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That's why I always wrote 'loved her' 'was in love with her' coz at the time of making those decisions that's how he felt. His feelings changed tho. That happens in life.
I truly don't understand how is Shi Hyun more awful in anyone eyes. Literally every bad thing was proposed or decided by Soo Ji. When they started to talk about 'working on Tae Hee' Shi Hyun literally said he is not interested, and why must they go that far, which Soo Ji said 'Why must I be the only one miserable'.
Sure Shi Hyun was the one that suggested marriage first but it's obvious it was because he could not stand the idea of being Soo Ji's 'brother' because he had feelings for her AND because of her initial reaction to the news. That's why just before he said it there was a close shot of him looking at Soo Ji's injured hand. If anything I believe he was scared what she might do, if the marriage between their parents happens. When she said 'what will you do if I end up taking everything from you like my mom intended?' and what he says? 'take it'. coz he is willing to literally do anything for her at that point. The idea was stupid, since he had no grasp on what marriage and divorce truly mean. That's true. But he was not ill intended while suggesting it. But he said 'take anything you want, you don't want divorce later that's fine too'. At the end he suggested it, but let the decision to make for Soo Ji herself.
also he went for the kiss, SHE was the one that turned it off saying 'forget it'. He wasn't backing out of it. She wanted to see if he was capable of kissing her but she didn't want to kiss him. She used this situation into making Shi Hyun help her with Tae Hee. What she basically said: show me how you feel but not with a kiss, seduce that high school girl Tae Hee for me then I will marry you'.
They are both not the best kind of people, but I believe out of the two Soo Ji is the 'worse' one. And it all comes from the fact she is not willing to confront her feelings. She wants everything but she is not willing to risk too much in the process.
And yeah I don't think Shi Hyun is as toxic as Soo Ji, but still he is not an angel and he did some bad shi*.
Liking those characters since they are interesting is perfectly fine, I enjoy them myself. But when I see people saying Soo Ji is awesome and goals... why? She is a bad person with some serious mental problems. How is she your goals?
As for the whole plot and the fact Shi Hyun is suppose to fall for Tae Hee all I can say is: it's a drama. If I was watching dramas for them to be realistic I would have NOTHING to watch hahaha
And for your 2nd comment: I agree they are trying to show the relationship in a more positive light, especially 5 and 6th ep are like that BUT I have problems with that. They already showed that the 'friendship' is not as innocent and positive, so the fact they no trying to be like 'nah, everything is cool'... pick one. You can't show emotional abuse and how obsessively dependent they are on each other for like 3 scenes and the rest is just them having fun and acting like nothing happened. There is lack of continuity in this trio and how they are shown. If we were watching some drama with older characters and there was one scene of husband hitting his wife, and all the rest would be them being all happy and 'helping' each other I would be just as annoyed. I feel like the writers want them to have this toxic relationship as a plot point but they know majority o audience is in their teens (15-to probably like 21 top) so they need to make it less then it is. They are trying to make easily 19+ story into 15+, and that's why it looks as it looks.
Anyway I really enjoy Shi Hyun and Soo Ji's interactions and I want more. Those are definitely better and more entertaining than the ones with Joy. But if this drama ever would go in the direction of Shi Hyun and Soo Ji being happy in a relationship with each other (without any SERIOUS help from the outside world, aka clinical one) I would rate this drama 3/10 at best coz the lack of realism I can accept has it's limits hahaha
, I could even see them technically helping each other out at this stage of their life <- this would work ONLY if one of them would already been past that stage and learn how to deal with emotions and would be able to teach the other one. Just the understanding is not enough. 2 alcoholics understand each other to, they understand why they drink and what they feel. Will thy stop drinking if they stay in that obsessive and closed to the rest of the world relationship? no. They can;t help each other because they have no idea how. She will understand why he have some aggression issues, he will understand why she has depression. none of them will know what to do about that.
THIS relationship has HUGE impact on how they will function in a world in the future. It's the last moment to truly fix their problems since the neuron connections in their brains and overall the cortical structures are still being developed. The longer they will wait to seek help the harder it will be for them to actually feel better.
Two dysfunctional people being in a relationship, having truth issues is the worst case scenario. Coz of they are together they will have no will nor motivation to even try to learn how to trust other people than each other and they will live in this obsessive world they created.
I can't say much more, since I don;t really know what you are basing your opinion on, but everything I learnt for the past few years why being clinical psychology and neuropsychology uni student tells me, this relationship is wrong.