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Jojo Nov 16, 2025
Oof! Sounds like the worst kind of painful for me to get through. Thanks for the review!
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Replying to gatalito Nov 16, 2025
Hi! I would suggest to watch the director's cut the version that is 3 hours and 38 minutes which depicts better…
Thanks! I will look for it! ^^

I did feel bad that he was brought up in an isolated, cold manner. Certainly not the way to raise an emotionally healthy individual. Where I had a problem with him, not just from this film but also reading about and watching other versions of this story, was his torture of servants through the years. Not just when he was young, but also in Manchukuo where it was a daily routine. Those servants were basically imprisoned as well. One that tried to escape was beaten to death. He was horrible to his wife Wan Rong and she died a terrible death. Like many elite of any country, he was unaware of the suffering of (or didn't care about) those below him and until the re-education camps he suffered no real consequences for his behavior. The system may have created the monster, but that would be small comfort to his victims.
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Replying to PeachBlossomGoddess Nov 11, 2025
Review Little Q
Sounds like a dog's breakfast. Definitely don't want to watch Simon Yam play this kind of character.
He was of course redeemed into a loving caring man in an instant quite literally. But watching the first 49 minutes was rage inducing.

Tyvm for the gift. 🦋💕
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Replying to noona Nov 7, 2025
Goodness I've been waiting forever to watch this with eng subs. Why in the world would a streaming service only…
Totally agree. I checked both versions and couldn’t find anyway to watch with the original language. The dubbing wasn’t as bad as some. Small comfort. 🙄
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Replying to 14785924 Nov 4, 2025
Review Oasis
Hi, I was visiting the page of Oasis because I thought about it randomly because it's one of my favorite films…
I appreciate your thoughtful and kind comments. 😊

I had given thought to much of what you said as I was watching and upon reflection. All of us come to entertainment with different life experiences and views. Too often in my life have I heard that a raped woman should “just get over it” or “rape is like rain, you can’t stop it so you might as well enjoy it.” Even with women’s groups reminding people that rape isn’t about sex it’s about power and violence.

So while I get that she was desperately lonely and isolated, I think the story would have made more sense without the violation, especially on someone who had zero ability to defend herself or even call for help. He knew what he was doing was wrong by his words and responses. He didn’t lack control around her again. For me, the act came with too much societal baggage of acceptance of sexual violence against women and minimizing it. She did indeed get over it rather quickly regardless of her situation showing that sexual assault isn’t much of a mental and emotional violation (as well as a physical one) nor a loss of any sense of personal agency and sense of security. It was a bridge I could not cross in
this film.

I know this was just my perspective as I’ve read glowing reviews of this film and no one else seemed to be as bothered by it. I can see where this film would be a favorite of yours. It called out ableism in a gritty, often realistic manner. Without the problematic scene, I would have rated it much higher.

Thank you again for sharing your viewpoint, it was well thought out and presented. 🙏🏻
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Replying to PeachBlossomGoddess Oct 28, 2025
Terrific review as always. I will forever think of you when I see butterflies and Godzilla.🥂
We all have our niche! 😄🦋🦖tyvm 🌸💕
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Replying to The Butterfly Oct 24, 2025
Actually that’s why 99% of them are on this list. I don’t care for their acting. I’m fully aware some people…
I have lists for actresses, actors, and supporting actors
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Replying to Joyce_Tyler Oct 24, 2025
Your list has nothing to do with your targets' acting talent so I'm out.
Actually that’s why 99% of them are on this list. I don’t care for their acting. I’m fully aware some people love their acting. This is my personal list made up of my preferences. I do need to remove the rapists as I’ve created a list just for those types. Thanks for the reminder.
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Replying to Kate Oct 20, 2025
The thing is, the drama was such a sandwich. First half and last episode were all about female friendship, chasing…
Already put it in my NI list with a note to see your review if I’m tempted. 😁
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