I think the biggest thing that bothers me the most about this episode is the LL doesn't trust her husband. That…
I also think that WSD might be the real dad. You make a good point about the scene where he came home all upset, perhaps he did learn something about TT's parentage at the school reunion.
My thoughts on LL is that I think more so than not trusting her husband she's disappointed. I can understand how she might feel humiliated, and also he was avoiding eye contact with her so he didn't share his plans with her or even explain himself to her. If he knew something about TT he should have let her know. I always got the sense their marriage was a bit one sided even if RXZ does genuinely love LL.
LL lets a lot of things slide and RXZ is barely affectionate (he's not very good at showing his feelings). When you tolerate that for years and years and then have something like this dumped on you its very hurtful and a lot of buried things she has in her heart is probably resurfacing. Her feelings shouldn't come last to him, LL's feelings should be a priority to RXZ.
He could have deescalated that situation in a different way than sharing something publicly that was going to shatter his wife and son. But I also tend to be biased towards siding with women :p haha
Which is why I find RTZ such a refreshing character. He is such a green flag in terms of men. He treats TT so well and bought his mom a gift on his dad's behalf on the anniversary episode!
When RTZ told TT he loved her stinky feet with all his heart and he's going to make up for her not having a family growing up my heart shattered at how sweet he is. I wish I could preserve that moment in time for those two forever. :(
Ok I had to stop at 20:51 mark of today's episode..... Why did this drama get all dark and ominous all the sudden?…
It was a hard one to watch, my blood pressure was spiking towards the 20 min marker and onwards :s
I feel sad and dissapointed at the turn of these events... I can literally see pieces of LQ's soul being destroyed by all these things he's doing. Completely irrational and out of control at this point.
What a mess....... I absolutely felt for LL and her mom because they are heartbroken (they have such a special bond)
Before the episode got so f'ed up the moments between TT and RTZ were so sweet. I think one of the sweetest couples I've ever seen. RTZ loves her so much, all I could think at the time was 'we have to protect these two at all cost'. And then at the end of the episode look at where we are.....
I really feel for TT because now she's going to have to deal with being a 'wedge' in her masters family, not to mention her relationship to RTZ all of a sudden changing so dramatically. Such a mess.
Can we have a separate series with STT and RTZ pls....without the other side characters :')
Honestly I was also thinking the same. I could watch a whole series of those two date, get married, raise a family, bicker lol. I am here for a series (+the RXZ family).🥲😂
I like scrolling through comments about the drama, but most of these should have been put on SPOILER, because…
My perspective on comments is that, currently 32 episodes have aired. So its fair game to talk about anything that happened from episode 1- 32 openly (because its already aired). Otherwise anything from episode 1 to now can be labelled as a spoiler depending on where people are at with the drama.
Episodes 33 - 40 speculations should be labelled as spoilers. Plus a lot of people have watched clips of future episodes so those should be marked as a spoiler as well.
My rule of thumb is that I usually avoid comment section until I am caught up on the latest episodes🤷🏽♀️ . Of course people may have different opinions on this.
I know, I'm really dissapointed in his character. His friends have helped him out so much... and it just seems like he never appreciates it and has this constant "everything is so unfair in my life" attitude.
He needs to be firmer with his parents. I get that it is unfair in some societies that only people with connections get jobs. And I get that TT now has the privilege of focusing on her studies because her other needs are cared for. But if his overall attitude towards everything is poor, that is going to make things even worse. He already has a lot going for him with the education he has and the pharmaceutical job he has. Its up to him to make something of himself in an ethical way.
Oh yes! It's really interesting that you said that because that just reminded me of a scene from the episode that stumped me a bit.
TT asked RTZ, "you and MM were together so often, and you didn't notice anything?" and his face looked contemplative and he hesitated. I was wondering what he was thinking there. Perhaps it was recalling things a bit differently, or maybe since he thought of her so strongly as a sister he felt bad about how he acted around her knowing her condition now (knowing he must have made it even harder for her with the physical affection he was showing).
Hmm… but she also said it herself she even wanted to have sex with tian zhen… she really had sex addiction…
Agreed @EmmalineZhang, also when her mom explained what was happening to RTZ I think she didn't get into too much detail and RTZ said that was totally normal. When he was watching the video MM had sent them he labelled it as sex addiction and as a medical practitioner he would know the signs. I think she might have been sneaking out at night which is why they installed cameras.
My thoughts on LL is that I think more so than not trusting her husband she's disappointed. I can understand how she might feel humiliated, and also he was avoiding eye contact with her so he didn't share his plans with her or even explain himself to her. If he knew something about TT he should have let her know. I always got the sense their marriage was a bit one sided even if RXZ does genuinely love LL.
LL lets a lot of things slide and RXZ is barely affectionate (he's not very good at showing his feelings). When you tolerate that for years and years and then have something like this dumped on you its very hurtful and a lot of buried things she has in her heart is probably resurfacing. Her feelings shouldn't come last to him, LL's feelings should be a priority to RXZ.
He could have deescalated that situation in a different way than sharing something publicly that was going to shatter his wife and son. But I also tend to be biased towards siding with women :p haha
Which is why I find RTZ such a refreshing character. He is such a green flag in terms of men. He treats TT so well and bought his mom a gift on his dad's behalf on the anniversary episode!
I feel sad and dissapointed at the turn of these events... I can literally see pieces of LQ's soul being destroyed by all these things he's doing. Completely irrational and out of control at this point.
I feel disappointed.
Before the episode got so f'ed up the moments between TT and RTZ were so sweet. I think one of the sweetest couples I've ever seen. RTZ loves her so much, all I could think at the time was 'we have to protect these two at all cost'. And then at the end of the episode look at where we are.....
I really feel for TT because now she's going to have to deal with being a 'wedge' in her masters family, not to mention her relationship to RTZ all of a sudden changing so dramatically. Such a mess.
Episodes 33 - 40 speculations should be labelled as spoilers. Plus a lot of people have watched clips of future episodes so those should be marked as a spoiler as well.
My rule of thumb is that I usually avoid comment section until I am caught up on the latest episodes🤷🏽♀️ . Of course people may have different opinions on this.
He needs to be firmer with his parents. I get that it is unfair in some societies that only people with connections get jobs. And I get that TT now has the privilege of focusing on her studies because her other needs are cared for. But if his overall attitude towards everything is poor, that is going to make things even worse. He already has a lot going for him with the education he has and the pharmaceutical job he has. Its up to him to make something of himself in an ethical way.
TT asked RTZ, "you and MM were together so often, and you didn't notice anything?" and his face looked contemplative and he hesitated. I was wondering what he was thinking there. Perhaps it was recalling things a bit differently, or maybe since he thought of her so strongly as a sister he felt bad about how he acted around her knowing her condition now (knowing he must have made it even harder for her with the physical affection he was showing).
- In epsiode 30 RTZ asked TT to give him a kiss, he said it casually. Did we miss (was not shown) their first kiss?
Not excusing the parents behaviour AT ALL.