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 Arclei:
combat it by starting a lot of dramas at once

I'm watching 16 dramas at the moment, so this strategy could be effective. lol

 Arclei:
Lmfaaaoooo

Now now, are you making fun of me, my dear friend ? What happened to that little list of submissive male leads you’ve got tucked away in your back pocket? ;P

 Simi_Tutu:
She gets the same boring haircut every single time. He just gives her a trim and then treats her to what feels like a 10-minute hair wash

I meant was he good at the haircuts. Sounds like he was. And a ten minute scalp massage? No wonder she was a repeat customer hahaha. 

It's been a while since I've watched a Taiwanese drama. Sometimes it even feels like they stopped making them. I might check it out if I'm bored even though the characters sound clueless. 

 Simi_Tutu:
Sounds like my kind of party. I would have been laughing along with you

You would've been welcomed! It's fun having a mama that also likes dramas, but I'm always trying to have big watch parties.

 Simi_Tutu:
People usually gravitate towards dramas that follow the same old formula and are as deep as a puddle

That's why I'm pleasantly surprised every time I like a "popular" drama because usually I can't get on board. There have only been a few exceptions over the years. 

I guess it's true most people gravitate to the same thing over and over again. Yeah, there's comfort in the familiar, but I really enjoy exploring the unknown. That's why I got into Asian dramas in the first place. 

 Simi_Tutu:
I used to snag the books from Borders

Omg I used to read it at Borders too! On the little steps for kids even though I had no business being there XD. Aww, I'll always miss Borders. I'm grateful for Barnes & Noble, but it's not the same. Anyway, I ended up borrowing the rest of the series from another otaku I met at work.

 Simi_Tutu:
I'm watching 16 dramas at the moment, so this strategy could be effective. lol

Fingers crossed it works 

 Simi_Tutu:
What happened to that little list of submissive male leads you’ve got tucked away in your back pocket? ;P

Eyyyyy, I would never gatekeep a list like that!!! xD 

I should probably make that list, now that I think about it, haha

 Arclei:
Like c'mere, you skyscraper. Who's a good skyscraper? 

Hahahahaha! 🤣

Does skyscraper want a hug? Come on. I gotchu. Pspspspsps.

(Me to Zhang Ling He)

 Arclei:
Korean actors are allowed to be a bit more bbg regardless of height, from what I've seen. 

True. Encounter, and every Lee Jong Suk drama is evidence of that. 

I wonder what causes the difference in mindset. I'm intrigued 🤔

 Arclei:
I'm lowkey scared of his fandom

Don't worry, I don't bite. (Unless you're him :p) They were styling him crazy in some of his earlier dramas. Especially Maiden Holmes. Those wigs were crimes against humanity. 

 Arclei:
I'm cryiiiing, you're too much xD

Just make sure you log on 🥺 You and my best friend would literally be the only ones who knew the cause of death. 

 Arclei:
Zhu Yu seems like it'll be at least somewhat RR.

Omg is that a "Physically Strong Female Lead" tag I see? RIP me. Between this and Sweetest Rebellionyou're really about to be Zooming into my funeral.

 Arclei:
In Love Crossed, he plays a soft bbg companion to a girlboss CEO, but the drama is a campy mess. I've only watched half so idk how it continues.

I almost watched this, but two things stopped me:

1. ZLH being part of the secondary couple

2. Other people telling me the drama was a campy mess lol

Even when I'm obsessed with a man, his work still has to be good for me to support it. 

I know I can be quite picky, but I feel like I've watched too many dramas not to be??

 Arclei:
It took me not one, not TWO, but THREE tries to finish this drama, though, so I get what you mean. There's also a really shite scene in the middle of the drama that almost made me drop it 'cause I felt that betrayed.

Oh man...should I give it another shot? My friend, who just got into C-dramas last year, is watching it now. 

What was the scene that betrayed you? Am I gonna be able to take it when I already found it tough to get through the drama? 🥲

 Arclei:
He would DEVOUR in a noona romance. I don't think the world is ready.

I know I'm not...even though I want it. 

 Arclei:
He and Hou Minghao were made to be consorts/concubines/trophy husbands. 

YES!!!!! This is one of the reasons I'm having a hard time with Love in the Clouds. I haven't been able to move past ep 4 or 5 because I can't take the domineering playboy act, and how goofy the FL has to be to maintain her "cover". It exasperates me that the plot of the drama is a strong female warrior (with the appearance of a man) losing her powers and going back into "woman-mode", and being at everyone's mercy until she gets them back. I would've been so into the drama if she was just a warrior and he was a sly dandy, and they go on an adventure and fall in love. 

 Arclei:
I also feel like a lot of idol actors just... don't have the skill required to portray more complex characters. Like badboys are usually intimidating morally grey and layered characters (in theory) and they just don't go it ToT

You're sooo right. I don't think the writing in a lot of these idol dramas helps matters either. 

 Arclei:
Oh yikes, really? Huh... glad you told me cuz I was not expecting that in this drama, lol. 

You know we can't completely escape it. 

 Arclei:
Why does it kinda feel like the moment a man expresses desire, the roles flip... It's RR while she's pursuing him, but once he's into it, then it turns to slop? Tf? 

Because apparently men can't express desire in a non-active way. 

Meanwhile, tons of Dominatrixes are in business and make bank >.> And I read that their clients are often powerful men. 

It honestly makes me feel bad for men for not being able to express these desires. Or even switch things up without their masculinity being questioned. 

 Arclei:
and everyone mentions its RR-ness, so I was definitely expecting something more. TOT

Girl, it was Dua Lipa—it gave us nothing when it came to RR. If FL weren't older, it wouldn't even be in my RR list. (Honestly, I can't even remember if it is LOL). I loved everything else about the drama, but I specifically remember being bummed out about the lack of RR moments during my first watch. 

 Arclei:
ike, my expectations for The Princess Royal were on the ground because everyone and their mom kept saying how shit FL was, how awful, how selfish, how this and that and... I found her interesting and even relatable.

I literally NEVER believe anything bad people say about FLs until I watch the drama myself. NEVER. I do not trust anyone when it comes to FL assessments because they will literally dislike her over the dumbest crap. Like not being nice enough or not sacrificing herself for someone or something. Meanwhile, the ML is on his second genocide, and they're like..."Well...his father favored his brother when they were growing up. It was really hard for him. That's why he kills people." Or they'll crush on the legitimately horrific villain. I really can't with people. I gave up.

I heard the FL in The Princess Royal was "horrible" too, but that didn't stop me because I knew people were just being biased. At this point, when people vehemently dislike a FL/female character, I know the chances are I'm probably going to like her. 

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By the way, yes, I did finish Bound by Sin. I can see why you dropped it at ep 10 because after that the ML initiated most of their intimate moments. I will say this though: the FL didn't become mushy. She was still level-headed and brave, and the drama did give us one last big RR moment by having her propose to him. He held the bouquet and walked up the aisle to her and everything lol. 

The ending irked me though because I hate open endings that try too hard to be open, if that makes any sense. Basically the war was over, ML was alive, and citizens were dancing in the streets, but the screenwriter/director still chose to end the drama without the ML and the FL reuniting. It was so unnecessary to end it like that if everyone's alive and well.

Also, I'm in the middle of ep 8 of The Princess Decree, and you were right: those first four episodes were addictive. I blew through them! And ugh, the ML was giving it his all. The way he was crying, shivering, and quaking when she was writing those characters on his bare back??? He's very much an upright scholar who's being undignified, and I was greedily drinking him in.

And this????

This was insane. The song "Walk him like a dog. Walk him like a dog, sis" started playing in my head, and I was not proud 😫😂 This poor baby. The actor is definitely carrying the drama though. I know FL's character is only pretending to be a black flag, but I wanted wilder, crazier eyes from her, and some grit in her voice when she was punishing him in front of the court and his contemporaries (or the voice actor's voice if it's dubbed). It felt like the actress was still trying to look "pretty" while doing all of that, but looking pretty needs to go out the window to draw viewers into an intense performance. For example, I hate how soft and stable her voice sounds when she's yelling at him. I want her to shriek, I want her voice to get rough sometimes, and I want it to break. I want her face to contort with anger and sorrow, but instead her eyes just get wider. The actress's portrayal is very tame and controlled. I completely see what you were saying about her. 

I'm bummed that all the RR stuff in the drama is already over, but I'm gonna see if I can finish it anyway. The cinematography is stunning, and I want to see what their dynamic will be like once they get together. 

 Arclei:
"Is he an interesting character or is the actor just attractive to me?" and I fear the answer is usually the latter ToT

Exactly. 

 Arclei:
You're welcome~ :P

I'm eating well :3

 Arclei:
"Huh, the feeling of wanting to die stopped,"

That's so relatable! I'm actually stunned. I'm gonna have to watch this drama for the beautiful androgynous ML + the accurate menstrual cycle rep. 

 Arclei:
Okidoki, I'll make a note to spam you when I watch it! 

Yay!

 Arclei:
Never heard of this, but it sounds incredible!!! To my PTR list it goes!

It was very cute, and I remember there being lots of RR moments, but I can't remember if it'd hold up against my RR standards today, so keep that in mind. 

 Arclei:
I'll work on setting this up in the coming days. No promises on how quick I will be because servers take quite some time to set up XD

No worries. Take your time. We appreciate all the work you do <3

 Arclei:
Hong Luan Yin - A reversed harem

HELLLLOOOO???? IMAGE #3 AND #7?!!!! I CHOKED!!!

If it's the same dude in the white robe from the cover, I knew he was gonna be my favorite!!! An exposed shoulder (or two) in a historical is my weakness. 

But alas, I am bereft! I've been trying to find this drama with the full audio for a week! Usually, I'm good at finding dramas with the full audio, but this one's proving to be a challenge, which surprises me because it's the obscure dramas that are harder to find. I can usually find a popular short on Dailymotion, Rumble, or Reelxia in two seconds. Does anyone know if the drama is on iQiyi or any official short drama apps? I'm not above signing up for a free trial to get the full experience. 

I still can't believe reverse harems have come this far. It hurts seeing people live your drama, but I'm proud of the FL.

 Arclei:
He said he was framed in the palace, but why become a courtesan?

Ssssshhhh, don't ask questions >.>

 Arclei:
His little wide-eyed jumps were ADORABLE.

Ugh, this short was written for me. I'm gonna cry 🥹

 Arclei:
It does lean a bit heavy into the kinda femdom I'm not the biggest fan of (that being male humiliation),

Like I said, your first month's rent will be due soon because I hate the degradation kink anywhere in my media whether it's done to a man or woman. 

 Arclei:
His white robes and the loose hair with those puppy eyes on the brink of tears were doing something to me.

Okay, so this is my baby. Omg. He's a beauty. 

 Arclei:
There's a scene where she's applying medicine to his back, and she pushes him down, and it's exquisite, tbh. She also wants him to call her "jiejie" as a reward for helping him~ AAAAAAA

*sigh* So, you're going to get the Zoom funeral invite a little early. Do you know the actor's name? 

 Arclei:
He's the very loud, childish kind with a hot temper

Hate this type of character with a passion 🥲 I have never once liked a male character like this, and I rarely like FLs like this too. 

God, I'm dying to watch Hong Luan Yin. If I still can't find it in two days, I might just have to settle for the distorted audio uploads on Youtube. They pain me so much, and do weird things to my mild OCD, but I might have no choice if I want to see pretty boys being dommed. 

 Arclei:
And did I mention ML has glasses? Because he does, and he looks so cute with them! It was only when watching this drama that I realized how rare it is to find a ML with glasses in an RR drama. What a miss~ we need more nerdy cuties 

Added. And you're right. That's a big miss opportunity. There are so many streamy scenes you can build around glasses. 

 Arclei:
She even abducts him from his own wedding to another woman because, and I quote, "your wedding night can only be mine." 

Bahahaha! I can't wait to watch this. You compared it to Forever Love, and I was sold. 

 Arclei:
IT'S THE MEME!!

THAT IS EPIC!!! 

 Arclei:
Wu Tianhao's pleading face is next level-

Why do you think I stalk his MDL. This man's face is a gift to RR lovers. 

 Arclei:
subspace

You really just said "subspace". My goodness, this is serious LOL. 

 Arclei:
in front of his family. In front of his friends. In front of his teachers

So, they're exhibitionists 💀 Lovely. Can't wait. 

 Arclei:
He definitely has a preferred role and gets typecasted because he's the actor with the most RR titles under his belt! But like with a face like that, I get it. 

This is one actor who I'm not mad is typecast lol. Sorry bro, but with a face like that, it was your destiny. 

Speaking of Wu Tian Hao, if anyone's looking for another RR featuring him, Gu Huo Zhi Yi Ai Wei Gu is one of his newer shorts:

Objectively it's a good RR, but subjectively something wasn't clicking for me, so I dropped it after about 30 minutes. I figured I'd mention it in case anyone else was interested. The costumes are absolutely stunning, and the RR scenes are plentiful. 

https://kisskh.at/799248-gu-huo

If anyone wants the full audio upload, hit me up. 

 Arclei:
For those who like mutually possessive lovers but still remaining RR, this one was great! 

Oh wow, look at that! We didn't think it could be done and here we are. 

 Arclei:
I feel like that's probably a context-based term that just doesn't translate properly, but I do hear them use the word "dog", so I don't know... Is it just another term for someone submissive in China? 

When they just use gǒu (dog), it's usually offensive/said in a demeaning way. But when they add the word "xiǎo" (literally translates to "small" or "little") in front, it usually turns it into a term of endearment. Like calling someone a puppy. Here's what I found online:

Xiǎo gǒu (小狗) in Mandarin Chinese literally means "small dog" and is the common term for a puppy, but can also refer affectionately to small dogs of any age, or even be used in internet slang for types of young men (like xiǎo nǎi gǒu - "little puppy" for sweet/innocent) or as part of other slang.

 Simi_Tutu:
My love life with new dramas just can't compete with the fiery passion I had for the ones in my past. It's like that ex you just can't shake off. But How can I even think about starting a new relationship with a potential new husband if I'm still hung up on the one that got away? *fake cries*

This is so relatable LOL. 

 Arclei:
which, according to @potato wasn't all that RR (Femboy ML aside)

Not much RR at alllll. Great visuals though. 

 Arclei:
Started a long-form kdrama and am really struggling with it.

I'm struggling too. I fear minis and verticals are destroying my attention span. 

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Sorry for spamming the thread. I had a lot of catching up to do lol. 

 potatocouch:
Not much RR at alllll. Great visuals though. 

Thanks for confirming. 

Wish historical kdramas did more RR... :( China, Japan, and even Thailand already did matriarchies... wtf is up, Korea?

 potatocouch:
I'm struggling too. I fear minis and verticals are destroying my attention span. 

Oh, this is my fear too... TOT

 potatocouch:
Sorry for spamming the thread. I had a lot of catching up to do lol. 

Never apologize for yapping. Delighted to read through all your msgs! xD I started replying, then kept seeing notifs pop up, haha

 potatocouch:
or even be used in internet slang for types of young men (like xiǎo nǎi gǒu - "little puppy" for sweet/innocent) or as part of other slang.

Ahhhh, so it was some kinda context-based slang. Still doesn't quite explain why it's basically in every drama, especially minis. Like, it's not even always xiao gou used for the cute guy, it's just gou, which always throws me off a bit cuz yeah, like you said, it's most often used in a derogatory way. But maybe that's intentional, and it's supposed to be a bit of both? Otherwise could be some kinda smexual slang perhaps? 

 potatocouch:
Does skyscraper want a hug? Come on. I gotchu. Pspspspsps.

Skyscrapers offer the best place to rest your head... tiddies

 potatocouch:
and every Lee Jong Suk drama is evidence of that. 

Another MF that was born to be a concubine XD istg

I also wonder why it's different in certain places. Hmmm....

 potatocouch:
They were styling him crazy in some of his earlier dramas. Especially Maiden Holmes. Those wigs were crimes against humanity. 

Yeah, like what a waste of a pretty man

 potatocouch:
Omg is that a "Physically Strong Female Lead" tag I see? RIP me. Between this and Sweetest Rebellion, you're really about to be Zooming into my funeral.

Did you watch the trailer? Becaaauuuuussseeee 

Like she carries him on her back, takes him in, he looks up at her with puppy eyes, and looks stunning. She protects him from baddies? She also shows up in armor which liiiike- Augh- It definitely seems promising! 

Also isn't Love’s Rebellion kinda RR too? (I saw "Rebellion" and was reminded, lol.)

 potatocouch:
Other people telling me the drama was a campy mess lo

DAAAAANG guilty as charged. I mean, you can probably get a good idea of the vibe of the show based on the first episode. If you like campy and wacky plots, then you might like it. I, for one, definitely do so I enjoyed what I watched xD The AI boyfriend shenanigans are just too fucking hysterical to me... Like the down-bad-ism of FL is next-lvl

As for your man, I mean, yeah, he's in the secondary couple, but he gets with a CEO, and he's actively trying to seduce her while lowkey being innocent asf about what he's doing, so liiiiiiike it's giving. 


 potatocouch:
Oh man...should I give it another shot?

Well, if you struggled through the beginning, then you might struggle through all of it cuz it has its usual cdrama dragginess... And there's a love triangle too, which a lot of people found unbearable, but I thought was just regular love-triangle bad XD But a lot of ZLH fans were very upset that SML got "ML moments". Maybe I'm just too dense to get what that means

But there's this very nice scene where FL breaks into ML's family home when he's being punished by his family and protects the hell out of him, and it's probably one of my fav scenes in a drama. 

They had a very... idk... interestingly role-reversed dynamic that wasn't quite as RR as I wanted but still more RR than I was expecting. ML highkey thriving in his consort role and very much has wife energy (attentive, caretaker, gentle-parenting, and also a bit of a nag), meanwhile FL has lots of husband energy (tired of this shit, protective asf, and endlessly clueless), so they're fun. 

 potatocouch:
What was the scene that betrayed you? Am I gonna be able to take it when I already found it tough to get through the drama?

Basically, there's a scene where ML forces himself on FL and doesn't stop even when she tells him repeatedly to. He even pins her down, and like... it gets pretty bad until she literally hurts him to get him off. Then he starts crying about how he loves her so much and how she doesn't love him right or whatever, and they end up making up... 

This is NEVER brought up again and came COMPLETELY out of left field. I felt utterly betrayed to see such a pookie babygirl turn like that. I had to put the drama on-hold for months to recover. I discussed it with others at the time, and it isn't even a scene from the novel, so idk why that was included. It was really unnecessary and nasty. 


 potatocouch:
I can't take the domineering playboy act, and how goofy the FL has to be

My brother started this one and said the same thing ToT 

 potatocouch:
It exasperates me that the plot of the drama is a strong female warrior (with the appearance of a man) losing her powers and going back into "woman-mode"

China seems to be on a fucking roll with this trope... Legend of the Female General, Shadow Love... etc... Yikes. I hate that so much. 

Have you considered starting Glory? I've almost started it several times cuz it's Neo Hou as a consort to a bigshot businesswoman and tumblr is being very normal about it, lol

I nearly passed away searching for these GIFS... oh.my.god- I can't even put into words what I'm feeling- Her kissing his hand that way? I'm sorry?? Ohmygod

Maybe I should just start this drama tomorrow... O///-///O


 potatocouch:
You're sooo right. I don't think the writing in a lot of these idol dramas helps matters either. 

Defs true too T_T

 potatocouch:
It honestly makes me feel bad for men for not being able to express these desires. Or even switch things up without their masculinity being questioned. 

Right? How sad is that :/

 potatocouch:
I loved everything else about the drama, but I specifically remember being bummed out about the lack of RR moments during my first watch. 

BRuuuhhh that's such a shame!!! I was hoping for some good revenge RR craziness :( Lowkeeeyyyyy went down on my PTW priority list, hahaha 

 potatocouch:
they will literally dislike her over the dumbest crap. Like not being nice enough or not sacrificing herself for someone or something.

LITERALLY THOOOO T_T It's crazyyyy. You see FL hate, and it's literally just an average woman. And like you said... MLs getting glazed or excused for literal CRIMES.

 potatocouch:
"Well...his father favored his brother when they were growing up. It was really hard for him. That's why he kills people."

I'm sobbing because this isn't even an exaggeration T_T

 potatocouch:
At this point, when people vehemently dislike a FL/female character, I know the chances are I'm probably going to like her. 

You needa pay rent too cuz this is what I'm always saying!! I know when I struck gold based on negative reviews!! "The ML is a pathetic simp" Gold. "The FL was nasty" Gold. Thank you! 


 potatocouch:
and the drama did give us one last big RR moment by having her propose to him. He held the bouquet and walked up the aisle to her and everything lol. 

FUCK YEEEEAAAHHHH- do you remember the episode? For... science... Otherwise, I'll hunt it down dw

 potatocouch:
It was so unnecessary to end it like that if everyone's alive and well.

Ugh how annoying.... 🙄 "If you have to force it it's prolly shite"-ahh ending. Okay then. Glad I dropped it. What a shame cuz it started out SO scrumptious! Like the car scene??? mmmm


 potatocouch:
The way he was crying, shivering, and quaking when she was writing those characters on his bare back??? He's very much an upright scholar who's being undignified, and I was greedily drinking him in.

Girl, RIGHT??? The corruption of the noble scholar. The way this man exploded my screenshots folder is diabolical. Like, I need this man in another (better) RR STAT, it's for my survival!!! The 

The body-writing scene was like my fav omg- he looked immaculate. I still need to make the GIFs for this one... 😏 

 potatocouch:
but I wanted wilder, crazier eyes from her, and some grit in her voice when she was punishing him

Yeeeeeeeeesssssssss. This is what I mean with it feeling like the actress was lowkey uncomf- Like she wasn't really delivering a believable unhinged enraged woman, even if she was only pretending!! 

 potatocouch:
For example, I hate how soft and stable her voice sounds when she's yelling at him.

Hard agree!

 potatocouch:
I'm bummed that all the RR stuff in the drama is already over, but I'm gonna see if I can finish it anyway. The cinematography is stunning, and I want to see what their dynamic will be like once they get together. 

I know the feeling! I also finished it and wasn't mad that I did, despite being bummed that it wasn't as RR as I was hoping for. Glad you thoroughly enjoyed those eps like I did! I hope we get more dramas with this, like plsssss

 potatocouch:
That's so relatable! I'm actually stunned. I'm gonna have to watch this drama for the beautiful androgynous ML + the accurate menstrual cycle rep. 

Ah... sorry to hear that *high five* It's defs cute asf so far, so I'd recommend 

 potatocouch:
but I can't remember if it'd hold up against my RR standards today, so keep that in mind. 

Valid! I expect less RR from older titles anyways so no worries ^^

 potatocouch:
No worries. Take your time. We appreciate all the work you do <3

💖💗💓 



 potatocouch:
HELLLLOOOO???? IMAGE #3 AND #7?!!!! I CHOKED!!!

Oh shit- we have the same type xD 

 potatocouch:
If it's the same dude in the white robe from the cover, I knew he was gonna be my favorite!!! An exposed shoulder (or two) in a historical is my weakness. 

Literally considered watching dramas only because of exposed shoulders. I am but a repressed victorian man ToT

 potatocouch:
Does anyone know if the drama is on iQiyi or any official short drama apps?

I honestly have no idea :( You might wanna ask in the vertical drama thread and see if one of the link-folks got it. 

 potatocouch:
I still can't believe reverse harems have come this far.

RIGHT?! I am elated!! 

 potatocouch:
Ssssshhhh, don't ask questions >.>

Valid. Who am I to question a man who wants to spend his days being a pretentious courtesan? Go off (prince) king! Get that bag! 

 potatocouch:
Like I said, your first month's rent will be due soon because I hate the degradation kink anywhere in my media whether it's done to a man or woman. 

BROOOO the way I just get the ICK ToT It's in p much every femdom drama too with a few exceptions. AUgh... Can't a beautiful subby man just be loved and cherished? LET THAT MAN SUBMIT, IT'S IN HIS NATURE! 

 potatocouch:
*sigh* So, you're going to get the Zoom funeral invite a little early. Do you know the actor's name? 

Nah, you can't pass yet, I have too many dramas to recommend you xD 

Yes, it's Yi Hang! I also had to look him up to find another drama, but he doesn't seem to do RR a lot :( If you find one, let me know.

 potatocouch:
Hate this type of character with a passion

Lucky for you he appears the least! 

 potatocouch:
God, I'm dying to watch Hong Luan Yin

😭 😭 😭 I'm sorry for making it worse. I tried searching for the link with full audio, but couldn't find it either... The distorted audio really is shite, tho so I get it. Sometimes it's better to just mute it, methinks

Fingers crossed you're able to find it! I'd love to know what you thought of it


 potatocouch:
There are so many streamy scenes you can build around glasses. 

I knooooowwwwwwww- We are being deprived :( 

 potatocouch:
You compared it to Forever Love, and I was sold. 

DISCLAIMER- first half is good- don't bother with the second xD


 potatocouch:
Why do you think I stalk his MDL. This man's face is a gift to RR lovers. 

You're so real for that. Fellow person of culture 

 potatocouch:
You really just said "subspace". My goodness, this is serious LOL. 

That's the only way I can describe it- It was exquisite 

 potatocouch:
This is one actor who I'm not mad is typecast lol.

Absolutely, hard agree! And he still gets plenty of dommy roles too, so he's fine *sobbing*

 potatocouch:
Objectively it's a good RR, but subjectively something wasn't clicking for me, so I dropped it after about 30 minutes.

I watched this one last year cuz that intro hooked me like the hungry fish that I am. The beginning was INCREDIBLE!!! Her literally kidnapping and sensually torturing him?! AUGH, but it then reverses the roles shortly after, and he goes into abusive dom territory, like keeping her locked up and chained and marrying her in chains, it's shite. I skimmed the second half, and she dies at the end.

So yeah, you basically dropped it before it went to shit if I had to take a guess. Surprisingly, I skimmed through it today again just to make sure I remembered how it went down cuz I remember being obsessed with the beginning, but no, it was bad. :P What are the odds

This is the drama I was referencing in my post about Alluring Night. They're very similar, only that AN was infinitely better

Currently watching update... 

A Happy Life - Cute matriarchy VR drama with lovers to enemies to lovers. It's reminding me quite a bit of The Eternal Love Season 3 and Romance of Tiger and Rose only that FL seems to genuinely be having the time of her life in this matriarchy, which I thoroughly appreciate! It's also genuinely cute and funny, and the way the game mechanics work is pretty clever.

She already snatched two men and married them both against their will! She also frequents brothels and just goes all out enjoying her life. The husband's dynamic is hilarious. All the men thus far have been courtesans, which is also a delight. As always, I have my eyes on the one she didn't pick that's just so cute and lowkey killing the fem look. Hoping he gets a love interest, but I'm not holding my breath ToT

My Undead Yokai Girlfriend - Decided to start this one in my attempt to find something that grips me and... well... a terrible first impression ToT It's so... male-gazey and cringy, I really struggled. They really stripped ML of any sex appeal he could possibly have, and the only reason he isn't outright unbearable is because the actor is, shocker shocker, attractive (the leads do the devils tango in ep 1 and bro... I was NOT ready for the way they portrayed ML... Please just hire ONE woman. PLEASE!!!!). The loserism is diabolical, bro. It doesn't help that the comedy isn't landing with me at all, so I'm just consistently like 😬 I am unfortunately still mildly intrigued because I'm a sucker for fantasy, so I'll prolly give it an ep or two more before deciding if I should drop. 

Sniper Butterfly - Another attempt at my slump fix because I kept thinking about it (needed a fix of a shy man, ok). Watched one ep so far. First half was confusing as hell, second half was what I was expecting. ML really is so fucking cute, omg. In his cinderella-ahh situation, his never-resting eyes, and the fact that he's comically tall but shy asf, augh (I kept thinking how much it must suck to be tall and shy (especially liking someone who's short) like, where tf do you look?)

FL already protective as hell, we love a knight in denim jeans. And ML's lil acts of service... The cutie. And did I mention how much of a sucker I am for mistreated MLs? LOVE THAT SHIT

Seems like he becomes a bigshot later who earns way more than FL, which is definitely a choice. I do like how, despite him being far more typical of a ML in the 'present' day, he's still a puppy at heart. Noona romances got me good.

and lastly... 

和妹妹换亲后,康巴汉子真香了 - A vertical mini (not on MDL yet) where FL allegedly marries two men! Very excited for some poly rep and with a Tibetan setting! Not RR so far, and I think it'll probably not be RR save for the marriage dynamic, but I'll update later.

 Arclei:
wtf is up, Korea?

It's in line with their reputation 😬

SK is a mental quandary. They have some of the better female characters in Asian dramas, but other things are very regressive. 

 Arclei:
But maybe that's intentional, and it's supposed to be a bit of both?

Yeah, I think that makes sense. Maybe like a domme calling her sub a little b*tch? 😅 Which is the comparison you kind of made earlier. I guess I was trying to highlight that it can be affectionate too. I'm sure it all depends on the context and the relationship between the people using the word. 


 Arclei:
... tiddies

Not me drinking milk at this very moment 😭 (I ordered it and chocolate chip cookies from McDonald's via UberEats because I wanted a late night snack). What perfect timing LOL. 

 Arclei:
Another MF that was born to be a concubine XD istg

Amen. He's my Korean hubby. Such a cutie patootie. I can't wait for The Remarried Empress. LJS's character gets topped by the FL on their wedding night, and it's one of the best scenes I've ever read in a webtoon. We probably won't get it in the drama, but I can fantasize. 

 Arclei:
he looks up at her with puppy eyes

I. am. not. going. to. survive.

Thank you for putting this on my radar.

And this dude screams "villain", but silver/white hair has been another one of my weaknesses since Sephiroth from Final Fantasy. I'll probably end up hating him because I usually end up hating villains in C-dramas, but god he's beautiful. 

 Arclei:
Also isn't Love’s Rebellion kinda RR too?

It's a reverse Cinderella situation, so it better be full-on RR if the writers know what's good for 'em. I'm pretty sure I posted in here about it a few weeks ago. But to be fair, a lot has happened since then.

 Arclei:
And there's a love triangle too, which a lot of people found unbearable

So...unpopular opinion? I generally like love triangles. Always have. Maybe because all the manga/novels I read as a teen had them? They don't bother me the way they seem to bother a lot of younger people. I mean, two guys? That's a starter harem, babyyyyy.  

 Arclei:
But a lot of ZLH fans were very upset that SML got "ML moments".

Ehhh, I know I just complained about him being in the secondary couple for Love Crossed, but I wouldn't care about the SML having "ML moments" in The Princess Royal as long as they fit his character, and ZLH had other good moments of his own. I actually like when dramas build up the second guy in the love triangle, so the FL has a hard time picking. It's not a very good love triangle if she's not conflicted. 

 Arclei:
ML highkey thriving in his consort role and very much has wife energy (attentive, caretaker, gentle-parenting, and also a bit of a nag), meanwhile FL has lots of husband energy (tired of this shit, protective asf, and endlessly clueless), so they're fun. 

Okay, that's an adorable dynamic. I don't know if I'll ever get back to the drama, but I'll leave the door open. It was completely shut before, but you've convinced me to crack it lol. 

 Arclei:
Basically, there's a scene where ML forces himself on FL and doesn't stop even when she tells him repeatedly to.

Disgusting! 🥴 Why is this in almost every C-drama? It's like an obsession. Okay, I'm gonna have to close the door a little more. It's still open, but barely. Meanwhile, K-dramas haven't done that in forever! It's so bizarre.

 Arclei:
Legend of the Female General, Shadow Love

Stahhhppp. I'm currently watching Shadow Love. You're telling me the FL suddenly stops knowing how to fight?? 😭 I'm already having a hard time with the pacing, so if the FL somehow becomes frail, I'm out. 

And I planned to watch LofFG, but I don't know if I can trust the reviews. How is it? Is it even slightly worth the hype? 

 Arclei:
I nearly passed away searching for these GIFS... oh.my.god- I can't even put into words what I'm feeling- Her kissing his hand that way? I'm sorry?? 

Well well well...what do we have here? O.o This looks scrumptious. Start it so you can tell me if it's safe or if it's another bait and switch. Her kissing his hand gave me chills, but the sharp way she's looking at him, and saying, "I asked you to come here" and how blissed-out his face is in the bottom gif gave me butterflies~!


 Arclei:
You needa pay rent too cuz this is what I'm always saying!!

Nah, don't try to turn this around. You're my tenant XD Send that check/money order/Zelle right on over. 


 Arclei:
I know when I struck gold based on negative reviews!! "The ML is a pathetic simp" Gold. "The FL was nasty" Gold. Thank you! 

REAL.

I've never felt so understood. 

 Arclei:
YEEEEAAAHHHH- do you remember the episode?

End of ep 15 into 16. Beautiful wedding. 

 Arclei:
What a shame cuz it started out SO scrumptious! Like the car scene??? mmmm

I still rated it an 8. The first half lowkey changed my life. It was technically my first RR mini drama. I mean, starting the show off with her making him strip so she could take pics of him, develop them in her dark room, and then taunt him with them later??? The car scene?? All their tension-filled arguments and REAL KISSES?? I'll never forget it. 

 Arclei:
The body-writing scene was like my fav omg- he looked immaculate.

It was the shaking, shivering, crying, and the...it wasn't whimpering. Whatever those noises were, he sold them. Baby was in distress. Took me forever to finish that ep XD

 Arclei:
Glad you thoroughly enjoyed those eps like I did! I hope we get more dramas with this, like plsssss

I did enjoy them. Very happy I decided to watch. I hope we get more dramas like it too. With an actress that has that "dominant charm" and who isn't afraid to commit like the actress in Forever Love. Speaking of, I found another one of her dramas on iQiyi, and she's playing another domineering CEO. Unfortunately, she's part of the secondary couple, but it's a vertical, so I think my attention span can handle it. It's called "The Wedding Mix-Up" on iQiyi. I'll let you know how it is.