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I mean just ask yourself: would you rather have an unwanted small tattoo your back, or be killed?
You still need to understand that this situation was 100% normal thing in that era. it was NOT wring for him to sleep with other woman to have a child, if his wife can;t have one. In our times it's definitely seen as immoral, but back then it was just a normal thing that just happens.
Obviously he had his arms open is a 'passive' way. Since he did not, as I said, acted on him feeling UNTIL Sharon abandon him. The moment she said she is not his wife and sent Boon Yi instead when the moment he had NO obligation to be loyal to her anymore. She gave him up 1st. After that, I see no logical reason why he should still reject Boon Yi and live alone on the exile.
The biggest mistake was made by Baek Hee, if she did not switch the kids NONE of this would happen. And you are right, Soo Ho made some mistakes. But the decision Sharon made were not mistakes. You don't burn someone's face by mistake, you don't get someone else torture instead of you my mistake, you don't burn someone alive by mistake.
Women are sneaky while fighting over men, men are aggressive and violent while fighting over women. Why? Not because producers are assholes, but because it is REALITY. Both genders differ in their way of thinking and dealing with situations like that. Love triangle is a thing that will happen till the end of our days in dramas, and no matter what gender the 3rd wheel is they are shown as either cruel, psychotic, assholes or self-centered and egoistic. Same thing happens with female and male characters.
Sharon feelings are valid but they do not excuse her actions. Even before she met Soo Ho she was simply an egoistic bitch, who did not treat people of a lower social status than her as a human beings. She burned Boon Yi face not because she was hurt and jealous, but because she was spoiled and evil child. From the beginning, before the whole love story happened she was a bad character and I truly don't understand why people try to defend her. I love how evil and self-centered she is, that;s what makes her an interesting character. The fact that her 'love' fro Soo Ho is not really pure, and it;s more about herself and not them as a couple. We don't get truly evil female characters often so I am enjoying this ride like never. I hope she will be even worse in a future eps and I hope they will not give her some bullshit redemption story (which is in my eyes impossible, she killed people, what redemption lol).
It's true some dramas have lower budget (but the same goes for american shows), BUT some top dramas cost few milions to produce like a hit drama Descendants of the Sun which cost over 13 billion won (about $10.8 million) so saying we should appreciate the quality that was produced with little money is far from reality. Same goes for retaking scenes. When you watch some interviews actors often laugh about how they had to redo kissing scenes over 20 times to get the perfect scene. Same goes for all the other ones. The production quality and the time and effort put into Korean dramas and American shows is not that different so I don't see why we should judge them differently.
People here complain if there is something to complain about. if you go and see comments under better dramas like for example Signal, you will see that there are rarely any bad comments there. Some dramas just have major flaws. There is SO MANY good drama out there, pointing out the worse ones is not a bad thing. Sugarcoating something that is not as good as other is the way to turn people away from this culture. Someone checks comments under a drama that is really just 'meh' but sees all the compliments, gets his expectations high and after watching it get's disappointed. Would that person pick other drama up? Probably not. Directing people to the best quality dramas is the way to get them interested.
You said your wife has been watching dramas for years, so did I, I'm sure over 8 years now. I saw over 260 asian dramas (not only Korean), some were amazing to the point I rewatched them few times, some I barely finished and had to skip some scenes. Not every Korean drama is good. Some are pretty bad. Aftr all the hours I spent watching kdramas I think I get pretty good grip on what show is good and what show lacks in some aspects.
All the people taking part in drama production don't do it for free. That's their job, and viewers are the clients. They are the one to assess whenever they pulled the job off or not.
That said, wish you and your wife all the best and thank you for sharing your opinion with all of us.