monstersnroses

DramaTears has just explained to me what the struggle session is for, because that profile has a high chance of being a bot. So I owe you a big apology

*****I AM SO SORRY I AM AN ASSHOLE, I WAS WRONG, YOU WERE RIGHT*****

And I will leave our conv and my apology up to prove that I'm entirely willing to make myself look like an idiot as a way of being sorry for not understanding the full picture. Unless you'd rather me take the conv down... in which case I will. Up to you.

Again, I am a moron and I'm very sorry. I had no idea this kind of thing happens with shows when they air where you have to deal with bot-campaigns and "fan wars". I have never heard of such shit, but it makes sense.

That's instant karma, where I'm like "Id be embarrassed if I were you" and then immediately was embarrassed by what I said to you!!!! Shit man lol....

omg thank you so much for a normal-person answer.... I take back everything I said, but I'll leave it up so other people can see that answer you just gave me.

Now it all makes sense to me... I really appreciate you taking the time to ELI5. I am sorry I went off without knowing the full story.

Do you think that user is a bot or something? I think their profile looks normal enough, they just make subjective reviews with shit-takes on stuff they don't like. Is there more to this that I'm not getting?

I think it's worth more than a 1 too, but why would you go through and try to struggle session someone just because you don't agree with the way they rated it?

I would love it if you *could* counter it. It sucks that some superfans of some shows are so rude and mean. I just don't think that people who act like you guys, making personal attacks on others simply for their opinion of a show, should come to expect that you can just say whatever you want about whoever you want without any pushback.

You can say whatever you want, i cant and wouldn't stop you.... but if you are gonna say whatever you want about whoever you want, then so will I. And my opinion is that I can't believe you're not embarrassed to act that way, because I would be. Just sayin.

Yeah youre pretty relaxed about calling people pathetic huh. You just don't want to be called out for what you're doing and I don't blame you.

Go ahead and open it. It's public, i'm just some rando like everyone else. Why call people pathetic just because they don't agree with you about a show you liked? What does it matter to you what other people thought of it. All that should matter to you is what YOU thought of it. I don't get it.

Ew! OK thx <3

Can someone spoil me on what happened to the FL that she didn't end up going to the same school as ML?

You don't think maybe it's equally pathetic to care that much about 0.2 points difference on an MDL page for a show you like to the point where you'd insult people personally over it? Justwhy.

I wonder the same thing about people who get up in someone else's business just because they have a different opinion of a drama than you. I never have understood why someone else's opinion of a show should bother you enough that you'd call them out and try to put them through a struggle session over it. I haven't gotten past ep 3 yet, so i don't know if I like this drama or not, but this attitude on MDL that some crazed fans get for certain shows is such a turnoff.... and frankly it immediately makes me suspicious that a show isn't all that when the fans are mean and crazed and up in other people's faces over what they percieve as wrongthink.

Why are people like this?

Best chemistry imo:
My Fated Boy
Falling Into You
ELOD
Amidst a Snowstorm of Love
Her Private Life
Que Sera Sera
SOKP
TTEOM
LLTG
Lesson in Love
The Crush
Embrace In The Dark Night
My Supervisor Husband
My Lethal Man
CRAZY love
Love To Hate You

Me: Explains projection, cites reputable sources, breaks down concepts using easy to follow logic

You: Nuh-uh

But please do go on about who is making a fool of themselves....

From Psychology Today's website:

"Projection is the process of displacing one’s feelings onto a different person, animal, or object. The term is most commonly used to describe defensive projection—attributing one’s own unacceptable urges to another. For example, if someone continuously bullies and ridicules a peer, the bully might be projecting his own struggle with self-esteem onto the other person.

"Unconscious discomfort can lead people to attribute unacceptable feelings or impulses to someone else to avoid confronting them. Projection allows the difficult trait to be addressed without the individual fully recognizing it in themselves.

"An example of projection would be the following: A married man who is attracted to a female coworker, but rather than admit this to himself, he might accuse her of flirting with him."

Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/projection

See, what I'm pointing out is that you're calling XW toxic, but actually you are displaying toxic behavior. So you can see it in XW, but you have no self-awareness of likewise being toxic yourself.

> lol you have no clue what projection is your vaguely describing hypocrisy but that doesn't even apply stay in high school kid

What's awesome about that comment, is you actually demonstrated projection AGAIN, while arguing that I don't know what it is! Projection IS a form of hypocrisy. So, if you want to also consider your behavior hypocritical, I have no problem with that at all.

Like I was saying, please go ahead and try to explain why my username is projection. Oh, that's right you can't, because it's not.

You're fun.

seen anything good lately?

>LMAO again "monstersandroses"

Because facepalming once wasn't enough for you....

Let me help you out. "Projection" is when you make an observation about the world around you, that really is about yourself.

You called ML toxic, but that was funny because then you proceeded to share your shitty take of SoKP fans and call them pathetic. Which is toxic. So that was 'projection'.

I made my username 'mosntersnroses'. Pray tell, o clever one, where that involves an observation about my outside world that is actually about myself. I'll wait.

> pwned never heard of that one

Ah yes, the interwebs is such a strange and mysterious place... 😂

I've never wanted selective amnesia so much in my entire life as I do for this drama so I can watch it again for the first time.

*sigh...*

Salty!

Talk about the drama all you want. Talk about the people who liked it and get pwned.

> Doesn't like drama because toxic ML

> Makes toxic af comment about it

😂😂😂😂😂😂 How awesome. Projection is such a bitch, eh.

Same. Still nothing comes close for me.