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Also, just for the future: discussions with people you disagree are never waste of time. Even if you won't come to agreement at the end, you will learn a lot about other people opinions and you also accumulate the skill to better defend yours. On one of my university classes we spent about 30 minutes discussing different types of bread and whenever it tastes the same. The topic was pointless for psychology major like myself, but the process was a great exercise.
If you are not willing to defend your opinion, then what's the point of even sharing it? I did not create any situation, as I was not the one making the 1st comment. You need to learn how to question other people opinion that you don't agree with without calling them names.
I mean... you are shading REAL people in defense of fictional drama...
Many people complained not because the ending was unrealistic (since NOTHING about this drama is. The main hero is robot which may never be created. not anytime soon anyway). People complain coz the ending did not make much sense for the universe WRITERS themselves created. The drama was AMAZING, so this kind of last episode... it's just disappointment. I am even willing to say lazy writing at it's finest. the last 10 minutes was literally a big f you to the audience. They went with: we don't know how to make a believable happy ending with good explanation to everything so let's skip one year later and just show result.
The good comments are about how emotional the ending was, and yes I agree it was. But this does not change the fact it did not make any sense.
" wonder how lonely, miserable and empty those ppl's lives must be" without people stating their criticism by now we would have such a shitty movies and dramas it's crazy. The only way to make sure future dramas will not make the same mistakes is by sharing them. What's the point of even having ratings if you are not suppose to give the bad ones? if everything is said to be 10/10 then just get rid off the system.
You say you worked as DSS for 25 years so you must be at least 38. But then on your page you said you already retired so you must be obviously older. For someone as old as you and who had background in working with troubled people you have zero to none patient. You assumed I am EXTREMELY young and yet in stead of explaining your opinion in a calm way you went straight to 'IN YOUR FACE' tactic.
For me the situation is simple: there are people who are in problem and while seeking help make mistakes (and I have no problem with them) and there are people who do nothing to change their situation and by this they hurt people around them, and if they are grown adult (honestly anyone over 20 years old. this whole 'people in their 20' are still young so they should be excused when they make mistakes' notion is not good) I don't sympathize that much with. I guess we have different priorities. You obviously focused on parents in this scenario, I focused on kids. By acting like they do they are hurting their children, and since we haven't seen any indication they even tried to seek help... The fact that they are not as good and decent people as you make them to be is showed in the scene when Joo Hyuk is in the bar and all his does is complain about how his wife when his friend says his situation at home is the same and that majority of people are like that and he should be more understanding.
I literally watched 2nd ep just to be sure this drama is going the way I think it is. And sadly I was right. Cha Joo Hyuk LITERALLY does not give a crap about his kids. He didn't even 2nd guess himself before he changed his present time to not be with Woo Jin which would result in his kids never being born. This is EXACTLY why I think he is NOT a good person. And this is exactly why I liked Go Back Couple. In that drama the kid was priority and it had HUGE influence on the characters and their motivations which make sense SINCE THEY ARE PARENTS. In this one kids are non existing, created only for the purpose to make main leads life a hell and in their actions they never think of the kids 1st. I guess I would empathize with Seo Woo Jin a bit more since we don't know what would be her reaction to basically losing her kids and from the preview we won't get that for quite some time.
I never said this drama does not created realistic description of a troubled family. I said the characters are unlikeable, which they are. Up till now they did not showed almost any good character traits. It's realistic. And I still don't like them.
Being overworked is not excuse to the shit they were pulling off, not in front of the kids. They are adults, they see that whatever kind of system they have is clearly not working, they should change it. They don't even try to communicate. Especially Seo Woo Jin. Does not listen and just screams. Joo Hyuk is too unresponsive . It's one thing when you try to fix the problem but the solutions just don;t work, and there is a different story when you don;t do anything to make the situation better. And for them it's even making the situation worse. They are not teenagers that got pregnant and now need to face reality. They have 2 kids. Seeing how the live I can easily assume life wan't easy for them even when they had just one child. Why they decided to have 2nd is beyond me.
I am not talking from some idealistic kids mind. I am basing my opinion on them after years of studying clinical psychology and seeing what this kind of environment can do to poor kids. I would appreciate if you would be less passive-aggressive in your comment when you know nothing about the person who wrote it.
It actually fits the plot. IF they will make is as similar to webtoon as possible she is suppose to look older, more mature and it will be part of the plot when people will keep comparing her mature sexy vibes to fresh and innocent Soo Ah.
I myself wasn't too happy about the casting BUT after I read the webtoon I could see why Soohyang fits the role perfectly.
Basically if they will follow what happened in the webtoon he will literally only like her for her face at the beginning. And he will not care if it's 'fake' and not natural. In webtoon he is quite annoying tbh, so I hope they will change him a bit like they did with Kyungsuk character.
IF the doctor did not work with them it's literally IMPOSSIBLE he would not know nam shin was not in coma. I don;t have medical training but I would be able to confirm is someone is or is not in coma lol There is not way the doctor would be fooled. If the physiological reactions are suspicious (and they would be since you can't control majority of them) easy 'pain' test would do. you pinch someone hard. If they react: they are not in coma.