i think it's a realistic approach. in real life, those who have endured trauma and carry the weight of an unstable…
Waiting for this drama to air felt like waiting for something incredible to happen, but all I got is disappointment after disappointment. Li Zan is getting sidelined in these episodes, which is just so wrong. The way they’ve made it seem like Song Ran’s pain overshadows his is frustrating, especially when it's clear he’s the one who’s been suffering the most. Even after all of that, he’s still putting her needs first, cheering her up. I've been watching in 1.5x speed, and in some scenes even 2x.
i think it's a realistic approach. in real life, those who have endured trauma and carry the weight of an unstable…
They dragged out the beginning, then rushed through the crucial parts—I feel like this drama is toying with me emotionally, not just with the story itself but with how they’ve handled everything. It’s honestly frustrating to watch. And that’s exactly why I said that if Zheyuan hadn’t personally confirmed that these episodes were just from a different perspective, I’d still think they completely sidelined him.
Honestly, I relate to that last part. If it weren’t for Zheyuan, I probably would’ve dropped this and just go back to read the novel again. 🥲
i think it's a realistic approach. in real life, those who have endured trauma and carry the weight of an unstable…
I get it—I’m not saying the romance wasn’t there before the incident. But ((((personally))), I still feel like their relationship lacks depth. There’s something missing, something that would make his decision to heal for her feel more natural. Right now, it just doesn’t quite hit the mark for me.
And, if you’re just going to force your thoughts on me, then don’t argue with me—there’s no point in an endless back-and-forth. I shared my opinion respectfully, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
i think it's a realistic approach. in real life, those who have endured trauma and carry the weight of an unstable…
If they had truly explored his life—his struggles, his pain, everything that shaped him after the accident—viewers would have a clearer understanding of his journey and perhaps why he chooses to heal for her. Right now, it feels like they’ve barely scratched the surface of his suffering, especially compared to how much time they’ve spent on Song Ran’s perspective.
If I remember correctly, they end up returning to Eastern Country just a few months after getting together. And because of that, instead of fully healing, things actually take a turn for the worse for him.
i think it's a realistic approach. in real life, those who have endured trauma and carry the weight of an unstable…
Having different perspectives is fine—different strokes for different folks—as long as we’re not shoving our opinions down each other’s throats. Personally, I lean more toward the logical side when it comes to romance. While yeah, it’s touching that she inspires him to heal faster, but that alone doesn’t quite sell it for me. I need to see more depth, more buildup in their relationship—something that actually makes it feel earned before jumping straight into that moment. Especially since his wounds aren’t just physical but psychological. The romance kind of overshadows his illness makes it feel almost trivial, like it’s just a minor setback rather than something that actually holds weight.
i think it's a realistic approach. in real life, those who have endured trauma and carry the weight of an unstable…
On the flip side, I do see your point. Ultimately, they’ll become each other’s anchor, but that’s something earned after enduring numerous trials together. As I’ve mentioned before, it’s not entirely outside the realm of possibility, but it feels rushed, almost like it’s being forced. If we consider who truly holds significance for him, I can say his father is the one who matters most, and Song Ran—at that stage—wasn’t exactly his confidante. So, the idea that she’s the catalyst for his healing feels a bit too convenient, a little too soon for such a complex process.
Happy to see Li Zan’s determination to get better, but I kinda wish it wasn’t because of Song Ran. I don’t have personal experience with PTSD, nor do I claim to understand it scientifically, but something about framing his recovery around her feels a bit forced. It’s not that it couldn’t happen, but given where their relationship stands, it doesn’t feel like it’s deep enough yet to carry that weight.
Also, if Zheyuan hadn’t mentioned on Weibo that these past few episodes were just from a different perspective, I’d probably still feel like Li Zan was being treated as a tool. They really haven’t delved into his backstory, his struggles, or his life in any meaningful way—he just seems to appear when it’s time to console her, as if he’s only there for her emotional support.
Is the mental trauma going to be further explained? Because we have not seen much from Li Zan's side compared…
Today’s episodes actually annoyed me because we barely get anything of Li Zan’s pov, but Zheyuan said on Weibo that Li Zan will remember what happened and then maybe we’ll get the chance to see things more from his perspective.
How ridiculously, bookishly, and fictionally correct is this! This is exactly why even serious concepts in Chinese…
It’s like swallowing a bitter pill, but I have to agree. The drama was initially set for 40 episodes, then trimmed down to 38—but honestly, I have no idea what they did with those early episodes. They dragged out unnecessary parts in the beginning, yet somehow decided to remove some key moments from the novel that were crucial for episodes 11 and 12. They definitely didn’t do a great job depicting what happened after Li Zan and Song Ran returned from the Eastern Country. The gravity of their experiences, the emotional aftermath, and the shifts in their dynamic were either glossed over or condensed into fleeting moments that failed to carry the weight they should have.
Noticed how her usual neat, stylish, and carefully curated outfits are gone.. Now, she dresses more like the other employees—simple and down-to-earth. 🤣 And the way she defended Song Ran, that genuinely surprised me. It’s a good change, and she was right—living in the Eastern Country truly shapes people. 😂
I do have a small complaint about this—not only due to Li Zan's limited screen-time but also because the drama…
Yeah, exactly. The way I see it, everything Li Zan has been through feels overshadowed—almost like an afterthought rather than something crucial to the plot. When in fact... novel readers know damn well.
But yeah honestly, I just don't think healing from mental illness is something that can be simplified like that.
Honestly, I relate to that last part. If it weren’t for Zheyuan, I probably would’ve dropped this and just go back to read the novel again. 🥲
And, if you’re just going to force your thoughts on me, then don’t argue with me—there’s no point in an endless back-and-forth. I shared my opinion respectfully, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
If I remember correctly, they end up returning to Eastern Country just a few months after getting together. And because of that, instead of fully healing, things actually take a turn for the worse for him.
Also, if Zheyuan hadn’t mentioned on Weibo that these past few episodes were just from a different perspective, I’d probably still feel like Li Zan was being treated as a tool. They really haven’t delved into his backstory, his struggles, or his life in any meaningful way—he just seems to appear when it’s time to console her, as if he’s only there for her emotional support.