even though he never opens up about it. Yotha has tried to talk about it numerous times with Faifa in the previous arc, but Faifa also then didnât really opened up about it. Yes you can read a lot of Faifa his body language but at some point if he canât open up, it becomes a guessing game.
But please stop with the talk about Yotha and Newton not appreciating Faifa because they do. Yotha has done enough to show that he is a good brother!
Probably the revelation on why his mom took Faifa and not Yotha is what helped Yotha's trauma to get healed and…
That mother didnât care for any of her sons! Not just one, all were left behind, all were abandoned. Itâs only because of bad writing that they forced that forgiveness / redemption scene between Yotha and his mother. Any sane person would have never forgiven their parent!!
this feels so repeatitive the dynamic of the couples are almost the same the script is written so poorly the only…
Itâs clear as daylight that New has had his favorites in this series! You can see it in the script, acting, amount of time in scenes that was used to address certain things, make-up, hair, clothes etc! New should stop making these group series, because one or more couples always get screwed over!
Well now it is clear why that forced redemption between Yotha and his mother happened! Because letâs be honest nobody would ever forgive a mother like that! Honestly New should stop directing these multiple couple series, because one way or another one (or more) couple(s) gets screwed over!
Edit: âwhy do I have to sacrifice?â I hate how Faifa is constantly putting himself in place to be used, you are constantly sacrificing yourself because you canât say no. If you arenât putting up boundaries or saying no once in a while, people are going to walk all over you. Faifa is so afraid of saying No but honestly if he doesnât constantly wants to get hurt he should grow himself some backbone. And yes I know how hard that is! So donât come after me for saying this!
I feel like I am watching a different show here than what these people in the comments are watching. Cuz they…
Itâs probably because there was a clear difference in Da On his interaction between Jaemin and Su Hyeon. Some of the shippers of Su Hyeon and Da On are using that to say it was consensual because Da On kissed Su Hyeon back. I can somewhat understand that, but the difference wasnât because it was consensual.
To me it was because Da On knows how aggressive Su Hyeon can become, he knows that if he resist, Su Hyeon could possibly become very violent. With Jaemin itâs the complete opposite, Da On doesnât know this side of Jaemin, Jaemin so far has been the person who supported him, stood by him, helped him, was always friendly. To find out your friend of many years is suddenly this mastermind who made all these situations happen, Da On his world must have done a 180. I can understand Da On seeing Jaemin as a manipulatetive person but maybe not as physical aggressive as Su Hyeon is, so yes he would fight him of. Jaemin taking a butter knife to than slash himself 3 times is not something Da On is counting on (letâs be real non of us, who havenât read the novel, were expecting it).
But I digress, I agree that most donât seem to understand what consent really means and how it shows!
Okay in my personal opinion getting Soohyun inside the apartment was enough. Daon didnât HAVE to comply with…
You really think after seeing Su Hyeon smash a bottle in somebody head and him grabbing Da On so hard in the face that is bled and left marks, that he wouldnât have gone outside to where Da On was with Seong? How can you still think that? Did you miss the threat of Su Hyeon saying he would kill Seong if Da On didnât comply to him? I really hope you never get into such a situation that you have to go along with what your aggressive abuser wants because other wise you might possibly get r*ped or the one you love, who is waiting outside, gets hurt!
The amount of people saying it was consensual the kiss between Su Hyeon and Da On is making me feel sick. Nothing of that kiss was consensual, everything was forced, possessive and uncomfortable. Da On had constantly his arms between him and Su Hyeon trying to create distance. Su Hyeon had to threaten Da On to make him comply because Da On kept looking at the door. And that thread was to kill the man who was waiting outside. People donât seem to understand that there are reactions like fight, flight and freeze. Su Hyeon authority over Da On is immense not only has he shown to become physically abusive if he gets angry (him smashing a bottle into somebodyâs face and the face grab of Da On are just a few examples) but also he as Da On his boss has the authority to fire Da On if he not complied, a threat he also used a couple of times. One of the reasons Da On went with Su Hyeon was to protect the man who was waiting outside for him!
Edit: it feels like Iâm having the same conversations I had during When it rains it poors! Just because somebody doesnât fight back doesnât mean it is consensual!
Edit: Though after finishing the episode I think that maybe Su Hyeon is planning something else, maybe something that has got to do with the company and Da On. Jaemin is giving all the feelings of leaving and not coming back. Nobody would question it if he isnât been seen in awhile, especially if he has told people he is leaving.
It was kind of the same way with 1000 stars where I saw the bts of Mixx collapsing because of the cold and Earth crying. Later I connected the dots that those were the same actors.
Why was YothaGun screening time cut in favor of showing Faifa more off? Why wasnât the script written like the book, where Yotha never kissed Warich and where Klao abducted Santa and only there Gun finds out that Warich was Yotha his ex? Yotha then comes to find Gun. Why was there so little time spend on Yotha and Gun their trauma, while in the books it takes Yotha months and for Gun his trauma Yotha and Gun had many visits to that shed where they would hug and build happy memories. The same way with Yotha coming over to sleep next to Gun, he came by at night for months on end, it became a running joke between Faifa and Gun. Yotha in the books was a very respectful guy towards Gun always asking permission to touch or kiss him! Why was that forced redemption between Yotha and their mother necessary, while in real life it wouldâve never happened.
Why did they decide to not have Yotha and Faifa as twins, like they did in the books? Which also would have explained why Yotha knows so much about Faifa his behaviors and what he likes and doesnât like.
So many questions where we will probably never get the answer for. I said it before New should stop directing large couple bl projects because one or more couples get screwed over by him.
But I remember being annoyed at Newton when Yotha came to the bar, spewing and ranting about his mother after another confrontation with her. It was Warich who comforted Yotha instead of his brother. I was also annoyed at Newton constantly pushing Warich on Yotha, not to mention the fact that Newton let Warich clean Yotha his room because their mother was supposed to visit. I hated it when Newton told Gun that Yotha was traumatized by love, it wasnât his story to tell.
Maybe itâs like me with my siblings, I remember being horribly treated by my parents but my siblings donât remember it or care for it. I donât really have a connection to all three of them. Newton is a bit older than the Yotha and Faifa, so it could be that or maybe he is just not as affected by it all. It could also be the complete opposite, Newton is deliberately distancing himself from Faifa because heâs afraid Faifa will leave again. Maybe it will be addressed in the next couple episodes, but I have a hard time believing that. With how the writing has been.
In the books Yotha and Faifa were twins, it is generally accepted that twins have deep emotional connection with each other. Also twins know each other so well that they often can predict how their twin will act or what they will say. Tearing them apart must have hurt a lot, they were very close before. So itâs also understandable that Yotha and Faifa had a better bond together, but seeing as in the series they arenât twins, I just do not know what the reason is.
I also wouldnât be suprised if it all is a side affect of all 3 of the boys being traumatized, by the separation of their parents and their mothers actions, behaviors. Maybe when they are older theyâll become close again, maybe theyâll drift apart more.
Maybe stop blaming the wrong people, yes Yotha and Newton should have texted or told Faifa, but misunderstandings happen, Newton probably thought the same thing as Yotha did, that the other one would have done it. But the fact is the blame lies with that wothless woman that doesnât deserve the title mother. She probably knew Faifa was going to pick her up and didnât texted him or once again forget him. Thats on her, not in Yotha or Newton!
Also the people here getting annoyed with Yotha being protective of Wine, maybe try to understand the situation. Yotha hasnât seen Wine or Faifa together, most of the lovey dovey moments between them have been private inside Faifa his apartment. But Yotha does have some experience with protecting Faifa from people who took his kindness the wrong way (see previous episode). itâs not a weird thing for Yotha to say that Faifa doesnât know how to love or how to approach people. Which is true even Faifa has admitted that he doesnât know what it means to be special to somebody or feel special. How can a person feel or know love if he never has known if? The same way Faifa doesnât know how to approach people, which is also what we have seen, Faifa treated everybody the same before Wine came along. Multiple people have pointed that out.
Wine is still Yotha his mentee, even if Faifa has taken on most of the responsibilities. Yotha is also somebody who wants Faifa to be happy, that he has said to Gun. Yotha knows Faifa is hurting even though he never opens up about it. Yotha has tried to talk about it numerous times with Faifa in the previous arc, but Faifa also then didnât really opened up about it. Yes you can read a lot of Faifa his body language but at some point if he canât open up, it becomes a guessing game.
But please stop with the talk about Yotha and Newton not appreciating Faifa because they do. Yotha has done enough to show that he is a good brother!
Edit: âwhy do I have to sacrifice?â I hate how Faifa is constantly putting himself in place to be used, you are constantly sacrificing yourself because you canât say no. If you arenât putting up boundaries or saying no once in a while, people are going to walk all over you. Faifa is so afraid of saying No but honestly if he doesnât constantly wants to get hurt he should grow himself some backbone. And yes I know how hard that is! So donât come after me for saying this!
To me it was because Da On knows how aggressive Su Hyeon can become, he knows that if he resist, Su Hyeon could possibly become very violent. With Jaemin itâs the complete opposite, Da On doesnât know this side of Jaemin, Jaemin so far has been the person who supported him, stood by him, helped him, was always friendly. To find out your friend of many years is suddenly this mastermind who made all these situations happen, Da On his world must have done a 180. I can understand Da On seeing Jaemin as a manipulatetive person but maybe not as physical aggressive as Su Hyeon is, so yes he would fight him of. Jaemin taking a butter knife to than slash himself 3 times is not something Da On is counting on (letâs be real non of us, who havenât read the novel, were expecting it).
But I digress, I agree that most donât seem to understand what consent really means and how it shows!
Edit: it feels like Iâm having the same conversations I had during When it rains it poors! Just because somebody doesnât fight back doesnât mean it is consensual!