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Replying to Kate Mar 13, 2025
I still cannot move on from yesterday's episode 😭The way Su Hyeon thinks he is gaining agency and going against…
just me talking about how scary Jae Min is 🀑
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On Secret Relationships Mar 13, 2025
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I still cannot move on from yesterday's episode 😭

The way Su Hyeon thinks he is gaining agency and going against Jae Min and his manipulation, when in fact he is doing exactly what Jae Min wants him to do is just crazy.

Jae Min was not that scared Su Hyeon might be a rival now because he knows Da On more or less moved on and does not have any feelings for him. He is not scared Su Hyeon will ever spill the tea about the contract, because he knows it would also ruin even a 0.0001% chance of Da On staying in contact with Su Hyeon (let's be real, everyone knows Da On would not be thankful to Su Hyeon for telling him the truth, he would just cut them both out of his life - it does not really matter who suggested the contract, they both agreed to it).

Now Jae Min's problem is our puppy best boi Seong Hyeon. So what he does? He instigates Su Hyeon to do something about it, by telling him about how close they are and how blind he is about it. He kills two birds with one stone - Da On will dislike Su Hyeon even more witnessing how aggressive he is towards Seong Hyeon, while also leaving Seong Hyeon as a mean to protect him from Su Hyeon.

That leaves Da On yet again alone. And that's when good hyung Jae Min shows up to care for him and help him deal with the situation. It would be so much easier to clear the situation between them about the rejected confession and move on from it, when Jae Min is the only person left in Da On's life.

WILD 🀯
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Replying to nefferson Mar 13, 2025
Damn, girl, you f killed me with that analysis. It was so spot on, i'm shaking
Local over-analyzer in action 🀣
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Replying to akuanna Mar 13, 2025
I just don’t get da on what's wrong with him. Why he can't be brave and defend himself and why he is afraid…
I don't know.. maybe because he literally saw him almost kill a dude in the past and he also can literally ruin his whole career whenever he want? πŸ€”
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Replying to Lin Mar 12, 2025
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You have put it perfectly together! This episode was so damn good!
skdjhfkjdfg I am so curious what is going to happen! πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯
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Replying to Lin Mar 12, 2025
You have put it perfectly together! This episode was so damn good!
The last scene... damn I want to rewatch it again 😭
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Replying to Lonely Bird Mar 12, 2025
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What about the last part because daon liked Kim to
yes, that was from the past when they were in university. All the last scenes in the drama are the flashbacks of the past, not the present.
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Replying to Kate Mar 12, 2025
I don't think he wants to be in a relationship with Da On, he wants Da On close and in his life tho. Relationship…
He does want to OWN Da On, and keeping him as friend is the easiest way - that's the calculative way he thinks. He wants to be the most important person for Da On. Which cannot happen if Da On likes someone else - because then his partner would take his place. He wants to isolate Da On from others and make sure he can only rely on him, but he does not want to risk potential break up in the future. So he keeps their relationship on this platonic friendship side. It's more of an obsession and want to possess, rather than love. It's not romance, so it cannot be viewed as such - it;s not about platonic or not, it;s about keeping Da On as his possession in any way possible.

He could just be a kind, supportive friend, even if that side of his personality is mere dissembly. < he CANNOT because he is a psychopath 🀑 He is not kind, he does not have much empathy. You look at his situation from a normal person perspective, but he is not normal.
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Replying to Lonely Bird Mar 12, 2025
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What about the last part because daon liked Kim to
yeah in the past, and then he almost killed the dude and left to a different country πŸ˜… I;d stop liking a guy like that FAST lo

The last part was literally flashback from the past.
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Replying to Honglou Meng Mar 12, 2025
Seriously... Who comes up with these plotlines?JaeMin is supposed to be this manipulative mastermind, who was…
I don't think he wants to be in a relationship with Da On, he wants Da On close and in his life tho. Relationship is too much of a risk for him coz they can break up and that would be the end, while keeping him around as friend is safe. He wants to won him and be with him - that's a huge difference.

He does not think like a normal person πŸ˜… For him it's easier to keep Da On in his life like they are now, while making sure he does not get close to anyone else. Not to mention - longer term relationships at some point would mean them living together, and I honestly think he knows he would not be able to fake his kind persona that much... 🀣
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Replying to Kate Mar 12, 2025
the whole who does Da On like. From what I understood since kind of episode 2. First Da On liked Jae Min. But…
how I understood the timeline of Da On's love interests and crushes and his feelings.
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Replying to Juju Mar 12, 2025
I LOVE the way you phrase and explain stuff (please write comments every episodeπŸ‘€). Seonghyeon is really the…
I cannot believe I am using my psychology degree to analyze korean short BLs when I don't even work in this field now 🀣🀣🀑
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On Secret Relationships Mar 12, 2025
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the whole who does Da On like.
From what I understood since kind of episode 2.

First Da On liked Jae Min. But it was just his crush and since Jae Min was this cool hyung and Jae Min never crossed the line to make Da On think he might have any feelings, it was left just as an unrequited love.

Then he met Su Hyeon in university and they started of hand out. Seeing how he understood he has no chance with Jae Min, he was able to slowly move on and started to have feelings for Su Hyeon.

Don't know if the beating up the dude happened before or after the contract, but both were the result of Jae Min seeing Da On likes Su Hyeon and trying to stop them from dating. Su Hyeon was an idiot because he did not see Da On likes him, he was sure he has feelings for Jae Min (which is not that dumb, I am sure Da On still had feelings for Jae Min at the beginning when he met Su Hyeon).

Then Su Hyeon left to US. Da On was left with just Jae Min supporting him, so naturally his feelings started to grow again. But with the rejected confession I guess he understood that no matter how much he wants Jae Min and likes him, it will never happen.

That's when we get Seong Hyeon being nice and carrying and SO loveable, Da On starts to have feelings for him.

It's not a lot tbh. The whole plot starts when Da On was in high school picking university and now working for quite some time in the company after graduation - that's years of life. Having 3 crushes is quite normal.
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Replying to Kate Mar 12, 2025
Can we talk about the last scene tho? Coz I cannot move on.The way Seong Hyeon truly switches from puppy to guard…
thoughts on the last scene of ep 5
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On Secret Relationships Mar 12, 2025
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Can we talk about the last scene tho? Coz I cannot move on.

The way Seong Hyeon truly switches from puppy to guard dog I cannot 😭
Also that moment when he puts Da On behind his back more - it was not a reaction to Su Hyeon threatening Da On, it was a reaction to Su Hyeon threatening harming Seong Hyeon. I think Seong Hyeon understand Da On is willing to put up with a lot to protect people he cares for, so him pushing him more behind his back was not only to protect him, but also a way to reassure him he does not have to give in and that Seong Hyeon is willing to stand up for him. That the threats do not work on him, and they should not on Da On.

But also Da On knows with Su Hyeon it's not just empty words, and he is in fact aggressive and dangerous. He truly is scared for Seong Hyeon safety. So his priority is to separate them, even if it means letting Su Hyeon in and letting Seong Hyeon go.

The way Su Hyeon grabbed Seong Hyeon collar, but the baby boy best boy did not move an inch! 😭
But then Da On remembered how Su Hyeon literally almost killed someone in the past and he decided to get between them. BUT ALSO THE FUCKING DIFFERENCE!

In the past when Da On told Su Hyeon to stop, he used force to push him away, not caring if he hurts him in the process. Coz all he cared about was just his anger.

And now Seong Hyeon does not lash out, just asks Da On not to leave - not because he is "choosing" a different man, but because he is scared for his safety. For Su Hyeon his feelings are the most important, for Seong Hyeon Da On's feelings and safety are priority. If he was the one to find Da On in that situation in the past, he would not beat the dude up, he would get Da On out of that situation first to make sure he is safe.
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On Secret Relationships Mar 12, 2025
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Milkshake and Puppy are everything I will die to protect them 😭 I am so happy they cleared the whole mess about saying Jaemin's name during the make out session 🀑 And Puppy turning into a Guard Dog full on protection mode πŸ”₯ But also that fucking last scene! Don't go Da-On-ah! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Both Toxic Oppa and Psycho are trash, just different flavor πŸ˜… I actually like Jae Min as a character. I feel like they did such a good job with portraying how manipulative trash is. It's in the details of how he behaves with others. Even "in private" he makes sure he is not "blamed" for anything - like the chat with the "friend" of Da On, how she made it clear he did not ASK him to find out anything, he had to verbalize he did it on his own.
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Replying to disneyboot9 Mar 10, 2025
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i totally agree with this, it couldve easily been shown a lot better in just 24/25 eps like hidden love and wifty!!…
I honestly do not understand why so many Chinese modern shows are around 30 episodes long, when more often than not they simply do not have enough content to fill that screen time πŸ₯²

But yes, the acting was perfect, and I think it's the first time in a Chinese modern show I have seen someone actually cut ties with their awful family. Usually the "forgive" approach is the one the writers go for.
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Replying to Wonda447 Mar 8, 2025
Yeah I hate the fact she was reduced to a "woman who stays in the kitchen type" This reinforces sexism.
Yeah... and they made it even worse in 2nd part from what I heard πŸ˜…
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Replying to Kate Mar 6, 2025
LONG comment - chaotic reactions as I watch episode 4 🀑
I think many will share the feels, especially about the last scene in the present timeline πŸ™ƒ
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Replying to niccci Mar 6, 2025
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Literally me this entire episode hahaI need Psycho to be exposed so badly! (love the codenames btw)
I cannot wait for Milkshake to find out how fucking fake Psycho is. But also, the fact he was able to hide his true self from Milkshake for YEARS... this is truly scary.
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