these are the new links:ree0:
ooo, yes! Thank you for sending me the new links!
femboys : https://www.mangaupdates.com/series?category=Cross-dressing+Male+Leadree0:
I already had the other two linked, just in a different section FSR ToT I put them together and added this one! Thank you!!!
Nice seeing you around, btw! Hope your uni is going well ^^
I was responding to you at 2AM, so I was delirious.potatocouch:
Ahahaha, very relatable xD
It's like she takes pleasure in making strong women submit to unworthy men. Thank you so much for the heads up. I would've hated sitting through a second of that. The drama's coming right off my watchlist.potatocouch:
Honestly, yeah... It was awful. Glad I was able to spare you the rage I sat through xD
Why couldn't the drama keep the same energy throughout?potatocouch:
I know right? Imagine if we could actually get nice things sometimes... *sigh*
one of the few couples in the enemies to lovers trope that are equals, and it's not an excuse to see the ML bully the FL.potatocouch:
Well, that definitely sounds better than I was thinking...
Admittedly, I almost dropped the drama at that point because I thought it was going to go the ML---> bullies FL routepotatocouch:
A like-minded individual.
That's my issue with the enemies-to-lovers trope in het romance, tbh, that 9.9/10 times, it's just an excuse to do "sexy" violence against women. And the woman just never holds a candle to the lvl of abuse the man puts her through. And I'm just exhausted of watching women get abused everywhere. Not sure if it still sounds like my cup of tea, but definitely not as bad as I thought, lol.
I guess I'm just jaded and distrustful of enemies-to-lovers tropes as well as any big-budget show that has a supposedly "strong" FL.
She almost beat up his dad after his dad made him cry XDpotatocouch:
That is pretty cute. Protective woman FTW
She's honestly the best CEO FL I've ever seen in a RRpotatocouch:
Same here!
And I'm also surprised that they didn't punish her at the end of it all! She actually got her happy ending with her man! We really are improving!
I knew you'd appreciate those! You finally got your forced kisses, and they were actually GOOD.potatocouch:
They were CRAZY GOOD!!!
The FL's AUDACITY is one of my favorite things about this dramapotatocouch:
Hands down! Probably the most audacious FL I've seen. ML was right to call her shameless!
But the way the ML kept squirming and sliding down in the seat so his girlfriend wouldn't see him was DELICIOUS.potatocouch:
BROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, yes... that was delicious, omg. And how he sighs in defeat when she manages to taunt them anyway?
Absolute 10/10 scene, as was the noncon pool scene. I'm also so grateful for the screenwriter, because hot damn that was crazy good!!
FL was such a boss in that scene. I love how she scared the other lady who was flirting with him off, and the way she threw off her coat before beginning the game???potatocouch:
Yesssss! This is what I mean with her being super protective and possessive! I love a FL to the rescue! ML is such a prince in peril, he doesn't put up a fight with anybody xD And yes, that jacket toss was so badass
There were a few interesting little things the drama neglected as it went on.potatocouch:
Yeah, such a shame!
Not only did we get forced kisses, I love that the drama didn't shy away from kisses in general. All the kisses were real and firmly on the lips. No dead fishes here.potatocouch:
This is true too!!! The kisses were super good! and omg were there SO many of them
I wish he started having more dreams about their past, then slowly started realizing the dreams were memories until it culminated in a big reveal at the end. It would've given him and the FL's current relationship a more natural progression, and we would've gotten the layered angst. The way they crammed it in at the very end was disappointing.potatocouch:
Yes, thooooo- they had the set-up right there, idk why they didn't utilise it! Instead, we got this sudden U-turn that came out of left field! AND THE ANGST!!! THINK OF THE ANGST!!
I think the drama kind of minimized the magnitude of that.potatocouch:
It definitely did! I disliked how they handled p much everything in regards to SFL and her relationship with ML. Everything was vague and unresolved.
Yeah, I realized that the farther I watched. I think his shift in attitude would've felt more gradual if they'd peppered in more dreams, and a slow realization that FL might be someone from his past.potatocouch:
That would've been awesome!! It kinda felt like everyone BUT him was interested in his past, lmfao xD
Why do RRs think the audience wants to see at least one traditional scene??potatocouch:
RIGHT?! Like, I'd blame it on the censorship, but there's no way they'd allow the rest otherwise so that can't be it! Why do they keep doing this, uuuuuuugh.
I usually find them with full audio on Dailymotion, Reelxia, or another app. It's more work, but it's worth it.potatocouch:
Valid, I respect that.
I've lost track of how many times I've heard "Lucid Dream" by Monogram in a vertical.potatocouch:
Lmfaaaoooo yes, I recognize it too! But there's also another kdrama romcom song that's in every vertical. I just don't watch enough kdramas to name it XD But also Trampoline - Shaed is in every single modern one for some weird reason ToT
Glad you enjoyed! It was definitely one of the better RRs I've seen, and probably the best modern day one.potatocouch:
It's also really high for me! Like, wow, the commitment was crazy! Made it to my top 10 list
Thanks for the amazing recc!!
And I'm just exhausted of watching women get abused everywhere.Arclei:
FATIGUED.
Not sure if it still sounds like my cup of tea, but definitely not as bad as I thought, lol.Arclei:
Fair enough. But also, you might be surprised. Wasn't sure it'd be my cup of tea either until she strung him up to that tree and whipped him back. Now it's one of my fav C-dramas.
I guess I'm just jaded and distrustful of enemies-to-lovers tropes as well as any big-budget show that has a supposedly "strong" FL.Arclei:
You and me both, man...
ML was right to call her shameless!Arclei:
Yup. He practically clutched imaginary pearls when he did it.
And how he sighs in defeat when she manages to taunt them anyway?Arclei:
That was SO CUTE. Did you peep the nose twitch? He's like an adorable bunny. Ugh, I've already rewatched some of my favorite scenes, but talking about the drama makes me want to experience it all over again.
Btw, the ML was so pretty. I loved his face. He reminds me of Win Win from the C-pop group WAYV.

They could be cousins. Anyway, I need this pairing to star in another RR ASAP.
ML is such a prince in peril, he doesn't put up a fight with anybody xDArclei:
He got in one or two kicks during that fight outside of his apartment door, but that was it. FL to the rescueeeeeee!
Yes, thooooo- they had the set-up right there, idk why they didn't utilise it!Arclei:
Great setups with poor execution are always tragic.
That would've been awesome!! It kinda felt like everyone BUT him was interested in his past, lmfao xDArclei:
Bahahaha! So true. His girlfriend would literally be like, "But we didn't go to the same high school, babe" and he'd be like, "Sssshhh sssshhhh. Can you make me those noodles I like?" XD Bro, be for real!
But also Trampoline - Shaed is in every single modern one for some weird reason ToTArclei:
The reason is: it's the sexy time song. That's when they always play it lol. Oh, and "Red" by Everyone Loves An Outlaw. It never fails. If verticals actually paid for copyright, they'd owe Monogram, Shaed, and Everyone Loves An Outlaw millions of dollars.
It's also really high for me! Like, wow, the commitment was crazy! Made it to my top 10 listArclei:
Thanks for the amazing recc!!
The commitment is what sold it for sure. And anytime ❤️❤️❤️ Let me know when you watch "Xun Ye" aka Tamed by Temptation. 60% of it is amazing RR, then of course the puppy ML gets feisty at the end, but the FL is still calling the shots in the actual relationship. I'll message you the Dailymotion links with full audio.
Oh! And I'm going to start The Princess Decree tonight!!! I'm excited. Those screenshots you posted keep flashing through my mind.
I hope you're having a great week, Simipotatocouch:
My week has been incredibly hectic, and I haven't had much opportunity to watch any dramas, which is somewhat disappointing. I'm looking forward to the weekend as I have a couple of shows I want to catch up on. By the way, what is the name of the show you and Arclei are discussing? It seems like it would be really interesting since you both are writing so much about it, but I couldn't find the name, haha.
Wasn't sure it'd be my cup of tea either until she strung him up to that tree and whipped him back.potatocouch:
AHAHAHAHA- You're so real for that! XD
That was SO CUTE. Did you peep the nose twitch? He's like an adorable bunny.potatocouch:
Omg you're so right! Adorable!!
but talking about the drama makes me want to experience it all over again.potatocouch:

Btw, the ML was so pretty. I loved his face. He reminds me of Win Win from the C-pop group WAYV.potatocouch:
He's super pretty frrrr- and I totally see the resemblance!! Like whaaaat?!
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I'm still not sure if the pic you posted was from ML from "FL" or the singer xD
Also, wait... I've seen this Winwin dude twice??? He's only in 4 dramas O-O
Anyway, I need this pairing to star in another RR ASAP.potatocouch:
AGREEEEEEEEEEE!!!
He got in one or two kicks during that fight outside of his apartment door, but that was it. FL to the rescueeeeeee!potatocouch:
It was so cute how helpless he was! Which makes sense cuz he's a reporter, not a thug! Finally,, some realistic regular guy rep! FL coming to the rescue was *chefs kiss*
That entire scene was awesome, tho. Even though I have no clue why this absolute himbo didn't just GO INTO HIS APARTMENT AND LOCK THE DOOR, but for plot reasons, I'll allow him to be dumb. But augh, FL being so angry and protective, and ML having to calm her down? And then he tends to her bloody knuckles on his knees while she watches him like "I got you exactly where I want you."
His girlfriend would literally be like, "But we didn't go to the same high school, babe" and he'd be like, "Sssshhh sssshhhh. Can you make me those noodles I like?" XD Bro, be for real!potatocouch:
Ikrrrr? I think he thought she was being playful with him, but bro, you cannot be this dense! There are none so blind as those who will not see type shit. Like, yes, king, if you don't think about it, it can't hurt you!
it's the sexy time song.potatocouch:
I'm SOBBIIINNNGGG- Every time I hear it I crack up- "I've been having dreams... jumping on a trampoline" yup, nothing sexier than that! People look sooo sexy jumping on trampolines! ToT
Also, yes, omg yes, the Red song ToT But at least that one I get a bit more...?
I guess this is only an English-speaker problem xD
If verticals actually paid for copyright, they'd owe Monogram, Shaed, and Everyone Loves An Outlaw millions of dollars.potatocouch:
Where's the lie? LMFAO
Let me know when you watch "Xun Ye" aka Tamed by Temptationpotatocouch:
Definitely will do! I have a few others lined up atm but I'll defs check it out. Thanks for the link! ^^
Oh! And I'm going to start The Princess Decree tonight!!! I'm excited. Those screenshots you posted keep flashing through my mind.potatocouch:
And? How are you liking it thus far?
My week has been incredibly hectic, and I haven't had much opportunity to watch any dramas, which is somewhat disappointing.Simi_Tutu:
I'm sorry to hear that :( I hope you get some much needed escapism and relaxation this weekend 💕
By the way, what is the name of the show you and Arclei are discussing?Simi_Tutu:
We've been geeking out over Forever Love. Come join ussss!

AHAHAHAHA- You're so real for that! XDArclei:
I mean, what can I say? 😏
I'm still not sure if the pic you posted was from ML from "FL" or the singer xDArclei:
Hahaha it was Win Win. They need to do a DNA test.
Also, wait... I've seen this Winwin dude twice??? He's only in 4 dramas O-OArclei:
That's because he was mainly focusing on being in his idol group. First he was in NCT 127, which mainly promoted in Korea, then he was moved to their Chinese subunit WAYV, which is active in China. He only started dabbling in dramas in 2023. I've been a fan of his (musically) for a long time, but sadly none of his dramas have been my cup of tea :-/
What have you seen him in? Or was it just in passing?
Even though I have no clue why this absolute himbo didn't just GO INTO HIS APARTMENT AND LOCK THE DOOR, but for plot reasons, I'll allow him to be dumb. But augh, FL being so angry and protective, and ML having to calm her down? And then he tends to her bloody knuckles on his knees while she watches him like "I got you exactly where I want you."Arclei:
Yeah, he could've definitely just went into his apartment. The door was wide open and everything. But he wanted to be rescued and she came through 😌 They both got what they wanted.
I guess this is only an English-speaker problem xDArclei:
Right? Everyone else is having a good time. I mean, we are too, but LOL.
And? How are you liking it thus far?Arclei:
I ended up being too sleepy a minute into the first episode, so I stopped because I want to give it my full attention. Review coming soon!
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yall any rr recommendation where ml initially hates fl.
Hates, huh? Hmmmm...
- Bound by Sin - Very strong dislike, bordering on hate.
- The Princess Royal - Love/hate situation. Turns to love pretty quickly. Kinda got the feeling he never truly hated her but not sure.
- The Blue Whisper: Part 1 - Absolutely loathes her.
- Qi Yue Bang Ding Hei Yue Guang - Hates her but pretends not to.
- Hong Luan Yin - All but 1 ML hate her guts but fall for her quickly (TML falls the slowest and was the most RR and bbg imo <3)
- Love Crossed - He dislikes her quite a bit (less RR than others)
- Wake up to Fantasy - He's trying to kill her kinda hate (subs for this one seem to have vanished tho)
- The Princess Decree - Also a love/hate situation. It's complicated and doesn't really reach true hate because they used to be lovers and he still has feelings for her + feels guilt (RR at first and a lot less so later)
- Fu Ma Mei Tian Du Xiang He Li - Hate might be a bit much, but strong resentment and dislike.
- Feng Ta and Forever Love - Dislike. (Feng Ta is RR only for half the drama)
Oh My General and The Romance of Tiger and Rose too but ik you watched them already.
That's all I got. Honestly, more than I was expecting... xD
He only started dabbling in dramas in 2023. I've been a fan of his (musically) for a long time, but sadly none of his dramas have been my cup of tea :-/potatocouch:
Yeah, figured he was one of those idols doing acting gigs on the side, but still, quite surprising I saw him so often xD
I saw him briefly in Moonlit Reunion and Snowfall (which I swear I'll continue one day). He appears as a guest in MR, but he was cute there. And he's the SML in Snowfall but I didn't get far even though I did like it (bad timing... damn mood watching lol)
Side note, but the amount of pretty boys Moonlit Reunion had should be studied. It was also full of minidrama actors! So many familiar faces, lol
But he wanted to be rescued and she came through 😌 They both got what they wanted.potatocouch:
So true! We love that for them
I ended up being too sleepy a minute into the first episode, so I stopped because I want to give it my full attention. Review coming soon!potatocouch:
Completely valid. Better to be wide awake for those first eps. Otherwise, it'll jolt you awake cuz they'll defs leave your eyes wide 😂
would A Journey to Love be one ?Simi_Tutu:
I have not watched that one so I wouldn't know 👀
I have not watched that oneArclei:
I believed this title would pique your interest. I haven't had the chance to see it yet. It's on my PTW list. I came across information suggesting that the role reversal trope is quite prominent in the series, particularly with the female lead desiring to have a child with the male lead without any emotional ties, which he finds unacceptable. That, to me, indicates that I will surely enjoy the series. Initially, I thought it would be an enemies-to-lovers story because of the political elements in the drama, but I'm unsure how to verify that. Regardless, I still consider it a worthwhile title to keep on my radar this year.

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