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Or like Kate, a bit further down the comments, said he’s planning to commit murder and suicide. Because honestly he is that deranged, you could already see it on the Christmas cards in the tree. The first two were normal wishes, the third felt kind of disturbed and creepy.

Revamp is directed by New, I hate to say it but that an accident waiting to happen. I have already lowered my expectations for that one, not because Boun or Prem. But New hasn’t done such a good job with his latest 3/4 series, he’s directed.

I saw some say that they think Jaemin is letting go of Da On so he couldn’t possibly be the one who kidnapped Da On. But the thing is these types of people only escalate further, never will they back down, never de-escalate. Because in their mind their “prey” (for lack of a better word) is already theirs, they own it. (Jaemin has made that clear throughout the series) Only thing Jaemin learned from hurting himself is that Da On is unfazed by it, yes he was shocked and traumatized but not enough to stay and wait for him in the hospital. Only thing Jaemin now knows is that he needs to take bigger actions. In my opinion, him calling Da On and making it seem like he is giving up on Da On, is being used by him, so that Da On will let his guard down around Jaemin. Him kidnapping Da On would fit in the picture of him needing to take bigger actions and further escalating.

Even if he didn’t kidnap Da On, he has shown that there are no excuses for his behavior, long before this episode.

Some of the people responding don’t know or don’t realize it, but the moment you start cutting if a toxic relationship or a toxic (abusive) person, is in fact the most dangerous time for said person. Because the abuser is losing control and will do anything to get that control back. But seeing your career background, you’ll know this. When I left my ex I was so scared, I left in the end of November and until March I would get anonymous phone calls during the day, late at night, early in the morning. I live in a country where you drive from one end to the other in two hours, so i felt like he could easily have done something. Thankfully it stayed with only those phone calls. I took me 3 or 4 tries to get out, finally with the last time I told myself never again, 4 years before I ended the relationship I knew I was in a toxic and abusive relationship. Out 6,5 years.

As a Polyamorous person, I had that exact same thought, if only the other two were healthy and sane people, this could have worked and they probably had opened their arms for Seong (if he was into that)

And Da On might still held out on some hope to have his friend of 7 years back. To have it all be a misunderstanding or some kind of mental break.

I’m thinking they have done it together, Jaemin asked Da On to come to the garage. Did you notice it was the same house they were celebrating Christmas at. I don’t know I don’t think Jaemin will let go that easily knowing Su Hyeon is going after Da On again. In the end it’s about who “owns” Da On, it’s about control.

Edit: Though after finishing the episode I think that maybe Su Hyeon is planning something else, maybe something that has got to do with the company and Da On. Jaemin is giving all the feelings of leaving and not coming back. Nobody would question it if he isn’t been seen in awhile, especially if he has told people he is leaving.

I’m just barely 7 minutes in but seriously for anybody who still wants to have Su Hyeon be together with Da On, I’m questioning your sanity! And no the excuse well his upbringing did this, his parents or Jaemin caused this, just doesn’t count anymore! He is the one who is now casually asking Jaemin to team up, so that they can have Da On instead of that “basterd Ju Seong Hyeon”!

You make me curious as to why.

I absolutely loved Cupids last Wish? When I just started watching BL’s I came across the bts of the scene where the characters were fighting after the will was read. Where Mixx was yelling, Earth was crying and cut was called. I saw Earth knees buckle and he started to cry and how Mixx had to actually leave the room to cool off. At that point I had no idea who these actors were, I also didn’t know the name of the series, but I knew I was impressed. I kind of forgot the video after that, for some while because I hadn’t had any friends who also watched BL yet, so nobody I could really ask. After I think 3/4 months I asked my friends (who by then I had found), I explained the scene I had seen and they pointed me to the series. And I just loved every minute of it, it was hilarious. Mixx acting out getting his character sisters period, I had moments that I just couldn’t stop laughing.

It was kind of the same way with 1000 stars where I saw the bts of Mixx collapsing because of the cold and Earth crying. Later I connected the dots that those were the same actors.

Agreed! It was also Heng who time and time again reassured Mo that he loved him, it was Heng who wanted to come out to the office about their relationship, but got accused by Mo of lying. And it was also Heng who did his hardest best to get the approval of Mo his dad. It was constantly Heng who wanted to move forward, who felt stable in the relationship. Yet Mo had his suitcase multiple times instead of talking to Heng, I can’t imagine that feeling, of knowing your bf is not sure and with the smallest problems decides to run, rather than talk about it.

This might be an unpopular opinion but I’m seeing some say use the spoiler button but honestly, why would you start looking through the comment section of a airing series? The series and what happens in the series is going to be actively spoken about. So going through these comments, feels like you just wanted yourself to be spoiled. If I don’t want to see spoilers because I haven’t seen an episode but I know it’s still airing and I know others might have seen it earlier then me (different time zones etc), I stay away from the comment section of MDL. I have seen people only ever use the spoiler button when it comes to stories that have personal details in them, when they are talking about what going to happen in the future of the series or when somebody is talking about what happened in the book(s). But like I said it might be an unpopular opinion, if you like using the spoiler button go for it.

Blame it on New and the team behind it. Because indeed, why was Yotha his character written like that? Why was Santa told by New to act more like a child and use a childish voice? Why was PerthSanta their clothing, make-up and hair all a mess but for all the other couples it was all perfectly in order?

Why was YothaGun screening time cut in favor of showing Faifa more off? Why wasn’t the script written like the book, where Yotha never kissed Warich and where Klao abducted Santa and only there Gun finds out that Warich was Yotha his ex? Yotha then comes to find Gun. Why was there so little time spend on Yotha and Gun their trauma, while in the books it takes Yotha months and for Gun his trauma Yotha and Gun had many visits to that shed where they would hug and build happy memories. The same way with Yotha coming over to sleep next to Gun, he came by at night for months on end, it became a running joke between Faifa and Gun. Yotha in the books was a very respectful guy towards Gun always asking permission to touch or kiss him! Why was that forced redemption between Yotha and their mother necessary, while in real life it would’ve never happened.

Why did they decide to not have Yotha and Faifa as twins, like they did in the books? Which also would have explained why Yotha knows so much about Faifa his behaviors and what he likes and doesn’t like.

So many questions where we will probably never get the answer for. I said it before New should stop directing large couple bl projects because one or more couples get screwed over by him.

I do agree with the comments saying Newton isn’t as invested in Faifa as he was with Yotha. And I have wondered why we saw Newton so extensive in YothaGun their arc but we haven’t seen anything of him in this arc. Maybe it’s just bad writing, maybe Newton had more of a click with Yotha because Yotha frequently visited his bar, which he had been doing less and less because of Gun. Honestly we just don’t know.

But I remember being annoyed at Newton when Yotha came to the bar, spewing and ranting about his mother after another confrontation with her. It was Warich who comforted Yotha instead of his brother. I was also annoyed at Newton constantly pushing Warich on Yotha, not to mention the fact that Newton let Warich clean Yotha his room because their mother was supposed to visit. I hated it when Newton told Gun that Yotha was traumatized by love, it wasn’t his story to tell.

Maybe it’s like me with my siblings, I remember being horribly treated by my parents but my siblings don’t remember it or care for it. I don’t really have a connection to all three of them. Newton is a bit older than the Yotha and Faifa, so it could be that or maybe he is just not as affected by it all. It could also be the complete opposite, Newton is deliberately distancing himself from Faifa because he’s afraid Faifa will leave again. Maybe it will be addressed in the next couple episodes, but I have a hard time believing that. With how the writing has been.

In the books Yotha and Faifa were twins, it is generally accepted that twins have deep emotional connection with each other. Also twins know each other so well that they often can predict how their twin will act or what they will say. Tearing them apart must have hurt a lot, they were very close before. So it’s also understandable that Yotha and Faifa had a better bond together, but seeing as in the series they aren’t twins, I just do not know what the reason is.

I also wouldn’t be suprised if it all is a side affect of all 3 of the boys being traumatized, by the separation of their parents and their mothers actions, behaviors. Maybe when they are older they’ll become close again, maybe they’ll drift apart more.

Im sorry but I get the feeling that a lot of you haven’t seen the YothaGun arc otherwise you would have known that Yotha took it up for Faifa time and time again, against their mother. Yotha was the one who was mad and didn’t try to hide it. He was also the one who pulled Faifa out of those confrontation with their mother, because he knew how much it hurt Faifa!

Maybe stop blaming the wrong people, yes Yotha and Newton should have texted or told Faifa, but misunderstandings happen, Newton probably thought the same thing as Yotha did, that the other one would have done it. But the fact is the blame lies with that wothless woman that doesn’t deserve the title mother. She probably knew Faifa was going to pick her up and didn’t texted him or once again forget him. Thats on her, not in Yotha or Newton!

Also the people here getting annoyed with Yotha being protective of Wine, maybe try to understand the situation. Yotha hasn’t seen Wine or Faifa together, most of the lovey dovey moments between them have been private inside Faifa his apartment. But Yotha does have some experience with protecting Faifa from people who took his kindness the wrong way (see previous episode). it’s not a weird thing for Yotha to say that Faifa doesn’t know how to love or how to approach people. Which is true even Faifa has admitted that he doesn’t know what it means to be special to somebody or feel special. How can a person feel or know love if he never has known if? The same way Faifa doesn’t know how to approach people, which is also what we have seen, Faifa treated everybody the same before Wine came along. Multiple people have pointed that out.

Wine is still Yotha his mentee, even if Faifa has taken on most of the responsibilities. Yotha is also somebody who wants Faifa to be happy, that he has said to Gun. Yotha knows Faifa is hurting even though he never opens up about it. Yotha has tried to talk about it numerous times with Faifa in the previous arc, but Faifa also then didn’t really opened up about it. Yes you can read a lot of Faifa his body language but at some point if he can’t open up, it becomes a guessing game.

But please stop with the talk about Yotha and Newton not appreciating Faifa because they do. Yotha has done enough to show that he is a good brother!

That mother didn’t care for any of her sons! Not just one, all were left behind, all were abandoned. It’s only because of bad writing that they forced that forgiveness / redemption scene between Yotha and his mother. Any sane person would have never forgiven their parent!!

It’s clear as daylight that New has had his favorites in this series! You can see it in the script, acting, amount of time in scenes that was used to address certain things, make-up, hair, clothes etc! New should stop making these group series, because one or more couples always get screwed over!

Well now it is clear why that forced redemption between Yotha and his mother happened! Because let’s be honest nobody would ever forgive a mother like that! Honestly New should stop directing these multiple couple series, because one way or another one (or more) couple(s) gets screwed over!

Edit: “why do I have to sacrifice?” I hate how Faifa is constantly putting himself in place to be used, you are constantly sacrificing yourself because you can’t say no. If you aren’t putting up boundaries or saying no once in a while, people are going to walk all over you. Faifa is so afraid of saying No but honestly if he doesn’t constantly wants to get hurt he should grow himself some backbone. And yes I know how hard that is! So don’t come after me for saying this!

It’s probably because there was a clear difference in Da On his interaction between Jaemin and Su Hyeon. Some of the shippers of Su Hyeon and Da On are using that to say it was consensual because Da On kissed Su Hyeon back. I can somewhat understand that, but the difference wasn’t because it was consensual.

To me it was because Da On knows how aggressive Su Hyeon can become, he knows that if he resist, Su Hyeon could possibly become very violent. With Jaemin it’s the complete opposite, Da On doesn’t know this side of Jaemin, Jaemin so far has been the person who supported him, stood by him, helped him, was always friendly. To find out your friend of many years is suddenly this mastermind who made all these situations happen, Da On his world must have done a 180. I can understand Da On seeing Jaemin as a manipulatetive person but maybe not as physical aggressive as Su Hyeon is, so yes he would fight him of. Jaemin taking a butter knife to than slash himself 3 times is not something Da On is counting on (let’s be real non of us, who haven’t read the novel, were expecting it).

But I digress, I agree that most don’t seem to understand what consent really means and how it shows!