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If you mean episode 37, I watched that part. But maybe somebody who had read the book, could have the answers. Thank you for your answer

You said what I was thinking, the first 5 episodes were so lovely and mature. The whole love triangle thing just made me so uninterested to watch the series. This was one of my most anticipated series, but with Jun constantly trying to sabotage the building relationship between Po and Thame, it just felt so immature and unnecessary. I agree with you that it felt like Jun either was very manipulative towards Po or/and just a toxic friend towards Thame. Isnt there something like a friendship code? The past 3 episodes have just been so immature, it feels like high school drama. The Jun story was unnecessary, why not show how Thame and Po build a strong relationship? So that by the time it does get out that they are dating/are gay, they won’t instantly break up because of out.

And for everybody these boundaries could be different, I’ve told you my boundaries in my relationships. So above is how I would define the relationship (or lack there off) between the two couple. But can I ask you back, what do you define as cheating?

For me cheating is not communicating, not being open and honest. I don’t give a damn about sex, for me cheating isn’t physical. I’m polyamorous, so for me cheating is not respecting the rules and boundaries you have agreed upon as a couple.

I feel like there isn’t any relationship anymore between Kaori and Hagi because they act more like roommates. They are indifferent towards each other, the conversations aren’t deep or meaningful. The relationship is already over they just haven’t spoken the words out loud yet.

For me Kaori cheated first by being completely cold towards Hagi, by not considering his feelings in this matter. By completely ignoring his needs and wants, by doing things without communicating to him or being honest about it. She is lying to him by omitting, I find her very cruel.

As for Sei and Fuji I mean thats not even a relationship, that’s a trauma bond. Sei attached himself on Fuji after his parents died and it seems like Fuji took that chance to completely isolate Sei from everybody, while Sei was vulnerable.

Everybody thinks differently about cheating, some think watching porn is cheating. Some say a shared kiss is cheating, some say liking a post from somebody on social media is cheating.

I’m sorry but how are they supposed to communicate when every time they bring it up a person either flees or comes up with some kind of lousy excuse? And what kind of solutions do you have? Do Kaori or Fuji look or talk like they would be willing to open up the relationship?

All of this! It isn’t as if both guys haven’t tried to communicate with their room mates

My blood boiled when Po said that the company wanted the group to say a few words to the dude who sung their song! Like you want them to praise the dude, while you gave away their song? I really hope that at the end of the series, the group decides to leave the company and look for a company who supports them 100%.

It felt like the third person, just wanted to proposition Hagi, she very casually worked her husband out of the room to be alone with Hagi. To me it seems she is more angry/frustrated at her husband then actually understanding Hagi, like how Sei does. She sounds very bitter and it almost felt like she wanted to cheat to get back at her husband.

And I agree her husband isnt impotent.

At this point I’m starting to get annoyed with both Fuji as Kaori, both guys are trying to hard to have them just communicate with them, and they get ignored or brushed of every time.

Kaori talking so openly with her friend about her not having sex with Hagi, is astounding, she just doesn’t seem to care what it is doing with Hagi. Her brushing him off once again is so frustrating to see.

I saw multiple posts about Sei becoming creepy because he keeps bringing it up, I personally would do the same if my friend/room mate/whatever can’t tell me why or what is wrong. Fuji constantly interrupts Sei when he tries to bring it up and then walks away is just painful to see. Though I would have been very direct with Fuji and just straight out asked why don’t you want to be physical with me. But then again I’m somebody who doesn’t shy away from tough conversations.

Communication isn’t this hard, both Kaori and Fuji should just listen and talk about what is bothering them, or at least explain it. So Sei and Hagi can make their decision if they want to stay, yes or no.

Again both Fuji and Kaori are cruel in this episode. With Kaori being able to talk about their sex life with a friend but not with Hagi, not to mention talking about their private issues to said friend. And with Fuji, I felt like he purposely tried to hurt Sei pushing on his toe. It felt almost like a punishment, because he dared to seek help from somebody else, that wasn’t him. Fuji seemed to have isolated Sei after his parents died. It feels very much like Sei trauma bonded with Fuji. Sei is dependent on him, for his happiness and joy, the way he used to wait for Fuji to return from work etc. And Fuji seems to enjoy the fact that Sei needs him, I feel like at times Fuji is emotionally and mentally abusing Sei. I’m glad Sei is actually going out with Hagi to eat or visit places and not constantly wait for Fuji anymore.

Also we all agree on the fact that the friend of Kaori tried to proposition Hagi, right?

Personally I love how this series is showing a very different almost taboo storyline. It’s very different from the fluffy, lovey dovey stories we have had. It shows, you just have to push somebody far enough for them to break and say enough! Very realistic.

I just finished all 37 episodes, but can somebody please explain the ending of 36. Didn’t the Elder Ye Bai Yi said that if they did rhat ritual that one of the two would die? How is it that Wen gets to live, be a god? Or did I miss something. I did love the ending, but I leave with a couple of questions. Do the diciples (is that how you write it?) of Zishu, inluding Chengling every see their master again? Did they pass on the information they learned from the armory? What happened to prince Jin? Was in the end Ghost valley completely destroyed? Did Chengling have children, so he could build the sects he was a disciple for back up? Did he pad down the information? But most of all I do not understand how Wen was able to survive? I loved the scheming and treachery between the sects, the politics of it all. I’m glad that Chemgling was able to forgive Wen when he found out who Wen really was. This is definitely a series im going to be rewatching again!

on the world of bl website you can find a list with all the completed, airing and upcoming bl series. I would recommend you check there if you find a series, you might like but don’t want it to be BL.

Please do us all a favor and indeed never watch another series from Dunk again! That is for all the people who keep complaining about Dunk his acting! If you don’t like how a person does their acting, then why for heaven sake’s are you watching a series said person plays in?!

Revamp will only start filming on that date, New the director has just finished filming perfect 10 liners.

From what I understand Lily killed their parents because of the land/title to land they owned. Lily stopped working for that guy (forget his name) because she wanted to have a family, but instead built her own company. After that all the orders came from her.

JoongDunk deserve a standing ovation for this latest episode. They did such an amazing job, Fadel his beautiful silent tears and Styls his reassurance that they’ll make it. The gorgeous kiss that fallowed! All four of them working to the down fall of Lily, this was what I was hoping for from the beginning. KantBison and the Titanic scene was so much fun to watch. All in all it was just a good episode! This series had been consistently good.

Really if people are still going to complain about Dunk his acting, then you guys are just blind. Because I for one could see all the emotions in his eyes and acting today.

Agreed!

This, all of this. People don’t seem to understand that all 3 of the brothers have trauma. Those who think that Faifa will be “healthy” in a relationship, are probably going to be shocked because he is such a people pleaser, that he is stuffing down his own feelings! Non of the brothers seem to learned how to communicate, which is a thing.

A bit of personal information, I was 32 when I found out I had a lot of trauma with me, trauma from my parents, trauma from my abusive ex, etc. I was very much like Yotha. It takes time to learn what traumatized you and finding your triggers is so hard. The guys are around 18 maybe 20? years old, they are still so very young, but carry already so much with them. The fact that Yotha is actively trying to change for Gun is admirable. But healing isn’t a linear proces, you’ll have ups and downs, even if you are seeing a therapist.

Right?! I said somewhere below, that I rather have Yotha hurt Gun now a little by figuring out what he feels for Gun and actively working on himself. Then hurting Gun a lot after Yotha finds out that it wasn’t actually love. And end the relationship like how Wa did worh Yotha. I just can’t understand why Yotha is being dragged through the mut but Wa isn’t.

Finally somebody gets it. Yotha is showing typical commitment issues symptoms, he is badly hurt by Wa but is trying to change for Gun. Do I think he needs therapy, yes definitely. But a patient and healthy partner can heal a lot. Maybe I can relate to Yotha because I have been this way, after my very long abusive relationship finally ended.

I don’t hate Wa nor Yotha, I was just pointing out the difference in how Yotha is being judged yet Wa isn’t being judged for his actions at all.