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On Start-Up Nov 14, 2020
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I dislike the message of this drama if they make DM end up with NDS. So people shd become an opportunist & push forward no matter how wrong his way is? Don't become a selfless person, become a selfish one & you'll get the girl?
Replying to Kimsamsoom Nov 14, 2020
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Then SDM woke up and realized it was all a dream... her father and mother never divorced... and they live happily…
That ending is probably 10times better than having NDS end up with DM :'))
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
Yep, exactly
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
Probably nothing but beautiful cherished memories? One day grandma may admit it to DM & DM though dissapointed she can understand her anyway & even thankful with the lie because it helped her nonetheless. The lie won't have a bigger impact than it is rn & less hurtful.

NDS later can meet DM as himself & develop their bonding with a fresh start, as very well JP & she got to choose the right partner for herself, fairly.
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
How can JP stop him when NDS is the one who meet DM & speak for himself?
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
If it's as per JP request, the lie shd have ended that night with NDS told DM that he has a girlfriend. Her ideal boyfriend image shd hv ended that night with no further complication & she would only cherish her penpal in her memories.

It's not JP's fault if NDS then got smitten & do the opposite, NDS want to have a chance with her so then he gave her his name card & gave her his "green light" by telling her that he has no girlfriend.

The ball of lies then become at NDS's hands because he chose his path himself.

Grandma never ask him to keep the lie, the lie that grandma ask him to keep is regarding her eyes, which NDS doesn't obey it anyway.
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
Yes HJP had his flaws too, just like everyone else's here in this drama including grandma.

From DM's side/ POV I find HJP fault is better because he doesn't use his lie for his own benefit, he doesn't pursue her romantically, he wrote those letters as per grandma's request to give her the comfort & confidence she needed during her difficult time & has no further/ otherintention.

But, yes from NDS side he clearly is at fault using other people's name.

To my knowledge, the sole reason HJP keeping the lie is to protect DM feelings, but since he became NDS brother out of sudden, I don't think he has the position to reveal the truths anymore as NDS just kick him out of the picture, now it's between Grandma or NDS, although I find it's better if all three can sit together to give DM a clearer picture when they reveal the truth.

If DM find the truth herself, it'll be more hurtful for her.
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
But DM doesn't even know that HJP is the person who wrote her those letters nor HJP claming it's his & HJP hasn't pursue DM romantically yet, if anything, he is even avoiding her instead, lol.
And using DS name is a disavantage for HJP. None of this will need to happen if he use his real name. DM won't even get to meet NDS.
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
My problem with his character the most is how despite his knowing that he is benefiting from someone else's background, he keep choosing to went pursuing her while still using that background. So yes, the lies better come out soon, if they want to built a believable relationship between NDS & SDM & make people root for them, it shd be based on truths & fair ground. Giving them all romance scenes while still keeping the lie in background is pointless & will do nothing to viewer's heart.
Replying to alexleviste Nov 14, 2020
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OKAY GUYS. The real endgame has been released: https://www.facebook.com/113556619185763/posts/853205741887510/?d=n
Lol! That's so cute x'D omg
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
No there's not. It's the writer who choose to portray NDS character as a kind living buddha but write him do things the opposite, so you can blame it on the writer's inconsistencies writing instead of viewers.

HJP character was written more consistent thus people find him easier to relate & they can understand him better, but that doesn't equally mean they give him excuses, that's a total different thing.
Replying to Dreamy Nov 14, 2020
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I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him…
I don't think so, because the lie itself is not the main problem here, but the reason behind the lie & how they use it for their own merits is the thing what matters and that's where people find NDS character hard to relate or hard to root for especially when they wrote him acted out of character from the supposed to be "the kind of living buddha" as per they said, he do questionable things I don't think "the kind of living buddha" will do.
Replying to Amruta1009 Nov 14, 2020
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I don't agree with people excusing Ji Pyung or any character's actions by using their background/backstory as…
I don't think people here gives him excuse though, but his background gives people more ground to understand him better. Just like in real life, kids who live as an orphan and grow without parents tends to be more independent and bitter as a person than kids who grow up with a full loving & complete parents, as simple as that.
Replying to alexleviste Nov 14, 2020
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Why are some of you guys mad that we are discussing the flaws of a character here. I mean, this is a drama- and…
Ikr, lol, it's ongoing drama, we're giving our opinions & feedbacks as it's ongoing idk why that's a problem. Especially when we give & describe our reasons to discuss & explain why some can't agree with the character's choice, their perspective and so on, so it's not baseless. Giving opinions are always okay as long people stay civil.

What baseless is if people can't accept other people's opinion, but instead of giving their own perspective with reason, they spread butthurt comments instead, which adds nothing to the discussion, forgetting the purpose of this comment section is not for blindedly praising the drama or characters only.

I myself liking the fact that the comment section is active, even better full with essays, with that, the wait for their next ep release is more bearable to me :)))
Replying to Dreamy Nov 13, 2020
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Even with that, still Do San has lost the integrity I find any ML shd be having to be able for me to root for…
Yes I agree, getting back to NDS on the last ep as she figures her feelings is just as cliche as they can possibly get, lol. I hope DM know her feelings well & decide soon. Please no back and forth between them two & leave them hanging. This love triangle shd be ended soon so they can focus more on the plot, their start up as very well their journey. I want to see more sismance too between DM & In Jae.
Replying to feltsmandy Nov 13, 2020
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by the still cuts pf tomrrows ep it doesnt seem like SDM will find out the truth in ep 9 or 10 again and if thats…
Imma flipping tables if that happens, gaawwdd
Replying to Dreamy Nov 13, 2020
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Even with that, still Do San has lost the integrity I find any ML shd be having to be able for me to root for…
Just want to correct something though, grandma is the one who ask HJP to find the real NDS & impersonate him, while HJP also can't expose himself as her penpal because DM's pride & hope is on the line after her bluffed since In Jae already know HJP identity.
He'd probably will reveal the truth if NDS doesn't came at the party & decided to prolong the lies (by giving her his number, and convinced HJP that the only problem would be only him not being a hot shot as per letters so they only need to work on that) after being smitten with DM that night, though.
Replying to Dreamy Nov 13, 2020
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Even with that, still Do San has lost the integrity I find any ML shd be having to be able for me to root for…
Yup, I hope Dalmi will really find out the truth by next ep, true that she's not a baby anymore, she has mature & she deserve to choose her partner wisely.

I'll be very upset if the lie being out in the open as per preview suggested is just another fake out like someone here mention (it might be DS dream, or else) & DM just gloss HJP handwriting similiarity over like for another couple ep & the truth will only be revealed on the last few ep, arghh, that would be so nervewrecking to see.
Replying to Dreamy Nov 13, 2020
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Even with that, still Do San has lost the integrity I find any ML shd be having to be able for me to root for…
It can be eitherway, DM find the truth herself & confronts NDS or the opposite. But what bothers me the most is the phrase NDS saying from the preview when she ask him why "I don't want to see you cry", it's a total BS answer & just a big fat excuse coming from him.

Tbh, I like NDS character at the start, nerdy character is my cup of tea tbh, but I like his character lesser & lesser esp when he's acting out of character with how determine he is to get DM for himself no matter how wrong his way is & keep touching her using someone else background to his advantage, with that he lost his integrity, and with how they make him a Yes mam person when he is with Dalmi, to me he just lost his charm as well as he lost his personality over Dalmi, that's why I can't see the chemistry between them either, unlike her with HJP, there's bantering and it make the scene more lively & show their sparks.

Tbh, I don't get why the writer make NDS character like this if she intend to make NDS-DM as her end game.
Replying to Dreamy Nov 13, 2020
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No one ever said that HJP is not at fault, we acknowledge that all three are at fault. But there's a BIG difference…
So I guess you still can't see my point then. NDS is already crossing his lines by taking advantage on Dal Mi feelings, HJP has not. The lie is not the main point here, but the intention, to manipulate her feelings is.

Sure, ofc DM is the one who shd decide whom she prefers. But the writer is the one who responsible to make her choice is believable or not for the viewers to root for, but so far, her writing on NDS character is unfavoring for him thus many people can't buy NDS-SDM pairing nor find their relationship will ever last.