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I think it all comes down to the languages those posters post. If they've phrase their comments in a way that's caring without putting xukai down then other xukai's fans wouldn't react so badly. I agree though we should all calm down as this is a xukai fan page, let post more positive things about him ^^

The message is nobody is perfect, the same with the mother. And the parents are not always right as this drama highlight how wrong this mother was as she drove away her daughter because of how controlling she was. Different audiences see differently i suppose due to the different culture and upbringing asians probably are more receptive to this drama as they can relate to their own disfuntional family. In my opinion both mch and her brother are too perfect, in the real world children wouldn't be that obedient and would rebel and acting out as a result the mother's imperfection got highlight even more.

Thanks for sharing the english translation of his interview. I hope for xukai's mother full recovery from her illness. He's a good boy and a filial son, i can tell he loves his parents very much from the way he talks about them.

Nothing is wrong that a good rest won't cure. He looks exhausted from overwork as he worked all year and have very little time for rest. His last drama was filmed mostly at night so he didn't get enough sleep, i seen him with eyes like that before, so i hope he will take a long break before filming for his new drama. Also why do you keep insisting there's something wrong with xukai, i have seen other actresses and actors who are much more unhealthy with how skinny they were in the gq event but you only notice xukai.
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I seen his photos when he was a model so i know what i'm talking about. He was extremely skinny as a teenager while he was working as a model. And let not point finger and blame on the actress just because they worked together. He could've been ask to lose weight for those dramas, his weight is fine in snow eagle lord and sword and fairy 6 and those two dramas have lots of action scenes, and as i remembered he once said the director asked him to lose weight on wonderland of love, but even then when they were doing an interviewed while they were filming he was eating because he said he was hungry while jing tian didn't eat anything. So how do you know, it could've been the other way around and xukai has a positive influence on jingtian because later on after wonderland of love aired jingtian was seen eating along with xukai when they were doing an interview.

Then you haven't seen how skinny he was when he was a model. I will be alarm when he don't have enough strengths to do action scenes, doing action scenes require having muscular strength and endurance. Xukai does his own action scenes and as a result he needs to build up his strength by eating and keep up a healthy physics, otherwise it's easy to get injured if you don't have upper body strengths, that's why he's building up his muscle and eating more healthy.

If he's as weak as you said he wouldn't last in this industry as he's constantly attacked and mocked. Xukaì is a strong person, and the many videos of xukai eating prove you wrong.

And how many years were those dramas filmed, a person is allow to age. Why are you insisting on him staying like his younger self, maybe all xukai wants is to look older and more mature as he age. Also loss in kunlin moutain has lots of action scenes, xukai does his own action scenes in all his dramas, so he could loss weight because of overworked. Also if you look at some videos of him you would always see him eating, xukai is not trying to lose weight or starving himself as you said.

If you know xukai started his çareer as a model then you would've know how skinny he was then. In term of his looks he gains and loses weight all the time, and models are the group of people who are the most likely to have weight issue as they're require to look skinny to fit with the standard. I'm glad xukai is an actor and not just a model who has to go by their looks only. As he has just finished filming a drama so it's understandable if he looks tired and exhausted as he has to film very late and has very little sleep. Xukai also participated in variety shows and he looks like he's enjoying himself, so not understanding where all your negativìty comes from but it's misplaced.

I wouldn't go so far as to call it mentally abuse but i do gets what you're saying. I think the problem come down to mch and her brother were such good kids so the mother problem got highlighted more as the mother has such a strong personality. They would usually avoid confrontation with their mother and keeping secret from her rather than letting her know their troubles. How many mothers in their moments of anger come at you with those phrase about raising you and gave birth to you, or guilt tripping you i don't think only this mother does it, that's why this drama can be relatable for many people, everyone has issue and nobody is perfect as this drama portrayed the mom.

I think the reason most likely is because the property was run down and wasn't worth much as it's in the country compare to their property in the city. I remember her parents were saying they will sell their house once they have the money from the house they're living in and giving it to mch as her dowry and they move to live in a smaller place so it wasn't because they're poor and destitute but because she wants her daughter to have a good marriage and it not just because he's rich but because he also loved her. The problem with his family and not with him, is what the mother is thinking and she didn't mind being look down on if her daughter can marry well.

What do you mean by that, like i said he has been working nonstop so he has loss some weight. Once he has some rest he will gain back his weight. He's not starving himself and is trying to build up muscles so why are you so focus on his looks so much.

I don't think she's abusive beside that one time she slapped her daughter, and she instantly regretted it, but agree she was too controlling. Good thing she finally change towards the end and becomes more relax.

Is this mom bad i don't think so, beside that time she was forcing her daughter into a marriage she didn't want in which she eventually apologized. Other than that she's a much better mom than those who neglected their own kids. I have seen worse moms, those who physically and emotionally abused their children so this is not the worse mom character.

I think what he loss is some baby fat and he looks more mature as he age. Also did you see his training video, he's trying to build up muscle, so what do you mean by saying he loses muscle mass. And i don't agree with you, xukai was gorgeous in bce.

Xukai has always been charming so that hasn't change whether he loss some weight or gain some weight. He has started to working out to build up muscle and i do think he look a bit skinnier as he loss some baby fat. As for your original comment about his look, he looks older and more mature and i don't see anything wrong with him beside being exhausted from overwork. That's why i hope he will have a long break and from seeing his activities and him doing more variety shows he will have times to do the things he want to do before he going back to filming. And he will gains his weight back no worry about that since xukai is a food lover.

He has been working nonstop so he must be tired and he also looks a bit skinnier but once he's back home he will gain back some weight. Let hope xukaì will have a long rest before he goes back to filming his new drama. Although if he gains some weight all those critics will fat shamed him again, it's a vicious cycle.

Oh that force kiss, it was from their first meeting and she apologized. He's not a child but an adult who knows what he wanted. They had an arrangement that he pretend to be her faked husband and he went into it willingly because he want to escape his mother meddling in his affair. He could go back to his house after they got together since his mother didn't approve of her, but he chose to stay with her, so that's his choice and has nothing to do with her.

I don't remember him being sexually or physically assauted by her. Also her lying about her marriage status and asked him to posed as her fake husband is what led to them having an arranged marriage for convenient as he also needs her to escape his mother's meddling in his personal life. She's a beautiful woman so it's not that hard to see why someone like him who is not very experienced in love would fall for a more experienced older woman.

Agree 💯 ^^